Ukubeletha umntwana

Ekugcineni, ingane yakho yazalwa. Ngaso leso sikhathi umama kwakudingeka anakekele kokubili yena kanye naye. Kubonakala sengathi zonke izinkinga zisemva kwethu. Kodwa ngomntanakho, uhambo olujabulisayo olubizwa ngokuthi ukuphila kuqala. Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wayenempilo, eqinile futhi ethola ukudla okunomsoco kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila, kumele ahlinzeke uhlu oluphelele lwazo zonke izakhi eziwusizo eziwusizo empilweni. Inzuzo enkulu kunazo zonke ingane yakho kanye nenani elikhulu lamavithamini lizoqinisekisa ukuthi ukondla. Ngokwenza kanjalo, uzogcina amandla nemvelo.
Njengomthetho, omama abasha abafuni ukuncelisa ingane yabo esanda kuzalwa. Ngeshwa, abazi lutho mayelana nokudla okufanele. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane, okwathi okokuqala bathatha indlela yobazali. Kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi kulokhu kuzodingeka ukwedlulise amahloni akho futhi ulalele iseluleko osinikezwayo.

Indlela engokwemvelo yokuncelisa ingane.
Ngokuba umama nengane yindlela elula kakhulu yokuncelisa, okuyiyo ngqo isifuba. Kodwa kwezinye izimo, akunakwenzeka ukuba wonke umuntu abone amabele emehlweni, ukuze athole ingane. Isibonelo, kulawo maqiniso uma uthola izivakashi, owesifazane osemusha uvuswa ngamahloni emvelo. Yini okufanele uyenze kulezi zimo? Lapha, ubuchwepheshe banamuhla buza kithi. Ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezinjalo, ipompo lesifuba lenzelwe. Akunzima ukumthola. Cishe kunoma yiliphi ikhemisi kukhona amaphampu asebele. Ziza ngezimo ezahlukene nezinhlobo, ngakho zivumelane kalula esikhwameni sakho.

Ngezinye izikhathi kunezimo lapho umama kufanele ahlukane khona nengane isikhashana. Ubisi lwebele olugcinwe ezimweni eziyinyumba luzosiza ingane yakho ukuba igcwale futhi ineliseke ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Lapho ukondla ngaphambi komama ngamunye, kunemibuzo eminingana ejwayelekile. Ngingayidla kangaki ingane yami? Ngisiphi isikhathi sokuqala? Ingabe kuyadingeka ukugcina noma yiziphi izikhathi zokudla? Impendulo yombuzo wesikhathi sokudla, kuminyaka engakanani, umama kuzodingeka azithole. Lokhu kwenzeka uma kwenzeka ukuthi akukho nkinga ekukhiqizeni ubisi. Odokotela batusa ukuncelisa ukubeletha kuze kube unyaka owodwa. Kodwa ngomntwana ngamunye, Yebo, kwenzeka ngezindlela eziningi.

Izingxube zobisi ziyindlela ehlukile yokuncelisa . Nakuba okokuqala kunconywa ukuba ukondle umntwana, ingxube izoba usizo kakhulu. Umuthi wamanje uphelele kakhulu inkinga yokudla kwabantwana. Lokhu kubangelwa ukucindezeleka okuhlangene nenani elikhulu labesifazane. Ngenxa yalokho, bayeke ngokuphelele ukukhiqiza ubisi. Ukuthuthukiswa kule ndawo - emkhakheni wokudla kwezingane, sekufinyelele ekugcineni lapho kufana khona futhi kufana nezingxenye ezincelweni zobisi lwebele.

Ngenkinga yokudla ukudla kwezingane, udinga ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho. Kuzoba iseluleko esibalulekile kumama abhekene nalesi sigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi semama.

Kodwa nokho indlela enhle kakhulu futhi enhle yokondla yayiyiyo futhi iyobe isilisa. Ngoba liletha ndawonye, ​​futhi ngaphandle kwalokho ubuhlobo obuseduze bomama nengane. Umntanakho ubambelela ngokufudumala ubisi lomama nokukhathalela. Ukuxhumana okusheshayo, lapho umama nengane beyizinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ezibuhlungu, kuyaqhubeka. Akusilo yini isimangaliso esikhulu? Ngomama, lokhu nakho kungivumela ukuba ngiphinde ngiphakamise indima yami entsha yobumama ngokugcwele, ivolumu ephezulu.

Ukubeletha kunikeza ukwakheka kwemvelo, kwemvelo yonke imizwa nememori. Futhi ngokudla ngamunye ingane ingabona umama, iphunga, imthinte, ithole ubisi lwakhe, uzwe ukuthi iphefumula kanjani futhi ingase izwe nomuzwa wayo.

Ukuncelisa kuphela kungenza uqiniseke impilo nempilo yengane yakho.