Iminyaka yokuqala yokuphila - lokhu ngokuvamile yisikhathi lapho konke kudingekile khona, futhi ezinye izindlu zomkhaya ngeke zibe yinto engafaneleki. Ikakhulu uma ubaba ehlala eceleni kwabazali bakhe, futhi kudingeka bahlale endaweni yokuhlala. Lapha, mhlawumbe, kusukela kulo mzuzu futhi kufanelekile ukuqala lapho ukhetha isipho sonyaka omusha.
Umbono kuqala.
Futhi-ke, uma unquma ukuthenga okuthile okuwusizo, kodwa ungabaza, ungamane ufune ukubuza mayelana nezidingo zomndeni. Mhlawumbe, ayinaso isethi ephelele yamafoloko, noma ama-cushions amaningana ukuze ajabule ngokugcwele, ngenkathi ushaqeka ngokukhetha izinto ezisendlini.
Kodwa akuyona isiqinisekiso sokuthi uzothola impendulo yalo mbuzo, futhi umphumela wokumangala uzosulwa. Kulula uma uvakashele kakade emcimbini futhi ungabona "ukuntuleka" kwakho. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi awenaye kuphela olalelayo. Yebo, futhi nokho ucabangele ukulinganiselwa kokuvakasha kokugcina, mhlawumbe konke sekuvele kwenziwe ngaphandle kwakho.
Umqondo wesibili, umbhangqwana njengesipho umbhangqwana.
Siyacabangela ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi yizinyanga zokuqala zokuphila kwabo ndawonye. Babenaso isikhathi sokukhathazana, futhi mhlawumbe uma nje impilo ihamba ngemuva, uma kuqhathaniswa nesifiso sabo sokuhlangana ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kuzoba khona izipho ezimbalwa eziwusizo. Isibonelo, ingaba nezinkomishi ezihlangene, amasongo, ama-bathrobes, ngisho negumbi elifanayo. Okuhle uma ungakwazi ukukwenza i-oda ngalinye lezinto ezifanayo, isibonelo, ngeziqalo zabo, noma nje umfanekiso ohlekayo.
Lo mbono ungowesithathu.
Uma lo mndeni osemusha usuvele ukwazi ukuthola zonke izinto ezidingekayo zonyaka omusha, kuyindaba yezipho ezingokomfanekiso. Ukulungele amacala anjalo kunezinhlobonhlobo ze-statuettes, mhlawumbe ngisho nokusebenza, izintelezi zomndeni, izakhi zokuhlobisa, izinto ezincane nje ezimnandi. Ngokuyinhloko kuyoba isipho esizobangela umbhangqwana osanda kushada inhlangano ethize. Mhlawumbe uyazi ingoma yabo abathandayo, futhi uyinike ibhokisi lomculo, noma ngandlela-thile bahlangane ngendlela ekhethekile, futhi wena, ngosizo lwento ethile, ukhumbuze ngalesi sikhathi. Ngokuvamile izipho ezinjalo zibonwa ngokufudumele, futhi zibaluleke kakhulu kulabo abanikezwa zona. Futhi, ngesipho esinjalo, uzobonisa ukulalela kwakho nokufudumala emndenini omusha. Into eyinhloko kuphela, ukuthi lesi sipho ngeke sisondelane kakhulu, futhi asizange sambule izimfihlo zabo. Ngaphandle kokuthi ukukhulumisana kwakho kusondele kakhulu, futhi imfihlo yatshelwa wena bobabili bomshado.
Uma umbhangqwana osemusha unomuzwa omuhle wokuhleka, lapho ukhetha isipho, qiniseka ukwakha kulokhu. Manje kukhona ubuningi bezinto ezibonakala zingadingekile eziphakamisa isimo sengqondo. Ngendlela, intukuthelo enjalo izohlala isikhumbuza umbhangqwana wakho.
Umqondo wesine.
Abantu asebekhulile banezinkumbulo, futhi abantu abasha banethemba. Yenza isipho esinjalo ukuthi esikhathini esizayo osanda kushada babe nokuthile okumele bakhumbule.
Kunezinketho ezimbili lapha, noma ubapha umcimbi, noma into ongayigcina ngayo izinkumbulo. Ake siqale ngemicimbi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungatholi yonke i-stash yakho futhi uthenge ithikithi ohambweni lothando. Nakuba kungaba yindlela enhle kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi amathikithi okwanele ekhonsathi, emidlalo yaseshashalazini, e-cinema, embukisweni. Mhlawumbe amathikithi ezokuzijabulisa ezedlulele.
Manje amabhola we-Vienna ahlotshaniswa kakhulu, uma umbhangqwana uthanda ukudansa - ubanike izimemo ezimbili eziseduze zebhola. Ungakhohlwa ukucabangela lokho okuthandwa yilabo abashadile, izintshisekelo zabo nezintandokazi, kungenjalo esikhundleni sezithombe, ifreyimu izoba yisipho sakho.
Ngendlela mayelana namafreyimu nezithombe. Lokhu kungaba futhi isipho esihle. Nikeza umndeni omusha, ifreyimu ezithakazelisayo, noma ngisho nabambalwa, i-albhamu yesithombe, ibhuku lezincwajana zomndeni, noma into enjalo. Uma uthola lesi sipho banal futhi, engeza okuthile kuwe.
Umqondo omuhle we-albhamu yezithombe kuyoba uma uqala ukuwugcwalisa ngezithombe eziningana ezihlangene, uzifaka ngokulandela izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kobudlelwane bawo. Ungenza izithombe ezinjalo ngesimo sekhageji, noma udwebe uhlaka lwezingqikithi. Konke kuzokuxhomeka emakhono akho, izifiso kanye nomcabango.