Isikhathi samahhala kumama okhulelwe siphenduka sibe yi-banal disability, okuyinto emva kwamasonto ambalwa abangela isimo sengqondo esibi.
Abaningi bezengqondo bevumelana nempendulo eyodwa yombuzo: yini engingayenza ngesikhathi sami sokuphumula abesifazane besifazane abakhulelwe. Futhi bathi ukukhulelwa kanye nesikhathi samahhala kusiza owesifazane ukwembulula amakhono akhe okudala. Ngizokunika izivivinyo ezithile eziyisisekelo ongayenza uma ukhulelwe.
Abesifazane bathanda ukuthenga, futhi isikhathi samahhala ngesikhathi sokubeletha sivula amathuba amaningi kithi. Ukuzwa ukuthi umzimba wethu ushintsha kanjani futhi uthola amafomu amasha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, siqala ukubheka izingubo ezihlukahlukene abakhiqizi befashini abakhethe ngokukhethekile kithi. Izigqoko zabafazi abakhulelwe manje zikuvumela ukuthi ubukeke ubuhle futhi zikhangele kubantu abakuzungezile futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, mhlawumbe kulabo abathandekayo bakho.
Yini enye ongayenza ngesikhathi sakho samahhala owesifazane okhulelwe? Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukuhamba kabusha ezitolo, ngoba le ndaba ayanele kumunye wethu. Ungathenga ama-diapers kanye nezingubo zomntwana ozayo ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa, okuyinto ezokwehlisa izindleko ezilandelayo zokunakekela ingane. Ngicabanga ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuqaphela ukuthi lezo zinto ozithengayo ngesikhathi ukhulelwe zizogqokelwa ingane yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
Futhi, ngesikhathi sakho samahhala ungenza ilungiselelo lekamelo lomntwana. Ungakwazi kalula ukuza nokusebenzisa imibono yakho, ukuhlobisa igumbi lomntanakho.
Ukwenza umdwebo ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula komama okhulelwe kuyoba usizo. Ngosizo lomdwebo ungazizwa uqobo ngamathalenta amasha futhi ujoyine ubuciko. Ukwenza lokhu, uzodinga kuphela ukuthenga i-albhamu nemibala. Ungasebenzisa i-wallpaper yengane njengendwangu, okuyinto osadingeka ukuyishintsha eminyakeni embalwa, lapho ingane iqala ukuyidweba bese uyihlwitha ngamaphoyinti akhe okudlala.
Ukuze uzinike isikhathi samahhala kwabesifazane abakhulelwe kungenzeka futhi ukuzivocavoca noma umzimba wokuzivocavoca umzimba. Kuzokusiza ukuba uchithe isikhathi sakho samahhala futhi uqinise umzimba wakho ngaphambi kokubeletha. Kunezivivinyo ezikhethekile ezinciphisa umthwalo emgodini wesifazane okhulelwe, ukuze kuthi uma wenza ukuvivinya umzimba, uzozizwa ukhululekile ngemuva.
Enye indlela enhle, yini engayenzelwa abesifazane abakhulelwe ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula emisebenzini yasendlini kanye namalungiselelo okubeletha ufunda izincwadi ngokukhulelwa. Nakuba ungafunda konke: kusuka kumamagazinikazi abathandayo, ukuphela ngemisebenzi emikhulu kaKarl Marx. Ngokwesibonelo, ngifunda sonke isikhathi samahhala sikaDostoevsky ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Funda futhi ufunde izinto ezintsha.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akuwona uhlu lonke lwezinto ongazenza ngesikhathi sakho samahhala kumama okhulelwe ukuze ukhanyise isikhathi sakho sokuzilibazisa. Khumbula into esemqoka - ukukhulelwa akusona isifo! Ngakho-ke, ungazitholi ukuphila okugcwele nokucebile. Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho samahhala esiphezulu. Ngaphandle kokwesaba, hamba emaphathini, ama-movie nokuthenga ezitolo. Phila impilo ebomvu futhi ulungiselele ukubukeka komuntu omncane, ngakho-ke ngiyanitshela, ngeke ube nesikhathi nombuzo oyisiphukuphuku, ukuthi ungenzani ngesikhathi sakho samahhala owesifazane okhulelwe!
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