Indlela yokujabula futhi othandekayo

Ngomuntu ngamunye umqondo "wenjabulo" uhlanganisa isethi yezimo ezithile. Njengomthetho, abantu bafuna uthando, ingcebo, impilo, inhlanhla, umsebenzi omuhle, ngisho nangaphezu kwakho konke-konke. Kodwa ngesizathu esithile kuvele ukuthi, nakuba kukhona konke okushiwo ngenhla, i-melancholy isidla nsuku zonke, akukho lutho olujabulisayo, akukho nhlobo.

Khumbula ukuthi ukugcina nini ujabule? Yimiphi imizwa eyakukhathazeka ngaleso sikhathi? Injabulo iyashesha, hhayi ukutholakala kwezinhlobo ezithile zezinzuzo ezibonakalayo noma ezingezona izinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa ikhono lokujabula yilomo womphefumulo. Vele ujabulele nsuku zonke, ilanga noma imvula, uthole injabulo kusuka nsuku zonke ehlala.

Zama ukwenza ngokuzenzakalelayo isimo sengqondo esihle, uqondise amahlombe akho, ukumomotheka . Kungenzeka, ngikholelwa, udinga nje ukwenza umzamo othile. Ngisho lo mzamo uzovele ubangele ukumomotheka okungazibandakanyi. Zama ukubamba lesi simiso cishe imizuzu engu-5. Futhi-ke, yamukela inkulumo yakho evamile engathandekayo futhi uqaphele indlela engavamile futhi ingakhululekile.

Vumela imizuzu emihlanu yenjabulo ibe yindlela yokuzivocavoca nsuku zonke , ukwandise isikhathi 'sokuhlala enjabulweni' nsuku zonke isigamu somzuzu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuze ushintshe umbono wakho wezwe, udinga isikhathi futhi uqeqesho olufanele. Ngokushesha ukuthi nje ujabulele usuku, iqiniso lokuthi uhlala kuyoba njengokujwayelekile njengokudla nokuphuza.

Ukupheka kwenjabulo kuncane, futhi konke kulula, njengawo onke amahlakaniphile . Smile kaningi, ungacabangi ukuthi "ukuhleka ngaphandle kwesizathu kuyisibonakaliso sesiwula." Yakhiwa yilabo abangathokozi ukuphila, abafisa injabulo yomunye umuntu.

Thola okuzilibazisa , ngoba kukhona into oye waba nesithakazelo ngaso sonke isikhathi, mayelana nokuthi wazi okuningi, qoqa ulwazi. Lokhu kuzokusiza ube interlocutor ezithakazelisayo, ngcono kakhulu ukuzethemba.

Yiba nomusa, unikeze imfudumalo yakho nothando kubantu, sisize abanye . Kuye kwaphawula isikhathi eside ukuthi umuntu uhlangabezana nemizwa emihle izikhathi eziningana lapho enza okuthile okuhle kwabanye abantu, hhayi yena ngokwakhe. Ngakho isidingo sethu sinelisekile ukuthi siyadingeka futhi siyadingeka, senza umuntu abe mnandi futhi aqonde ukuthi kakade injabulo ukuletha umuntu injabulo.

Gwema labo abahlale benganelisekile ngakho konke okwenzekayo , noma kangcono ukubize lo muntu endaweni ethile nawe futhi ujabule. Emva kwakho konke, abantu bavame ukungajabuli ngokuqondile ngoba bazizwa bengenalutho nokungabi nalutho. Ngomuntu ngamunye, ungakhetha ukhiye olungakwesokudla futhi ngisho nalabo ocabanga ukuthi bewuthwele kuyoba yi-interlocutor enhle kakhulu.

Zinike ukuphumula, ungazami ukuba "injini engunaphakade", ngezinye izikhathi usadinga ukuzinika ukuphumula . Vumela isikhathi sokuphumula sithathelwe indawo ngezenzo ezisebenzayo, ukushintshwa kwalezi zizwe kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema ukucindezeleka nokukhathala ngokweqile.

Futhi khumbula njalo "ngokushaja kwakho injabulo." Gcina lo mzwa kuwe isikhathi eside futhi eside. Akudingekile ukuba uphume kuwo, ake uhambe eceleni kwakho kuyo yonke impilo yakho. Ukudlula ngokweqile kwenjabulo ngeke kube yingozi, kungasiza kuphela wena nabantu abaseduze nawe. Ukuze ujabule futhi uthandeke ubuciko obunikezwa wonke umuntu kusukela ekuzalweni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sichitha ikhono lokuthokoza kwengane entshonalanga futhi inyoni idula esihlahleni. Ngakho-ke, sidinga ukulifunda futhi.

Wena, ngokuqinisekile, ujwayele abantu abakhanyisa ukukhanya, okuyinto ehlala ejabulisayo ukuxhumana, lapho abantu bendlala khona. Ngakho uba omunye wabo, kungcono lokho. Futhi ake abanye, ngemuva kokubona ukumomotheka ebusweni bakho bese behluma emehlweni akho, bayothi ngemva kwalokho: "Abantu abanoLucky ... Bayajabula ..."
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