Ebusheni bethu asiboni ukubaluleka kwemikhakha. Sibonisa ukulasha kobuqili, ukuze singasebenzisi ubusuku ekhaya, sithola kalula ithuba lokuthatha umhlalaphansi nomfana phakathi kweqembu elimnandi. Kungani ekudala ngokuphila kobulili thina sidinga ngokuphelele indlu engenalutho ngaphandle kwezingane nezihlobo, umbhede omkhulu kabili, njll?
Inkinga yezindlu kanye nokuphila obuseduze kuyisihloko esiphuthumayo yengxoxo yesizukulwane esisha.
Yiqiniso, kuhle ukuhlala kude nezihlobo. Kodwa hhayi nakanjani kuvela. Yini manje: ayikho izindlu - akukho ucansi? Ngikholelwa, lokhu akunjalo. Kusukela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwami ngiyazi ukuthi ifulethi elihlukile aliqinisekisile umndeni wenjabulo kanye nobulili obujabulisayo nsuku zonke. Kanti, kunzima ukuthi imizwa yeqiniso ifanelekile. Hlanganisa i-fantasy, engeza intshiseko yentsha kanye ne-adventurism - futhi impilo yakho esondelene nayo iyodlala ngemibala engakaze ibe khona.
Ubulili ekhaya lomzali
Isimo: ukuhlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa lwezizukulwane eziningana akuvamile esikhathini sethu. Izizathu zomuntu ngamunye: ukungabi nemali yokuthenga / ukuqasha izindlu, isidingo sokuthi "ukugijimela" isikhathi sokulungisa, njll. Yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zivele kuleso simo? Omunye umbhangqwana ojwayele ukukhononda ukuthi ngenkathi bephansi kwephiko labazali babo, izinjabulo zabo zobulili ezingakaze zenzeke zibe yilabhayisikobho endala: ngaphandle kwemisindo nokunyakaza okungadingekile. Abaningi bangahle baphumule, bazi ukuthi othile ukhona odongeni. Phakathi kwezimbangela ukwesaba ukubanjwa ngesikhathi esingaphansi kakhulu futhi isidingo sokulawula zonke umsindo nokunyakaza.
Indlela yokuphuma kwendlu yezindlu kanye nokuphila okujulile: njengoba wazi, ubunzima besimo bulinganiswa isimo sethu sengqondo. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukwehlisa ukuthobeka okungamanga futhi uqale ukukhathalela inhlalakahle yomndeni wakho, hhayi ngalokho abanye abakucabangayo. Ukungakhohlwa, yiqiniso, imithetho eyisisekelo yokuhlonipha.
Okokuqala, sikhathazeke ngokukhiya, noma okungenani isikhwama somnyango. Uma ku-arsenal yakho yezinto ezithinta izinto kunezinto ezifiselekayo ukungaboni iso labazali abathintekayo, kungcono futhi ukuzifihla "ngesisekelo sokujika".
Abantu basekhaya akudingeki bazi ukuthi wenzani ekhaya lakho. Gwema umbhede - uthenge entsha noma ubeke umatizi phansi. Iphephethi elincane - futhi i-sexplatform enkulu. Uyakhumbula ukuthi amaqhawe enkulumeni "izihlalo ezingu-12" azama ukuphikisa umsindo we-kisses nesitofu se-primus? Ungaphindi amaphutha abo, uzama "ukufihla" ngeTV noma umculo. Labo abafunda i-physics esikoleni bayazi ukuthi ukwenza umsindo kufanele kube lapho bezwa khona. Ngakho-ke, kuyasebenza kakhulu ukuxhuma i-cable yekhamera egumbini likababa noma isitoreji phezulu kuma-DVD. Abazali "i-Podsadiv" kwezinye uchungechunge oluthile, uzozihlinzeka ngamahora ambalwa wenkululeko. Abangane bami bavame ukwenza "it" eshaweni ngaphansi kwesizathu sokuthi "Ngizobuyela emuva engikuthandayo." Uhlolwe ngesipiliyoni: ukugeleza kwamanzi ngokuphelele kumisa imisindo.
Thatha isikhathi lapho abazali bekhona e-dacha, benze babe yizivakashi ezithandayo. Misa isimiso somsebenzi wakho ngendlela oya kuyo ukusebenza emva kwamanye amalungu omndeni noma ufike ekhaya "ngokobulili" kwasemini.
Ehlobo, ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane bakho nobungane obungavamile emvelweni. Uyazi ukuthi imvelo isondla ngamandla ezocansi? Akumangalisi ukuthi ubulili bangaphandle bubhekwa njengento ethandana kakhulu futhi engakhohlwa isikhathi eside.
Fantasize, futhi kunamathuba amaningi okuba yedwa nomthandekayo wakho. Into eyinhloko ukugcina isimo esinomusa nobungane endlini, bese imingcele emkhathini ingabonakali ebuhlungu kakhulu. Ngempela, njengoba leli zwi lihambela, kunzima, yebo, akukho cala.
Ku "odnushke" nengane
Isimo: ukukhishwa kwezindlu nokuphila okusondelene: ngoba umbhangqwana osemusha kanye nefulethi elilodwa libonakala lilula, nje ukubalekela abazali. Kodwa kuthiwani uma kukhona ukubuyisela emndenini? Omama nabaningi abaningi bakhathazekile ngombuzo: uma ingane ilala egumbini elifanayo nabazali, imivimbo "ihloniphekile" yokwenza uthando? Futhi yini okufanele uyenze lapho ingane ikhula futhi igumbi liba "ligcwele" kulaba abathathu?
Isizukulwane sezingane zaseSoviet sikhule ezindaweni zokuhlala ezindaweni ezimbi nakakhulu. Futhi akukho lutho, wonke umuntu, ukubonga uNkulunkulu, bayaphila futhi banempilo ngokwengqondo. Enye into yokuthi "izimbali zokuphila" zanamuhla ziyazi kahle izinto eziphathelene nokuphila okusondelene futhi akungabazeki ukuthi inyane lakho elineminyaka eyisithupha liyokholelwa ukuthi abazali bahlanganyela emidlalweni.
Abangane bami bahlala ehhotela elinabantwana ababili abadala. Inkinga yezindlu kanye nokuphila okuseduze sekuxazululwe isikhathi eside ngosizo lokuhlukanisa. Uma le yardage ingavumeli ukuthuthukiswa okunjalo, shintsha "ukuhlukaniswa". Phela, ngaphezu kwekamelo, indlu yakho inezindlu zokugezela kanye nekhishi. Vumelana, sonke isikhathi ukulala ocansini lomndeni kuyisicefe!
Ungakwazi "ukugibela" izingane ngamaholide noma ngezimpelasonto kubazali nogogo. Enye indlela ukufaka i-sofa yokuphoqa ekhishini noma ukuhlela umuntu olele ebhaleni (okunye isikhathi sehlobo). Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi ingane yakho izokujabulela ukuhamba khona ebusuku ukuze ukwazi ukuhlala yedwa, ufunde incwadi enentshisekelo.
Ukuze ubulili bungabi buhlungu, kubalulekile ukukhetha isikhundla esifanele. Izimo zezithunywa zevangeli kanye nomgibeli walo njongo azifanele ngokuphelele. Bamba ubuso bokubhekana nomunye nomunye. Vumela kuphela umuntu ukuthi ahambe, izimpikiswano kufanele zihambe kancane. Noma uthathe i-pose ye-spoon: ulale eceleni kwakho, lo wesifazane uphendukela emuva kumuntu futhi abuyele emuva.
Ukungaqondi kahle okuningi okungagwenywa kungagwenywa uma ingane isilungele kusengaphambili. Wena nomyeni wakho akufanele nibe namahloni ukubonisa imizwa yethando omunye komunye phambi kwengane. Izingane ezivela eminyakeni emihlanu ezitolo zokuthenga zithengisa ama-encyclopedias akhethekile aqoshiwe abhalwe yingane yengqondo yengqondo (ikakhulukazi izincwadi zabalobi basekhaya). Qaphela njalo le ncwadi ndawonye, ufunde ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokungagwegwesi ngezihloko ezingenacala. Futhi uma umuntu omdala ekhulela ngokuzithandela eba ngubufakazi obuseduze bomama nobaba, ngeke kudingekile ukuveza ukulungiswa kwezizathu zokuzilandulela.
Ngokuvamile imbangela yezinkinga zethu ekhanda, hhayi ekungabikho kwezimo zokuphila. Uma iqiniso lokuba khona kwengane noma abazali (ngisho noma ngemuva kwodonga) libulala ngokuphelele isifiso sobulili, umbhangqwana wakho udinga usizo lomuntu kusuka: umqondo wezengqondo noma umndeni wezocansi.
Intsha ilindele ukuthi abazali bayoba nesihawu ekuphileni kwabo. Kungani ukuphendulwa kungabonisi inhlonipho futhi ungazami, ukuthi ngesikhathi socansi inani lemikhiqizo ye-decibel ayikho esikalini?