Uhlangabezane nomuntu - onomusa, omnene, ohlakaniphile ... Ukubuyela kwakhe kuphela - wahlukaniswa. Ingabe kufanelekile ukwakha ubuhlobo naye?
Ngokwezibalo, ezweni lethu kusuka emishadweni engu-100 engaba ngu-70 ekupheleni kwesahlukaniso. Futhi-ke amathuba okuhlangana nomuntu wangaphambili womndeni endleleni yakhe yokuphila inkulu kakhulu. Ngesizathu esithile, lokhu kubethusa abantu abaningi. Ungesabi! Uma umshado wakhe wangaphambilini uhlulekile, akusho ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho buzophela njengoba nje buhlungu.
Ububuthakathaka balo
Lapho uhlangana nendoda ehlukanisile, unga ... ... umduduze, naphezu kokuthi uyayidinga. Ngikholelwa, lokhu akuyona inketho engcono kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzokushiya ngokushesha nje lapho esinda esikhathini sokucindezeleka ngemuva kokufa, noma ngabe uzohlala engxenyeni ye "vest" ... Ukuzama ukumsindisa kunoma yini - kusuka ekudakwa ngokweqile noma ngomhawu. Kuphutha ukucabanga ukuthi umkakhe wayephutha into ethile, akazange aqonde, angaqondi, ngakho-ke wafika kulokhu, futhi ungashintsha konke. Ngikholelwa: awukwazi ukushintsha umuntu.
Kungcono ukungangeni emphefumulweni. Uma umuntu engakwazi ukusinda igebe, uzolimazwa imibuzo enjalo. Kungase kuvaliwe noma, ngokuphambene, kuzodingeka ukuthi ukhulume ngemininingwane eyedlule. Kunoma yikuphi, uzobe "uphume ebhokisini". Uma isehlukaniso kuye esikhathini esidlule, uzohleka noma, nakakhulu, athukuthele.
Yibani unina.
Udla ama-sausages nge pasta namadombolo, ahamba ngezinto ezingenayo izinto ezifakiwe? Yiqiniso, kuhle ukubonisa njengomama womkhaya omuhle, kodwa ungasheshi kuwo. Okokuqala thola ukuthi ungubani.
Amandla
Abanye besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda ahlukanisile angcono kunalabo abangashadile, ngoba banolwazi oluningi. Futhi lokhu kunenqobo yayo.
Indoda yomndeni yangaphambili iyathula kakhulu ngabesifazane. Uyazi kahle ukuthi yiziphi izinsuku ezibucayi ezikhona futhi uyaqonda ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi umlingani angaziphathe ngendlela efanele. Wayesevele ehlangene noninazala nomkhwezala, okubaluleke kakhulu.
Wayesejwayele ukusheshisa ekhaya emva komsebenzi, futhi angaphumi nabangani ebhasini. Wayeseqaphele ukuthi umholo kumele uchithe hhayi yena kuphela, kodwa nasemndenini. Ngokungafani nama-bachelors, uyaqonda indlela yokuphatha imisho ethi "Anginakho ukugqoka" futhi "emizuzwini emihlanu izobe isilungele." Usuvele ushiswe ngezikhathi ezinjalo futhi manje uzozama ukuphindaphinda amaphutha afanayo.
Yiqiniso, yena, ngandlela-thile, uzokuqhathanisa ne "yangaphambili." Kodwa ekuqaleni uzokhumbuza futhi amadoda akho.
Akuyona hero yakho. Balekela kuye, uma ...
1. Uhlala njalo ekhuluma ngomkakhe owayengumngane wakhe: "Saya naye ...", "Uthi lapha yiSushi engcono kakhulu edolobheni." Kusobala ukuthi usaxhumene naye. Futhi mhlawumbe ngeke neze akhohlwe.
2. Isikhathi sonke sikhalaza ngaye: "Ungumfazi oyisiphukuphuku, onobuhlungu, obi, engangiqondi." Uma ethi ngakho owesifazane owayeshadile, ungalindela isiphetho esifanayo.
3. Uthi umyeni usolwa ngokuhlukana. Akafuni ukuvuma amaphutha akhe, kodwa bobabili bahileleke ekuphukeni.
4. Akaboni izingane zakhe emshadweni wakhe wokuqala futhi akazisizi ngemali. Yebo, ungubani emva kwalokho?
Ukuze ubuhlobo bakho bube nesimiso esiphakeme, njalo ulalele ukucela kwakhe kanye nezicelo zakhe. Phela, bonke abantu - njengamakati, bahlale bengenalo uthando nomusa. Ngakho-ke, i-caress eyengeziwe, ungalokothi uvimbele. Phatha indoda yakho ngenhlonipho, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngothando. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umyeni wakho noma isoka lakho lesikhathi esihlala njalo likuphathe ngothando futhi akakaze akhangele ukukutshela ngawe, noma ngabe wahlukana, ukuthi unamafutha futhi awubi. Kufanele ulandele njalo ukubukeka kwakho, ngoba ngisho nasekhaya kufanele ubukeke kulula futhi ujabule. Funda ukuhlala kahle!