Futhi lokhu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi eNtshonalanga kuye kwashiwo isikhathi eside ukuthi amantombazane aseRussia ayengcono kakhulu futhi enhle. Kukhona impendulo eyodwa yombuzo othi kungani abesifazane abaningi bengayithandi. Kulula kakhulu, ukusola izinkimbinkimbi ezivamile abesifazane abaningi abazizwayo. Sizohlaziya ukuthi yiziphi izinkimbinkimbi eziningi abesifazane ababhekana nazo.
Yiqiniso, isakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi kunazo zonke asijabuli nokubukeka kwakho. Ngisho noma manje nje uthatha ukuphuma uphinde uxoxe nabesifazane abaningi namantombazane, khona-ke ngamunye wabo uzokutshela ngokushiyeka kwabo ngokubukeka. Lokhu akusho ukuthi bonke bazibheka njengabantu ababi noma ababi, kukhona phakathi kwabo labo abazibona njengabo, njengabo futhi baziqhenya ngokwabo, naphezu kokuthi ukubukeka kwabo akukuhle kakhulu. Lokhu akusebenzi kuphela kwabesifazane baseRashiya, inhlolovo efanayo ingenziwa kwi-Intanethi kunoma iyiphi i-website yezwe jikelele futhi umphumela uzoba cishe. Abesifazane baneliseke ngokugcwele ngokwabo kancane, ngamandla wamaphesenti angu-20-25. Bonke abanye bayazicabangela kakhulu, ekubukeni kwabo. Abanelisekile ngokuthi "isisu esikhulu kakhulu", "ukungabi nesikhumba", "isakhiwo esingenakuphikisana saso sonke isibalo," "imilenze egobile," "isifuba esincane, noma okuncane kakhulu", "isisindo esiningi", "cellulite". Futhi lolu hlu alukhawulelwe. Okuthakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi ngezinkinga zabo, laba besifazane namantombazane abhekene nezinkinga ezingaphansi kwezinto ezithinta izidakamizwa zenza kube nenjabulo nokuthokoza kumabonakude amaningi okuzithokozisa, kanye nabahlinzayo bezimonyo. Izikhalazo eziningi mayelana nokubukeka kwabesifazane, abamele imali abangaphezu kwalezi zisebenzi bangathola kulokhu. Ngenxa yokuthi owesifazane wesithathu, ongenelisekile ngokubukeka kwakhe, ngokuqinisekile ufuna izindlela ezilula zokuxazulula inkinga yakhe, futhi abamele izinkampani zezimonyozi, izidakamizwa, futhi izikhungo zokuhlinzwa zasePlastiki zihlale zilungele ukusiza abesifazane ukuba bathole iphupho labo lokuphelela.
Singasho ukuthi ezinye izakhiwo zingakwazi ukukhiqiza abanye ngokushesha. Isiyinkimbinkimbi sesibili, esingathandwa kakhulu kunowokuqala yiyinkimbinkimbi "yesikhulukazi". Imvelaphi yalesi complex, ngokulandelana, ivela kwezinye izakhiwo. Omunye wabo ukhuluphele kakhulu. Isisindo esiningi sinenkinga yekhulu lama-20 leminyaka. Le nkinga iye yasungula imfashini ibe yizidlo ezihlukahlukene. Ngaso sonke isikhathi intombazane yesibili ihlezi ekudleni, noma ngabe igqoke izingubo ezingu-44, isadingeka ukunciphisa isisindo, ngoba lapho umuntu edala ngokungazelelwe wadala isimo sokuthi umzimba ungaphansi kwesisindo somzimba, okungcono nokuningi kubukeka sisencane.
Kodwa okubi nakakhulu, futhi ukuthi amadoda amaningi aqala ukucabanga okufanayo. Futhi kuze kube manje, iningi lamadoda empeleni likhetha abesifazane abancanyana. Bayibukela kancane kancane, futhi besifazane abakhulayo okwamanje, bebuke, behlala ngokuthula futhi bekhulisa ngokwabo izakhiwo ezilandelayo, ngoba baqiniseke ukuthi banobubi kakhulu futhi "banzima kakhulu njengoba becabanga", akekho ozobakhathaza. Baqala ukuzizonda kanye nomzimba wabo, lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi baqala ukugwema imihlangano nabajwayelene nabobulili obuhlukile, kunamahloni ekusebenzelaneni nabantu. Abaqondi ukuthi udinga nje ukuzithanda wena ukuthi ungubani. Futhi zonke iziphambeko zabo zenza ukufaneleka kwazo.
Ngakho-ke, embuzweni wokuthi ubuningi besifazane bahlupheka kangakanani, ngaphezu kwalabo abalulwe ngenhla, singakwazi ukukhipha esinye isakhiwo esiyisisekelo esingesona esibalulekile. Lona okuthiwa "indawo yokulala embhedeni". Abaningi besifazane bayamahloni ngenxa yemihlangano esondelene nendoda. Kanti futhi, imbangela yezimpikiswano ayinakho ukubonakala kwayo. Abesifazane banamahloni okuthi indoda ingambona engagqokiwe futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ibone konke ukwehluleka kwayo. Futhi lokhu ezimweni eziningi kuyinkinga enkulu emibhangqwaneni eminingi. Kodwa kungenzeka ukubhekana nale nkinga. Awusoze udingeke uzivelele. Udinga ukuzithokozisa ngokwakho nokuhlonipha, futhi amadoda ayadingeka ukuba adumise abesifazane njalo awageze ngokuncoma.