Ngezinye izikhathi ekuthuthukiseni izinga lezemisebenzi, asivinjelwa ukungalingani nobuhle bobuholi, kodwa ngamaphutha ethu esiwenza nsuku zonke. Asiqapheli ukuthi uma ukhuluma nozakwabo ocingweni, ungabhala ngokungathí sina, futhi ukhawuleze, ukuhlanganisa ngokuqondene nawe nesimo sokuhluleka okunamandla. Ihhovisi liwuhlobo lwe-jungle lapho umuntu okufanele akwazi khona ukusinda ngokuvumelana nemithetho abekayo.
Izinyembezi zezinyosi
Izinyembezi zowesifazane - into engavamile. Umuntu ngamunye uyaziphendulela ngezindlela ezihlukene, i-palette yale mizwa ihluke kakhulu kangangokuthi abanye bangakuthanda uma ukhala, kanti abanye lapho bebona izinyembezi zezingwenya becasuka futhi balahlekelwa ukubekezela okuncane.
Ukubala ukuthi osebenza nabo futhi ikakhulukazi umphathi uziphatha ngendlela yokuqala, ikakhulukazi akufanele. Yiqiniso, kunezimo lapho kungenakwenzeka ukuqukatha amaconsi asolwandle avela emehlweni. Ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ngokungabi nabulungisa okwenzekile ehhovisi, izinkinga zomuntu othandekayo wakho, okungalindelekile phakathi nosuku ukugubha izicelo zabo. Ukhale? Yebo, linda induduzo evela osebenza nabo akufanele. Kungcono ukuklebhula ekamelweni labesifazane, bese ulungisa imidwebo ekhishwe futhi emva kokubuyela emsebenzini, uxolise. Yiqiniso, akudingeki ukuba umuntu aphule izinyembezi zibe ngukuhlukumeza nentukuthelo, osebenza nabo, ngisho noma bezobekwa icala, bahlale bezakwabo, hhayi abangane.
Umsebenzi womunye umuntu
Uma sithola umsebenzi, izibopho zethu kumqashi zicaciswa futhi zichazwe ngokucacile. Ukwazi lokhu, ungakwazi ukwabela ngokufanele imithwalo yemfanelo yalezi zinto noma lezo zinto phakathi komsebenzi ngamunye. Yiqiniso, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, emsebenzini, sinabangane noma nje abajwayelene nabo abafuna usizo ngezikhathi ezithile. Umshuwalense womuntu osebenza naye uyisibonelo esiphelele seziqu zakho zokuhola. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi, ukukhetha njalo izabelo ezincane zabanye abantu, ungaqala ukuzithobisa ngokweqile - mane nje unaso isikhathi. Ngakho ungasheshi ukudonsa isandla sakho futhi usize wonke umuntu. Thatha kuphela lezo zinsuku, ukuqedwa okuphumelelayo okuzoyiqonda ngempela. Yiqiniso, ingaba yinkimbinkimbi, ingathí sina kakhulu, kodwa umdlalo ufanele ikhandlela. Uma kungenjalo uzohlala phansi entanyeni yakho, ubeke imilenze yakho bese uqala ukushayela. Ingabe udinga lokhu?
Ukulinda
Ukulinda noma yikuphi ukusabela okuhle kumqashi kuyinto enyantisayo. Lokhu kusebenza ekudumiseni, nokwandisa, nokwandisa kumholo. Ungalindeli ukuba uqaphele, kodwa uthathe isinyathelo. Ngendlela, kungenzeka futhi ngendlela engabonakali ukugcizelela impumelelo yabo. Ngakho unganqikazi ukuheha, ukwazi ukuxhumana nokuthatha isithunzi ngokuncoma kwabalingani bakho, ungalokothi unqabe noma uphike ithalenta lakho nokukhuthaza.
4. Mayelana nobuhle besifazane
Ungalokothi uzicabange nabalingani bakho. Okokuqala, ngoba amadoda akudingeki azi ukuthi une-powder okwanele inyanga kuphela, amashiya akho adonseleka, futhi izindebe zakho empeleni zithokozela ngomoya opholile. Amadoda ngokubambisana afana nokuqaphela ukuthi abesifazane abalungile abadingi ithani lokumisa, futhi ukubuka osebenza naye ohola umncintiswano kungabetha ukubuka kwawo wonke umhlaba. Yebo, futhi ngokwemvelo kuyinto engcolile, kodwa ngokuzumayo phakathi kwamadoda azungeze umxhwele wakho ohlakaniphile uye wavuka?
5. Phakathi kwethu, amantombazane
Inhlangano ngayinye inenhlebo yayo, futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani, ayihambi. Ukuze uzwe kancane mayelana namahemuhemu, ngokwemvelo, udinga ukunikeza izizathu ezimbalwa. Isibonelo, impilo yakho kanye nobuhlobo bakho nabaphathi bakho. Ukuphila komuntu siqu kuhlale kuthakazelisa ... Zama kancane ngangokunokwenzeka nabalingane nabo ukuze uthole ubuhlobo efonini, tshela umngane, intombi, abazali bakho imibono yakho ngokuphila, ikakhulukazi uma bethonya. Yiqiniso, akufanele ufihle iqiniso lokuthi unomyeni, umkhwenyana noma insizwa nje. Lokhu kuzonikeza impilo hhayi kuphela izingxoxo nezizindla ngesihloko sokuthi kungani ufihla into ethile, kodwa ngeke ngokucacile kungabi mnandi kuhhafu yakho yesibili.
6. Ubuhlobo nomphathi
Amanveli emsebenzini, noma isithelo esivinjelwe sithandeka. Umphathi omuhle, onesizungu akayena isisusa sokuzibamba. Ngokuvamile kakhulu kunezimo lapho ubudlelwane obunjalo buphela ngemishado, hhayi ngezinhliziyo eziphukile, ukudilizwa noma okuqoshiwe.
7. Wonke umuntu akawuthandi
Lokhu kuyiqiniso. Kuhle kuwo wonke umuntu empilweni awuyikukwenza, futhi lapho usebenza khona imithetho efanayo. Inqubomgomo yakho izohlale ingathandwa ngumuntu, kufanele ubekezelele futhi uqhubeke. Wonke umuntu ulandela imigomo yakhe ezweni lethu lobukhosi. Ngakho-ke kudingeka ufunde ukuthi ungenza kanjani izinqumo ngokwakho, ungaceli iseluleko futhi ungafaki ukusekelwa. Ngamunye wethu unomthwalo wemfanelo kuphela ngomsebenzi wethu futhi kufanele uwenze ngokugcwele.
8. Amasenti amahlanu
Ungazami ukufaka amasenti akho amahlanu kumbuzo ngamunye. Asazi njalo impendulo futhi ngokuqinisekile akusiqambi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngobuhlakani. Ungalwele ukuthatha ingxenye yonke indawo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kufakwe amagama amathathu angakumela njengomuntu onengqondo futhi ohlakaniphile - kulokhu, khuluma ngokucacile, hhayi ngokushesha kakhulu, ngaphandle kolwazi olungadingekile kanye nemininingwane engadingekile.
9. Imihlangano
Uma abaphathi bakhetha umhlangano, umhlangano noma umhlangano okufanele ube khona, ungamnaki umcimbi. Kungenzeka ukuthi bakuqoqe, isibonelo, ukuxoxa ngamacala owenzayo, noma ukuxoxisana ngezinto ezibalulekile zenhlangano. Yenza ngokuzimisela futhi, uma kunesidingo, ubhale phansi. Ngikholelwa, izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo neziwusizo zingashiwo emhlanganweni. Ungagxothi, ungakhulumi ngezinto ezingafanelekile, bese ucima ifoni.
Okokugcina sifuna ukungeza: gcina indawo yakho yokusebenza ngokuhlelekile, zama ukuphuza futhi ube nesithakazelo emsebenzini, futhi uma uqala ingxabano, uhlale unesibindi sobufakazi bokuthi ubuqotho bakho - emva kwakho konke, nazo ziyingxenye yokuphumelela.