Amaqiniso anentshisekelo ngenhliziyo

Ngosuku lukaValentine, imibhangqwana ethandana inika amakhadi nezipho ngendlela yezinhliziyo futhi zamukela uthando oluphakade. Imikhumbi, amathoyizi kanye nama-mugs ekujuleni kwenhliziyo - isici esibalulekile salolu holide elihle. Ngokuvamile, uthando nothando olusuka enhliziyweni luboniswa ngesimo senhliziyo. Kungani? Futhi kuyiqiniso yini ukuthi uthando luhlala enhliziyweni?


Amakhemikhali wezakhi zothando

Iqiniso lokuthi abantu bayathandana, bangalali ebusuku, kusukela ekubukeni kwezesayensi - akukho lutho olungaphezu kokuphendula kwamakhemikhali emzimbeni. Ososayensi bathi abantu bathanda i-hypothalamus, i-pituitary gland, imfihlo yezinhlayiya zesimiso se-endocrine. Kukhona lapho okuyimfihlo eyakhelwe khona ukuthi ibhekene nokujabula noma ngokuphambene, ubusuku ngaphandle kokulala, isifiso sokusondelana, isifiso. Isibonelo, ngoba umuzwa wenjabulo kusuka ekuthandaneni nomuntu othandekayo kanye nenjabulo uphendulwa yi-phenylethylamine. I-enzyme i-oxytocin ikhiqizwa ngobumnene, isithinta, iyanciphisa umuzwa wokukhathazeka futhi ikhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kwe-endorphins yenjabulo. Abalingani abaningi abathintana futhi bekhathalelana, amahomoni amaningi egazini, aqine ubuhlobo. Uma inhliziyo iyancipha, khona-ke kukhona ukuqubuka kwe-oxytocin. Ivivinywa ngezinkawu kanye namagundane. Bazicindezela ngobumnene ngokumelene, banakekelwa futhi babelane ngokudla.

Kodwa umuntu uzizwa lapho inhliziyo ibetha ngokushesha kusuka othandweni, ihlupheka futhi ihlaselwa. Mhlawumbe, kungenxa yalokhu ukuthi ubizwa ngokuthi unamandla amakhulu othando. E-yoga kukhona inkolelo ngokusho ukuthi inhliziyo iyini isikhungo samandla. Ngakho-ke, inhliziyo ingenye yezitho ezibaluleke kakhulu, ukunikeza ukuthi kusho ukunikeza okuyigugu kunakho konke umuntu anakho.

Uphawu lwenhliziyo: intamo noma izintambo?

Akudingeki ukuba ube udokotela ukuze uqonde ukuthi inhliziyo ayibuke ngendlela edonsa ngayo, ihlatshwe umcibisholo wekhabethe, abathandi. Leli fomu livelaphi? Kunezinguqulo eziningi. Okwokuqala ukuthi inhliziyo injengentamo yezondo ezimbili ezithandekayo, okuthi, njengoba ziyaziwa, zikhethe umbhangqwana wazo kanye kanye nokuphila, futhi ubeke ubuqotho nokuzinikela komuntu siqu.

Inguqulo yesibili ibhekisela ebuhleni bezintambo zesifazane. Yebo, yebo, yizintambo. EGrisi lasendulo, esikhathini sesikhathi esidala, babhekwa njengengxenye ekhangayo yomzimba wesifazane.

Ingxenye yesithathu, inguqulo eningi kakhulu, ithi inhliziyo ifana nenhloko yepenisi.

Ukuze siwazise inhliziyo - sihlanganisa amnandi ewusizo

Uthando luwusizo kakhulu, kokubili ngomqondo wamakhemikhali nangemizwa. Isidlo se-Romantic ngewayini ne-tshokoleti, ukuthandana ngocansi olulandelayo kunciphisa ingozi yesifo senhliziyo futhi kunomphumela omuhle emsebenzini wenhliziyo. Ngisho nososayensi bayavuma ukuthi ubulili obuvamile buletha ngokomoya, ngokomzwelo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, impilo engokomzimba. Umsebenzi ovamile wezocansi uqinisa ingculazi kanye nempilo ngokujwayelekile. Labo abangatholi injabulo yobulili bavame ukuzwa imizwa yokucindezeleka nesizungu. Ngakho-ke, ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi inhliziyo, ubuchopho nokuzivikela komzimba kuhlangene futhi kuthinte umsebenzi womunye nomunye. Kodwa lapha kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi akuyona ukuxhumana okuvamile, kodwa ubulili kuphela nomlingani ovamile othanda, izinzuzo.

Ukubumbana ebuhlotsheni emndenini yisinye isibambiso esikhulu senhliziyo yezempilo. Kodwa ukuphinga, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyinto engathandeki kakhulu, futhi ngenxa yesigamu sesilisa, ngokuvamile kubulalayo. Okokuqala, ngokuziphatha, ukungathembeki kudonsa indoda, futhi ukucindezeleka kuyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni. Okwesibili, amadoda nabesifazane abaneminyaka yobudala ehlukile kunamakhono abo, lokhu kubangela izinkinga zokucindezela futhi kungabangela nokuhlaselwa kwenhliziyo. Futhi izidakamizwa eziningi ezandisa amandla, nazo, kufanele zigweme. Ekugcineni, uthando lweqiniso kanye nokuthembeka kuphela kungenza umuntu aphile, aphulukise futhi anikeze injabulo yangempela.