Yiqiniso, zonke izingane zinezilwane ezimbalwa "eziyigugu," okungakaze zifune ukuyingxenye. Futhi abanye ngokudabukisayo uthuli ekhoneni, futhi inyane alikwazi ukuthi benzeni nabo. Wawuthatha, wawubhuqa, wawuthukuthela, walalela ukuthi "bakhuluma" kanjani, bawuphonsa emuva ... Masifundise ingane ukudlala amathoyizi !!
Ungaqala ukudlala ngamathoyizi athambile nomntwana cishe ngonyaka (nje ubone ukuthi akalume "ubuso" obunamanzi). Kuphi? Fihla futhi ufune!
Uma i-crumb ifunde ukugxila esitokisini esithile, ukuze ithole ngamehlo futhi iphumelele, umuntu angaqala. Imikhawulo yobudala ayinqunyelwe: ngisho nabantwana besikole bayodlala "ngokufihla isilwane futhi bafune" ngenjabulo. Okokuqala faka ithoyizi ukuze konke kubonakale. Lapho umntwana eqaphela lokho okusemqoka, ukufihla uhhafu, futhi kuphela ngokoqobo. Futhi ungakwazi ukudlala ukufihla futhi ufune "umkhondo". Libophe itambo encane yokudlala. Yithi: "Lapha, ithoyizi lifihliwe, kwakukhona umkhondo." Ake sihambe endleleni, masithole umngane wethu! " Yiqiniso, okokuqala "umkhondo" kufanele ube oqondile futhi olula. Uma ukusesha kuqondakala kahle, "ukulandelela" kungadluliselwa ngaphansi kwezihlalo, etafuleni, ukudideka, ukubuya - lokhu kuqala ukubuka, ukusebenzisana, kanye namakhono emoto.
Ngisho nalabo bantwana abathandanga ukufunda izindaba zezinganekwane bayathandwa yibo "empinini yemidlalo yamathiyetha". Kodwa abazali banombuzo njalo: kanjani, ukuqoqa zonke izinhlamvu ezilandelwayo? Ayikho imali okwanele!
Siya ekukhohliseni. Emva kwakho konke, uyazi ukuthi emlandweni wezindaba "Teremok" kwakukhona igundane, i-frog, i-hare, ikhukhu, impisi kanye nebhere. Futhi ingane ayikhathaleli. Into esemqoka ukuthi isivakashi sokugcina kufanele sibe ngosayizi ngobukhulu. Kuyafana ne "Repka". Kungani ungayifaki esikhundleni segundane ngenyoni noma imbungu? Futhi kule "izingulube ezintathu" zingenza izilwanyana ezincane noma izinja ezintathu, futhi ngeke zidliwe yingulube, kodwa yi-fox, ibhere noma isikhwama.
Amathoyizi asetshenzisiwe ayimpahla enhle ye-"therapy tale therapy". Sekuyisikhathi sokuya enkulisa, uye esibhedlela noma nje ugonywe, ungathandi ukuthi ingane iziphatha kanjani nezinye izingane - konke lokhu kungenziwa isisekelo semidlalo yokudlala. Ngendima eyinhloko ubeke ithoyizi lakho eliyintandokazi lemfucumfucu bese ulisebenzisa kuzo zonke izimpande nokujika kwesakhiwo. Izingane zizoqiniseka ukuthi akukho okubi okuye kwenzeka kumngane wakhe-okusho ukuthi unethemba lokuphumelela kwalolu daba.
I-shades yemvelo.
Izingane ezineminyaka engaba ngu-4-5 zinika amathoyizi ombala "wemvelo" nokubukeka: bazosiza ukwazi kangcono izici ezivelele zezwe elizungezile nezilwane zasendle. Uma kukhona amathoyizi amaningi, faka ezimbalwa "ekufinyeleleni mahhala" ngesonto lonke, susa konke okwesikhashana.
Kanye nomntwana unikeza amagama kubo bonke abangane bakhe abakhulu, xoxani "uhlamvu" lwabo, izici: kuzofundisa ingane ukuqonda ukuthi bonke abantu bahlukile.
Uma uqoqe amathoyizi amaningana enhlobo efanayo, uhlanganise nabo "emndenini": khetha umama wakho, ubaba, umfowenu, udadewabo, njll. Ngabo "ungadlala" ubunzima bokubudlelwane phakathi komndeni wakho, futhi ubonisa ingane ukuthi uphume kanjani ohlukile izimo.
Izinso zomdlalo.
Izinganekwane zizoba yisisekelo esihle kakhulu sokudlala imidlalo nezingane. Umcabango womama awuhambanga ngaphezu kwejwayelekile "uMishka wavakashela idonsa" noma "uBunny ubalekela fox"? Amatheksthi azokunikeza udaba lwezindaba, kanye nezimpendulo ezenziwe ngomumo, ezizoshintshaniswa izinhlamvu. Mhlawumbe ekuqaleni ingane izohlala futhi ibheke lokho okwenzayo. Ungasheshi, unike ingane isikhathi sokujwayela umsebenzi ohlongozwayo. Kodwa ungaphuthelwa umzuzu lapho uzobe ekulungele ukujoyina umdlalo - ngokuphephile umnike "izinso zikahulumeni."