Yini engcono ukunikeza indoda?

Isipho esingcono kunazo zonke umuntu ayeliphuphile isikhathi eside, kodwa akakwazi ukuzithenga ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa-ke, akuzona zonke izipho ezilula ukusebenza ngokulinganayo. Uthisha ungeke ukwazi ukunikeza umyeni wakhe iBMW entsha. Ukuze ukhethe isipho, ngeshwa, izici eziningi ziphakanyisiwe.

Ngakho, sinikeza obani? Ozakwethu banganikeza into engabizi kakhulu futhi ivinjelwe, kodwa ngokuqinisekile iyasiza: i-mug, ihhovisi elihle, indlela yokunakekela izicathulo (kuyasiza kakhulu ukuba nomsebenzi), ithikithi ekhonsathini yeqembu lakho ozithandayo, uma ulahlela nozakwabo, incwadi entsha, ufunde ngokuzithandela nguye umbhali. Inhloko ingcono ukwethula lesi sipho ngokudlulela kakhulu futhi i-vsykladchinu nabalingani bakho, okungakaze kwenzeke kunoma ubani okusola nge-sycophancy. Kungaba ihhovisi lokunethezeka, utshwala obudakayo kanye nogwayi, ukuvota okudingekayo kwezimoto (osebenza nabo besilisa bazoshukumisa).
Abangane banganikeza noma yini, noma yini, into esemqoka ukwazi emva kwakho konke okufunwa ngumngani wakho njengesipho. Futhi kangcono nakakhulu, ngokuphambene nalokho, unike into engayilindele. Isibonelo, kungcono kumuntu onomlingo osongelwe ukuphunga iziphuzo ukunikeza usuku ku-skatepark eneqashiso lokuvikelwa, ibhodi nomfundisi noma usuku lwe-snowboard. Mhlawumbe, yilokhu okuzokwenza kube yisikhathi eside, futhi, ngenxa yalokho, uyothathwa. Uma umngane ephupha emotweni, kodwa ngandlela-thile awuhlosi ukukunikeza, akhokhele izifundo zokushayela, umsize enze umkhuba, azinikele ekushayeleni imoto yakhe, futhi kungenzeka ngemuva kokuba wonke umuntu azigijime ukuze enze imali yemali. Uma izimali zivakashelwe umkhosi wama-romance, ubophe amasokisi kumngani, ulungise igama lomkhiqizo, wenze ikhava efonini yakho ephathekayo.
Kwabesilisa abangajwayelekile, isibonelo isoka elisha lomngani omkhulu, ozozalwa ngalo usuku lokuzalwa, noma yikuphi okungcono kakhulu kuyinto evimbelayo, yonke indawo futhi engabizi kakhulu: izesekeli zokusheba, isikhwama, ibhizinesi lebhizinisi, isibani esihle, ipayipi yokubhema, isambulela noma amagilavu. Ngisho noma into enjalo isivele ikhona futhi eyakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyoba nesicelo, ngoba konke okungenhla kusetshenziselwa ukulahleka noma ukuphela. Into eyinhloko akuyona ukunikeza noma yini umuntu siqu.
Indlela eqaphele kakhulu ukukhetha isipho kumuntu othandekayo. Kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezipho zendabuko kungcono ukwenqaba ngaso leso sikhathi - yilokho abazomnika khona emsebenzini. Kodwa fantasy yakho, kulokhu, kuwukuthi, kuphi ukusula. Okokuqala, i-muzhchinku ebiza kakhulu ingakwazi ukuyisebenzisa futhi iyithengise, cha, hhayi indawo yaseCroatia, kodwa ikhamera ebiza kakhulu, imishini yokudoba, imishini yamatende noma i-simulator yezemidlalo kungenzeka. Uma wazi kahle ukunambitheka kwawo, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi ukhethe i-perfume enhle kakhulu, ijazi, ijezi, izicathulo, ilineni. Akunqatshelwe ukuzibuza ukuthi yini angathanda ukuyithola njengesipho, hhayi bonke abantu abanjengamangazi, noma okunye okusebenzayo, bakhetha izipho ezidingekayo kuphela. Mhlawumbe okhethiweyo wakho akadingi ukubhalisela eklabhu yokuzivocavoca, njengoba ungathanda, kodwa neminye imininingwane ebaluleke kakhulu kwikhompyutha. Ungabi namahloni, buza ukuthi yiziphi, ngisho noma zibhalela phansi, kulokhu, isipho ngeke sibe sesipho esikhulu ngokwakho, njengokunakekelwa komuntu wakhe, isifiso sokuthatha izindleko zezimali kanye nokusetshenziswa kwamandla kanye nesikhathi sokugijima ezungeze izitolo eziphezulu eziyishumi ekufuneni izingxenye zohlu. Uyakwazisa lokhu, okokuqala, futhi okwesibili, uzoqala ukuyiqonda kancane kancane, ube nolwazi okungenani uma lokhu kuzingelwa ngemininingwane edingekayo, zemali ezingavamile noma i-cacti esanda kukhishwa. Ungabonisa i-striptease yakho eyintandokazi, ngemva kokuphinda uhlaziye igumbi, noma ubhale ikamelo ehhotela elihle ebusuku, lizovuselela ubuhlobo bakho kakhulu.
Isipho sikayisezala ngaso sonke isikhathi singcono ukuxoxisana nomamazala noma umyeni futhi uhlanganyele ekuthengeni kwayo, uthatha ingxenye yezinkathazo. Okuhle kunakho konke, cishe siyazi ukuthi yini ongayinikela kubababa nabafowethu. Uma kunenkinga ngokuzikhethela, imikhiqizo yezingubo kanye nezicathulo, kanye namavoti, amafilimu abo, akwenziwe kumalebula we-PhotoShop we-cognac ngezithombe zawo futhi afakwe ebhodini elifanele, azosebenza.
Kunoma yikuphi, uma kuphakama umbuzo, yini engcono ukunikeza indoda, isipho yindaba eyodwa futhi kufanele umuntu ayenze ngokuzibophezela nangokuhlekisa.