Ikhefu lokubeletha yisikhathi esinzima ngokomzwelo kowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, omama balangazelela ukuthola umsebenzi, bebasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka futhi "bathathe umoya." Lesi sihloko sizophakamisa izinketho eziningana "zokuzilibazisa".
Owesifazane ngekhefu lokubeletha
Siyakuhalalisela! Uma ufunda lesi sihloko, khona-ke kungenzeka ngamaphesenti angama-99% waba umzali ojabule. Lena injabulo enkulu, engenakuqhathaniswa nanoma yini enye. Ube ulinde lo mntwana, bekulungiselela ukuzalwa kwakhe, ukuthenga wonke ama-ryashonki abathandekayo, amabhontshisi nama-booties, efunda amakhulu emakhasi e-encyclopedias ahlukahlukene ukukhulisa ingane, futhi manje, ekugcineni, lesi sikhashana esilinde isikhathi eside safika futhi waba umama nobaba! Lesi sihloko sigxile kakhulu kubesifazane, njengoba behamba ngekhefu lokubeletha (okungafani okungajwayelekile). Ngakho-ke, esikhathini esizayo, kuyoba yikho okufanele ukwenze umama ngekhefu lokubeletha.
Unyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane yakho kuyoba yinkathi enzima kunayo yonke, uzobe uhlanganyela ngokugcwele ekunakekeleni ingane yakho futhi kungcono ukusebenzisa isikhathi sakho samahhala ephusheni, ukugeza okuphumuzayo noma ukuzijabulisa nomyeni wakho.
Kodwa emva kokudlula umgqa wonyaka, ingane yakho iyoba yedwa: hamba ngaphandle kokusekelwa omdala, idle nge-spoon, uphuze ekomitini futhi isikhashana udlale ngokuzenzekelayo ngamathoyizi wakho ozithandayo. Umuntu omdala, ingane izothola amakhono amasha amaningi. Ngakho, ngikhulula umama ekwenzeni imisebenzi ethile. Ngakho ngeminyaka emibili esimisweni sansuku zonke kukhona amahora amaningi angamahhala. Ukusetshenziswa kwalesi sikhathi kuzoxoxwa.
Yini okufanele uyenze umama ngalesi sikhathi samahhala? Othile ukhetha iphupho eliphilile, othile uthanda ukubuka umagazini noma iphephandaba, kuhle, othile uzohlala e-intanethi noma abuke i-TV. Zonke lezi zindlela zinezindawo okufanele zibe nazo. Kodwa omama abathile baya phambili futhi bachithe isikhathi njengento ewusizo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Imiqondo embalwa yokuchitha isikhathi samahhala kumama
- I-Needlework. Lokhu kuthunga, ukubopha, ukulinganisa ubumba, ukudweba kwe-ikebana, ngisho nokuphakama kwezinkuni, ngokuvamile, abanomqondo owanele. Kunezinto eziningi ezinjalo, ezithakazelisayo, ngisho ezithakazelisayo, zenza usebenze amafantasti nezandla, azidingi izimali ezinkulu zemali, nakuba ungeke ukwazi ukuthola inzuzo. Uma ungenalo ikhono lobuchwepheshe kulo msebenzi, ke lokhu kuyisimo sakho sokuzilibazisa, okusho ukuthi awukwazi ukulinda izinzuzo ezibonakalayo. Isibonelo, uma ungenayo imfundo ekhethekile yokuthungula, ungakwazi ukuthunga izinto eziphezulu ze-oda, kunalokho imikhiqizo yakho izoba yengane yakho, wena noma ekhaya.
- Ukupheka . Abanye bahlela ukupheka esigabeni semisipha, ngokwemigomo "eyenziwe ngezandla zomuntu siqu". Kodwa lokhu akuyiqiniso ngempela. Sikhuluma ngokupheka hhayi njengesidingo somuntu sokunelisa izidingo zakhe zokudla, kodwa kunokuba ubuciko. Ungafunda ukupheka izitsha zemikhiqizo yezwe ehlukene kakhulu, kusukela empumalanga kuya eMexico, kusukela e-Italy ukuya e-Ukraine. Futhi, into esemqoka iyinkumbulo! Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo ngokuqinisekile kuzakwazisa izihlobo nabangane, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu umyeni wakho. Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu, njengoba ikusho, ilele esiswini. Ukuhlakanipha kwabantu futhi ngeke siphikisana nayo. Noma kunjalo, lokhu ukuchitha isikhathi kunomunye owodwa kakhulu! Lena isibalo sakho! Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, kuvame ukuba nzima kakhulu abesifazane ukuba babuyisele isimo sabo sangaphambili. Ngakho-ke, uma ukhuluphele kakhulu futhi ufuna ukukuqeda, ukhohlwa ngalokhu umsebenzi. Ngokukhethekile kuwe ingxenye elandelayo.
- Ezemidlalo . Yebo, yebo, yilokho! Uma kukhona ithuba lokuya ejimini lokuzivocavoca, isikhungo sempilo noma ibhuloho lokubhukuda - kuhle, uma kungenjalo - futhi akuyona inkinga. Kunomthamo omkhulu wokuzivocavoca ongawenza ekhaya, ngaphandle kwanoma yiziphi izimonyo. Futhi enye indlela ephumelelayo yokuletha isibalo ngokuhlelekile, ukuhlukumeza imisipha, ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo, ukususa ukucindezeleka - okugijima. Kumele uqaphele, emidlalweni, kune-nuance eyodwa - udinga ukuthanda inqubo futhi uziqinisekise ukuthi umphumela uzoba njalo, futhi uzodlula konke okulindelekile. Uma kungenjalo, amandla akho ngeke ahlale isikhathi eside futhi emasontweni ambalwa lo mdlalo uzoshintshwa ngokuhlezi embhedeni phambi kwe-TV.
- Sebenza ekhaya kanye nesikhathi esithile . Yiqiniso, ukuzijabulisa noma ukuzijabulisa okujabulisayo akubizwanga, kodwa kuletha imali engakaze ibe yinto engafaneleki. Kuye ngohlobo lomsebenzi wakho, imfundo ekhona kanye nesipiliyoni somsebenzi, ungakhetha wena umsebenzi wesikhathi esithile. Lokhu kungaba ukugcina ama-akhawunti ekhaya, ukusebenza njengomuntu opharetha efonini, ukuhumusha umbhalo, izihloko zokubhala, njll Kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi lo msebenzi awukucasuli, futhi kungcono ngisho nokujabulisa. Umama ngamunye unomthwalo wemfanelo eminingi, ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, ngakho-ke akufanele uthathe umsebenzi ongajabulisayo kunoma yikuphi.
- Ukuqeqeshwa okuthuthukisiwe, ukufunda ulimi, ukuvuselelwa kolwazi . Uma uthanda ukufunda futhi uhlale ucabanga ukuthi akukho ulwazi olwanele kwenye indawo, hamba! Yiqiniso, njengoba ngishilo esigabeni esandulele, lokhu kufanele kulethe injabulo. Abanye abantu bathola ku-intanethi zonke izinhlobo ze-in-line izifundo, zingahlobene nemisebenzi yakho yobuchwepheshe, impilo yakho siqu noma akukho lutho oluxhunyiwe. Omunye uphonsa ezweni lezincwadi futhi udonsela lapho lonke ulwazi oludingekayo. Konke kuya kuwe. Ngokuqondene nokutadisha ulimi, izincwadi zokulalelwayo, izinhlelo ezikhethekile zekhompyutha, izincwadi zokufunda kanye nezindaba ezingamanga ngolimi olukulo mbuzo kuyoba okungadingekile.
Uma usuqedile ukufunda, awukazanga ukunquma ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula, ngikukwazisa ukuthi uzame yonke imisebenzi engiyiphakamisile. Awukwazi ukusho: "Anginaso isithakazelo kulo," "Angazi kanjani," "kunzima kakhulu," ngaphandle kokuzama ukukwenza.
Mhlawumbe kini, omama abathandekayo, amathalenta afihliwe, okwakungabikho ngisho nokusola. Futhi ikhefu lokubeletha yisikhathi esihle sokuwavula.