Ukukhathazeka ngokuthuthukiswa kwentsha sekuyeke. Labo ababemelene naye ngokungaqondile, bayeka ukuphikelela kulokhu. Futhi labo abahlanganyela ngentshiseko nomntwana ngezindlela zokuthuthukiswa kokuqala kwezingcweti, behlisa umoya futhi behlisa ijubane.
Konke ngoba imfashini yokuthuthukiswa kwentuthuko idlulile, futhi izingxoxo mayelana nomonakalo wazo ziqaliswa izakhamuzi zengqondo kaningi. Ngithi, umphakathi wethu awungakulungele izingane ezihamba phambili, kanti izinyane, ezakhiwe yiminyaka, lapho ziya esikoleni, zibhekene nezinkinga eziningi: ukukhukhumazeka kwezifundo, ubunzima bokuzivumelanisa nokuxhumana okunzima noontanga. Ngakho wenzani? Kungenzeka yini ukuyeka ukuthuthukisa ingane nhlobo? Yebo akunjalo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula imithetho esemqoka: okokuqala, awukwazi ukubeka intuthuko yasenhla ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye - ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto, ngokomzwelo.
Okwesibili , noma iyiphi indlela kufanele ilungiswe ingane yakho, igxile ezifisweni, amathuba kanye nokuhamba kwengqondo kwengane encane. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho idinga uthando lwabazali bayo ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Futhi emva kwalokho - izinhlamvu, ulwazi lwezilimi kanye nezibalo ... Yebo, mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani kuzothatha indawo efanelekile, okufanelekile ukucabangela abomama nabababa. Indawo enjalo ibizwa ngokuthi izakhi (ithola umsebenzi wokuqonda wengane) futhi iqukethe izinto ezilula kakhulu.
Ukushisa - ikhanda lonke
Yini okuphathelene nokuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani, ubuza. Futhi uzobe uphutha! Ukuxhumana, ngaphezu kwalokho, okuqondile kakhulu. Ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwengane kuhlobene ngqo nokunyakaza. Zahlulela wena, isikhumba somntwana yilona isici esikhulu kunazo zonke futhi esibucayi yolwazi lwezwe. Lokhu kwengezwa embonweni wakhe, ukuzwa, iphunga, ukwakheka kokugcina okwenzeka ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane. Ngesikhatsi isikhumba sithatha umsebenzi we-"master" oyinhloko - ukuphela kwezinzwa kulo, ulwazi lamukelwa futhi ludluliselwa phambili - ebuchosheni.Ukuthinta ngokwengeziwe ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngokwakho, ngokubaluleke ngokwengeziwe ukuhlakanipha kwakho kuyaqhubeka. kanye nemilenze yengane, siyakuthonya kakhulu isikhungo sayo sokukhuluma.Kumangalisa ukuthi kungase kuzwakale, kungukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amakhono emoto okuphethe ukuthi ingane yakho izokukhuluma ngokushesha kangakanani, kahle futhi efanele.
Imizwelo kanye
Isimangalo esiyinhloko sabanakekeli bezengqondo kubalandeli bokuthuthukiswa kwangokokuqala ukuthi emncintiswaneni wokufezeka kwengqondo yengane, abazali bayiguqula ibe i-encyclopedia yokuhamba, baqeqeshe inkumbulo yezingane ngokukhumbula ngekhono, bahlakulele ukucabanga okunengqondo, kodwa bakhohlwe ngokuphelele imizwelo. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi ingane iyanda ngokuphindaphindiwe engqondweni yakhe izinombolo ezimbili, kodwa ... ayikwazi ukuzwelana nabanye, isibonelo. U-IQ wakhe womzwelo uphenduka ube phansi kakhulu.
Izingane ezinjalo esikhathini esizayo ziba nzima kakhulu ukuxhumana nabangane babo, ukusekela nokugcina ubuhlobo obuhle. Konke ngoba abasazi ukuthi bangabangani, bangaziphathe njengabantu abadala, kodwa njengezingane ezijwayelekile. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, kuyadingeka ukuba unake ukuthuthukiswa kwemizwelo kusukela esemncane. Futhi lokhu kwenziwa ngesibonelo. Ingabe udabukile? Chaza ukuthi uqubuka ukuthi kungani udabukile. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi akaqondi lutho. Mhlawumbe akaqondi konke ukuqaphela, kodwa lolu lwazi luzohlehliswa futhi luzovela enkumbulweni ngesikhathi esifanele. Uma ingane ikhula, ungadlala naye "Masks": vala ubuso bakho ngezandla zakho, futhi ubahlise, ngokuhlukile uveza imizwelo yakho yezingane (injabulo, ukudabuka, ukumangala, ukungajabuli, ukwesaba, njll.) Ngokuqinisekile ingane izojabula ukugcoba kwakho nokuhlanganyela kwakho kumnandi.Umdlalo "Masks" kumele uhambisane nezincazelo futhi uphindaphinda inkulumo ngayinye izikhathi eziningana, ngokunye: "Bheka, umama ujabule, (ukudabuka, njll)!" Ngamanye amazwi, akufanelekile sethemba ukuthi ingane izokhula futhi "ihileleke" emoyeni th zokuxhumana, kubalulekile ukufundisa, kanye nakho konke okunye, - ukukhasa, ukuhamba, ukufunda, ukudlala ...
Yiluphi uhlobo lwencwadi lokhu?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukucabanga okungaqondakali (okungukuthi, ngenxa yakhe siyiqonda lokho esikufundayo) kukhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - eminyakeni emine. Futhi noma ngabe uqeqesha umntwana ukuba ahlukanise incwadi A phakathi kwamanye egameni elithi ikhabethe, kuye la maqondana amabili awaxhunyiwe nganoma iyiphi indlela: kukhona incwadi A futhi kukhona ikhabethe, okuthi, ngokukaMama, liphakathi kwabo ngohlobo oluthile lokuxhumanisa "okuhlobene". Konke lokhu kuyadingeka ukucabangela futhi uqonde ukuthi uma ufundisa ingane ukuba ifunde kusuka ku-diaper, uvele uqeqeshe imemori yakhe ebonakalayo. Ngesizathu esifanayo, kunzima ingane ukuba ibeke izincwadi ngezilimi, ngendlela, ngenxa yalokhu kuqonda, zonke izindlela zokufundisa ekuqaleni zihlukaniswe zibe yizinhlobo ezintathu : ngezinhlamvu, ngama-syllables (isu lika-Zaitsev), ngokugcwele amagama (inqubo kaGlen Doman) futhi, noma yikuphi okukhethayo, uma kuvela isifiso esinjalo, khumbula ukuthi incwadi, isilawuli noma igama lomntwana liyisici esicacile, uphawu angakhumbula ngokuphindaphindiwe okuphindaphindiwe. kungakhathaliseki ukufaka imizamo enjalo yokuthi lapho ingane yakho ikhula kakhulu izofunda emasontweni ambalwa - kulula futhi ephilayo? Kuyadingeka! Kodwa emva nje kokuzibuza: "Angifundisi ingane ukuba ifunde, ngiyazi kahle ngezinhlamvu (izinombolo)." Thatha njengengxenye yezwe elikhulu olwaziswa ngalo. Nansi i-kitty, nansi inja, kodwa incwadi A.
Futhi khumbula ukuthi ikati nenja zicacile kakhulu kunenyane nezinhlamvu nezinombolo, ngoba izinto zokufunda eziphilayo ziyanqamuka, zishaye noma zikhale, zidle, zibalekele ingozi futhi zisebenzisane. Zithakazelisayo futhi ziyaqondakala. Kuthiwani-ke ngezinombolo nangezinhlamvu? Phatha lokhu njengesiteji sokulungiselela ukufunda. Hlala emakamelweni izithombe zezinhlamvu (ama-syllables, amagama) nezinombolo - ngokuphrinta okukhulu, okubomvu kumhlophe. Ingane izobakhumbula njengengxenye yezwe lakhe, futhi ulwazi ngokwalo luzobe luya endaweni yokugcina. Futhi lapho ingane iqala ukufunda ukufunda lapho igugile, iyobe ilungele ukuthola izincwadi nezinombolo, njengoba esezijwayele kakade.
Ukufanekisa!
Ngenxa yalokhu, sisebenzisa umqondo kaCecil Lupan ukwenza i-encyclopedia yezingane. Akudingi ikhono elikhethekile, izindleko zezimali kanye nesikhathi. Ukuyidala, sidinga nje ukuzibamba ngamamagazini endala, izithombe ezingadingekile nezincwadi. Futhi izinzuzo ziyigugu! Ngempela, lapho izingane zethu zedolobha zibona izimbuzi noma izinkomo, izindiza kanye nabagibeli. Lapha sidinga ama-encyclopedias anjalo. Zingenziwa nganoma yisiphi isihloko: "Izilwane", "Isimo Sezulu", "Izimbali", "Amasu", "Ama-Capitals of the World" njll Ngaphansi kwesithombe ngasinye, kuyadingeka ukwenza isignesha ngezinhlamvu ezinkulu. Zama ukukhetha imifanekiso, lapho kuzobe khona into eyodwa, okungukuthi uma ubonisa i-chanterelle, khona-ke esithombeni noma esithombeni kumele kube yinto kuphela - enkulu futhi engaqondakali.Ayikho izithombe futhi uthathe izithombe zezincwadi zezingane zakudala? Sicela uqaphele ukuthi izinhlamvu lapho izilwane zikhonjiswe kwizingubo ezidwetshiwe noma nge-atypical ngoba imvelo yangempela ibangela, asifani. "I-Animation" enezimoto ezifakiwe, "njll" ne "animated", njll. Ukuze uthole i-encyclopedia ehambelanayo, udinga eduze kokuphila ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukuze i-encyclopaedia ikusebenze isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, amakhasi amapheshana nge-tape evulekile noma enze i-encyclopedia engekho albhamu evamile noma ibhuku lezikole, kanye nezithombe ngabanye, okuzo zonke izici zazo.
Lungile umsindo
Uyini umehluko emkhatsini wokwakhiwa komphakathi owenzela ukondla ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo kwengane encane kusuka kwizifundo ezinenjongo nemvuthu ngokwendlela? Eqinisweni, imvelo yilokho ingane ehlala khona, efundisa izikhathi ezingaveli emfanekisweni ojwayelekile owaziwayo empilweni yengane, kepha isuke isingeniso emisebenzini yansuku zonke - ukuhamba, ukudla nokugeza. Into kuphela edingekayo kumama akufanele athule. Lokhu kunikezwa kalula kwizingxoxo zomama ezisebenzayo futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubangela izinkinga ezithombeni ezithulile. Kodwa lapha, futhi, imvelo ifika ekusizeni. Ngokuzalwa komntwana, owesifazane uguquka ngaphansi kwethonya lomzimba wesisu. Ososayensi baye baqaphela ukuthi omama abancane baze bashintshe amazwi abo - kuba mide, okuncane, futhi izinkulumo zezinkulumo ziyadlula, ithenda. Amakhomoni enza umsebenzi wawo omuhle, futhi owesifazane akadingi ukumelana futhi abe namahloni.
Khumbula : manje isitha sakho esikhulu sithulile. Futhi lokhu kuqinisekiswa ngamaqiniso esayense. Ngesinye isikhathi, ososayensi baqhuba ukuhlolwa emaqenjini amabili abantwana abancane. Eqenjini elilodwa, omama babeziphatha ngendlela engokwemvelo: bashaya futhi banakekela izingane zabo, bahlabelela amahlaya, behlambalaza indlebe. Futhi kwenye - umsebenzi woomama kwakumane nje wenze ukuphathwa kwezingane: izingane zondliwe ngokuthula, zishintshiwe, zalala. Ngokusho kwemiphumela yalolu cwaningo olubi kakhulu, kwavela ukuthi izingane ezivela eqenjini "elithule" laziba likhulu kakhulu futhi zingenasiphelo, zazivame ukugula, futhi ekugcineni zaqala ukunikeza "osebenza nabo" abajabulayo kusukela eqenjini lokuqala ngokwezinga lokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Kamuva baqala ukukhuluma, kamuva bahamba.
Yiqiniso, asikukhuthazi ukuba "uhlasele" ngokungaphezi, sebenzisa njalo ngomzuzu wokuvusa imvuthuluka ukuze uyifake ngolwazi. Uyazi nje ukuthi ngisho nalapho uhlabelela i-lullaby ingane, ivela uma uhamba ngokukhuluma ngemithi nezimoto, - iqala uma uyilusisa - iphinde ibe nomthelela omuhle ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo yengane.
Yiba ngumvelo futhi uzwele ukulalela lokho ingane yakho ifuna futhi ilungele. Vele wenze njalo kancane ngaphambi kwesimiso. Ingabe ingane yakho inentshisekelo emotweni emi eduze kwendlu yakho? Ngakho-ke sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukutadisha i-encyclopedia yasekhaya ethi "Ezokuthutha", futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukutadisha imibala, ngoba yonke le mishini ihluke kakhulu!
Funda ngothando, futhi izifundo zakho zizoletha izithelo ezilindelekile!