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Asicabangi ngisho nokuthi sesigugile. Sihlale sizizwa sisencane (noma sisebasha), kodwa izifo ze-physiologists ekuphakameni kwezinkolelo zethu zenze uhlu lwezimpawu zokulawula ukuguga okuzokwenza ukuthi sicabange ngokuhlukile. Akufanele kucatshangwe njengetafula elivela encwadini yokubhekisela kwezokwelapha, ezinye zezimpawu zokuguga eziqaphelwa ososayensi zihlelwe ngendlela engavamile futhi zibonisa izimpawu ezingavamile zokushintsha okungaguquguquki okuhlobene neminyaka. Kungani amagama afana nokuthi "lapho ngisemncane, lokhu kwakungekho" noma "lapha eminyakeni yethu ...", okukhulunywa ngokungenakuqondakala engxoxweni, ngokungaqondi kahle okushiwo intsha yanamuhla nokucabanga ngakho. Uqala ukukhononda ngakho nangaphandle kwesizathu, unesidingo sokukhuluma ngaphandle, ungacabangi ukuthi kungakanani okungeke kwenzeke. Abalobi belo cwaningo abazange bakhathazeke ngokukhethekile ukuchaza izinguquko ezihlobene nobudala emzimbeni, njengoba odokotela nabaganga bezinkinga bezenzo bahlanganyela kulokhu. Kodwa ziphawulwe izibonakaliso ezinjengoba izinwele ezilahlekile ekhanda (ama-alamu, ezineminyaka yobudala, izinwele eziningi zincipha), futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukukhula kwabo okukhulu ezindlebeni, emakhaleni nasomashiya. Ngendlela, izindlebe nazo ziba zikhulu ngokudala. Ukuqina kokunyakaza kuyanyamalala, ngenkathi kuthola ukusheshisa, isikhathi esiningi sidlula. Qala ukudiliza amalunga, kepha inkinga nayo ingenye kwenye indawo - uqala ukukhuluma kabanzi ngalokhu kanye nezinye "izilonda". Ngenxa yokwesaba kokucindezeleka okungazelelwe, gwema ukuphakamisa izisindo. Uqala ukuhluleka inkumbulo, ngisho amagama ezihlobo nabangani bakhohliwe.

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Inhloko yocwaningo yaphawula ukuthi ukuguga kuyinkqubo yemvelo, futhi siphoqeleka ukuba sibone izinguquko zomzimba nezokuziphatha kithi njengoba sikhula. Asikwazi ukuqala usuku ngaphandle kwekhofi noma itiye elimnandi. Ngaso sonke isikhathi, izinto ezincane zansuku zonke njengezihluthulelo, isikhwama sinyamalalala, futhi sithola ezindaweni ezingalindelekile. Izibuko manje zivele zigqoke entanyeni. Kunesithakazelo esibucayi ekubikezelweni kwesimo sezulu ukwazi ukuthi ungaphuma kanjani emgwaqweni. Yebo, izingubo noma izicathulo ziqala ukukhetha ukukhululeka ngaphezulu kwe-sock kunezintandokazi nezemfashini. Konke lokhu akusona isizathu sokukhungatheka, kodwa uma uvakashela umngane futhi uthatha amakhadi akho ekhaya, khona-ke ungacabanga ukuthi inqubo yokuguga isivele ikubophezele. Naphezu kwezinkinga ezinjalo, okuyinto empeleni, akuzona izinkinga nhlobo, abantu abaningi babiza ukuphila kwabo emva kweminyaka engamashumi amahlanu eminyakeni engcono kakhulu.