Uma izinhlelo ziphikisana nsuku zonke, lapho zenza izinkanyezi zivela "kubafana" namantombazane "abajwayelekile", bambalwa abantu ngeke bazicabange njengabahle futhi abanamakhono. "Kungani u-Masha-Sasha-Dasha engakwazi, futhi mina, yini, embi nakakhulu?" - ingane ehlezi esibukweni iyazibuza yona. Futhi awukwazi ukusho ukuthi uyiphutha, kodwa uma eqinisile, umuntu angamchazela kanjani ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ongaba inkanyezi nhlobo?
Khuthaza noma ungakhuthazi
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali ngokwabo bavusa izingane zabo ngokuthambekela ekudluleleni amakhono abo. Kusukela esemncane, bafaka isitoreji futhi "bahlambalaza" behlambalaza ngemuva kwemilolotelo engaphenduli kahle: "Ungummangaliso, yiyiphi intombazane ehlakaniphile, umculi nje okhula!" Umculi onjalo lapha eminyakeni eyishumi uzongena enkundleni yemidlalo, ahluleke ukuqala, futhi angavumeli, uma ungahambi. Izingane zizwela kakhulu ekuhlolweni kwabantu abadala, futhi lapha into enkulu akuyona ukulimaza. Uma ugwaza ingane yakho ukuthi inemiqhele emithathu futhi iyingane ngokumelene nomdlalo wakhe we-Rachmaninov okhohlisayo, kungenzeka ukuthi ukukhohliswa okunjalo kuzohlala isikhathi eside naye kuyo yonke imakhanda amathathu. Ungadumisi amathalenta abonakalayo futhi abhekwe kakhulu ngobuhlakani bakhe obuncane - uzobe eseceleni.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokusiza ukuthuthukisa amathalenta namakhono akhona ukuchaza ingane ukuthi ngaphandle kokuzikhandla, okubuhlungu nokukhathazayo, akukho-superdar engakhula. Ukusebenza akuyona into engokwemvelo, kepha umsebenzi wokusebenza wansuku zonke amahora amaningi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yimidlalo noma ubuciko. Kungaba kuhle ukunikeza imibhalo emibili yezinto eziphilayo noma ukuxoxwa okungenani okuningiliziwe kwezithombe zakhe - akekho ohlonishwayo ositshela ukuthi kulula kangakanani futhi nje ukuthola inkazimulo. Okokuqala, ngenxa yokuthi lokhu akunjalo.
Ukunakwa kufanele kube okucabangelayo
Lapho omakhelwane bakho bekhalaza ngesimangaliso sakho, bathi, bazovula amawindi, babeke izikhulumi bese bevula umculo ozwakalayo egcekeni lonke, ungaqedi izikhuphuli ukusuka esiteji sesishiyagalombili. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ifuna nje ukuheha. Ngokuvamile iphupho lokuba yizici ezidumile ngokuqondile ngoba ukunakekelwa ngokwanele ebuntwaneni obuvela kubazali kubangela isifiso sokukuthola kubalandeli. Khumbula, ukugcina nini lapho ungenaso isithakazelo kumamaki, kodwa emdlalweni wokugcina weqembu lakhe lebhola lezinyawo? Ngokuvamile izingane azixoxisisi izithakazelo zabo nabazali bazo, hhayi ngoba abazifuni, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi abanandaba nabo.
Uma ingane ingathokozi kakhulu, akakwazi ukutshela unina ngokuthi "Insimu Yezimangaliso" ukuthi iqembu liye lazijwayele isikhathi eside, ekugcineni likhishwe i-albhamu yakhe yokuqala noma inqobe kuqala emashadi ahloniphekile. Izinto ezincane ezinjalo zingagcina zakha eludongeni olunamandla, olungenakuhlatshwa ngokuhlambalazwa: "Ngikubelethile, angizange ngilale ubusuku, ngenqaba konke ngaphakathi kwami, kepha manje ngiyazi konke okugcina, njengokungathi akuyona umama wakho, kodwa omunye umuntu." Ngakho-ke, uma ungacabangi ingane yakho ekhazimulisa igama lakhe, yenza konke okusemandleni ukukubonga, hhayi umqondisi nomqhubi, lapho uthola i-Oscar ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe.
Ifilosofi of isanqante ngaphandle isanqante
Kuyaziwa ukuthi kakade kunzima ukuba intsha ikhonjise okuthile, inkani nenkani. Ungafungi ukuhlukunyezwa, funda ungafundi izimilo - akusizi ngalutho, igebe phakathi kwakho linganda kuphela. Zama ukuxhaphaza ingane yakho kancane. Ufuna ukuba afunde uTolstoy, Chekhov, Dostoevsky. Khona-ke ungasho ukuthi lokhu kuzomenza afundiswe, kodwa uthi ngokuhlukile: "Yiqiniso, ukwahlulela ngamabhuku akho okubhekisela, awuqondi kahle" Nkosi ", lapha udinga imithwalo yemibhalo, futhi, ukufunda i-Harry Potter kuphela, ayikwazi ukulondolozwa ". Indodakazi yayizoba ngumdlali we-actress, ngakho-ke ishiya indaba? Akusizi ngalutho ukumchazela ukuthi lesi sayensi yaphakade sizofika esikhathini esizayo. Kungcono ukugxeka: "Ngicabanga ukuthi uzoba odumile kangakanani, uzobe unikeza abaxoxisana nabo imibuzo kanye nombuzo othi:" Ungathanda ukudlala kumateyimu womlando, isibonelo, ku-Odyssey noma i-Iliad? "Uyothola impendulo:" Ngizokujabulela ukuveza ithalente kanye nendima Odyssey, kanye nendima ye-Iliad. " Futhi imodeli ezayo yesikhathi esizayo, eshiye imathematics, kungcono ukuphikisana nokuqondile kwezesayensi ngqo ngale ndlela elandelayo: "Uma uzothola izigidi zamaRandi ekuhlanganyeleni ekukhangiseni yedwa, ngubani ozohola umnyango wakho wezincwadi, uma ngabe ufake ngisho nezinombolo eziyinhloko kukhompyutha yakho esikhundleni sekhanda lakho? "Into eyinhloko akuyidluli futhi ungayidluli ekuthukeni kwakho.
Ukunambitheka kuyindaba ebucayi
Abazali kudingeka baqaphe konke okwenziwa izingane zabo, zilalele futhi zifunde. Kodwa ukumane uvinjelwe okuthile akusizi ngalutho, udinga ukwazi ukufaka "imikhiqizo engalungile" ngolwazi oluzwakalayo nolusithakazelisayo. Kuyingozi kakhulu namuhla ithelevishini. Kusobala ukuthi umfundi, ngemuva kokubuya emakilasini, angakwazi ukuvula kalula noma yisiphi isiteshi, ngakho ukufihla kude naye kuyinkohliso. Kodwa ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi omama babukele uchungechunge kanye nezingane zabo, futhi namanje kakhulu kakhulu - eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu. Futhi yile ncamashi ubudala lapho kukhona ukuthuthukiswa okusheshayo kwengane - ingane ibamba yonke into njengeponji. Akumangalisi ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi utshela abazali bakhe ngemininingwane yonke ye-anthropological ukuthi izingane zivela kanjani kuleli zwe.
Ukuthuthukisa ingane yakho - zithuthukise. Hamba naye emabhayisikobho, imibukiso, amakhonsathi, ake sifundze izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ze-classic. Bhala ingane kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemibuthano nezifundo. Lapho izingane zingenaso isikhathi esincane, zivame ukuzisebenzisa kuthelevishini. Kunzima ukugcizelela indima yemisebenzi namakhono ekwakhiweni kwengane eyinikezwe ngokwemvelo, kodwa ngaphandle kokunaka nokuzikhandla kwakho, bayovele bethengise ngeze. Futhi-ke ingane yakho, lapho ikhulile, izokutshela isikhalazo sayo ngamathalenta angazange ayenziwe namathuba alahlekile.