Mayelana nezindinganiso zobuhle besifazane ezikhulunywe futhi zixoxiswane, futhi amafomu okubalwa komzimba ahoxisiwe, futhi ukubukeka nge povolokoy kuchazwa, kanti isayizi sebele esifanele kunazo zonke sibonisiwe. Uma kuziwa ebuhleni bangaphandle bendoda, isaga sithi uma nje kungcono kakhulu kunemonkey, ngabe kuhle. Noma kunjalo, la madoda azivumelani nalokhu.
Imbonini yezimpahla zamadoda ithuthuka njengabesifazane. Phakathi kwamadoda ahlanganyela ezemidlalo, izinga eliphakeme kunabesifazane. Yiqiniso, amadoda athwala e-gym ukuze aqine futhi aqine. Lena inguqulo yabo. Kodwa abesifazane bayazi ukuthi yonke le mizamo yenziwe ukuba ibonakale ngaphambi kokuhle kwakho okuthandayo, ukuphefumula, okune-sexy.
Indoda engenazo izibopho zomndeni nayo ishukunyiswa isifiso esingenakunqotshwa ukuba sibe mnandi. Lokhu kungenxa yezifiso zemvelo zokungalingani ngokobulili obuhle ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ingabe ukubaluleka kwekhanda kubalulekile kumuntu njengowesifazane? Yiqiniso, ukunakwa okuningi, kunikezwa imali eningi kulabo besifazane, akukho muntu oyedwa ongeke anikezwe. Kodwa-ke, amadoda alandela imfashini yefashini emkhakheni wezinwele, bese ekhulula izinwele, khona-ke ahlaselwa phansi, ecabangela lokhu kukhanda kunesidingo kakhulu.
Ukuze isikhumba nesimo somzimba, amadoda nawo kudingeka azinakekele. Kuhle isikhumba sombala onempilo, ngaphandle kwezinkinga zentsha. Abesifazane abaningi bathanda ukukhanya okungahambi kahle, kodwa kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi amadoda kuphela abomvu abavunyelwe ukushiya ubuso bristle. Ivevu yama-blondes kanye nokubomvu ibonakala ehle kakhulu futhi ayibangeli izinhlangano ezinesibindi.
Isibalo nokukhula komuntu kungaba okuhlukile. Yiqiniso, kumnandi ukubona insizwa enezintuthwane ezinobuthi kanye nesisu esiqinile, esiqinile. Kodwa isithombe esinjalo ngeke sikhangele kubo bonke abesifazane. Abamele abaningi besifazane besifazane bathi bangamahloni ngamadoda anezidumbu, nezihlathi ezinamafutha kanye nemizimba edla kahle.
Ososayensi bathole iphethini elula ehlukanisa indoda enhle kubantu abavamile. Konke mayelana nobukhulu bomzimba kanye nenhlanganisela yabo. Izindebe ezinamahlombe kanye namaphethelo avulekile, ayisihluthulelo sempumelelo.
Ngokungangabazeki, indoda egqoke isitayela nesinambitheka ibukeka ihle. Ngesikhathi esifanayo sokuziqhenya, ukuzethemba, futhi kusukela emibonweni yabesifazane ngeke kube khona ukukhanya ngaphandle.
Emhlanganweni wokuqala, abesifazane besimanje, njengasekhulwini leminyaka elidlule, babheka kuqala izicathulo, behlola ikhwalithi yayo, ukunemba, izindleko ezilinganisiwe. Futhi enye yezindlebe zokuqala igxila ngakwesokunene salowo muntu, amehlo ayoskena uma engenayo indandatho yokuzibandakanya eminwe.
Ukubuza lo mbuzo kubangani obuhle, ukuthi bangabani abantu abathandekayo, abesifazane baqala ukubhala hhayi idatha yangaphandle, kodwa ingqondo, ukuhleka kwemizwa, ikhono lokuhlala emphakathini, ukuzethemba, ukucola kwezembatho, iphunga elimnandi. Kusukela kulokho okulandelayo ukuthi ubuhle obukhulu bomuntu bubujamo bakhe nobumnene.