Ngesizathu esithile, umbono wokuthi ngokuzalwa kwengane, ukuthokozisa kwabesifazane kuphelile, kunabantu abanomqondo omncane ezingqondweni zabamama abancane banamuhla. Umthelela oqhubekayo wokukhathala, ukungabikho kokulala, ukwesaba, ukungaqondi izihlobo, nokunganeliseki ukwedlula isibalo sabo - zonke lezi zinto zibulala ngokuphelele ekuziphatheni kwangempela.
Ngaphansi kwamandla angalungile!
Ukubukeka kuyinto umfanekiso wesibuko wezwe lethu langaphakathi. Ekuqaleni, umama osemncane emva kokuzalwa kwengane ukhathele kakhulu ngokungalali ngokwanele, ke - kusukela emizamweni yokunakekela ingane, khona - kusukela ekuziphatheni okungenasici, ke - ekungaqondani izihlobo, njalonjalo, ngaphandle kokuphumula kanye nezinsuku. Akumangazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ufuna ukukhala, ukukhala, ngisho nokulwa. Nguwo nje amandla akho amabi adinga ukuphuma. Zama ukungavumelani nesimo lapho umphumela wakho ongeke ube nomntwana, kumyeni, kwabanye abantu abathandekayo kuwe. Ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukunikeza kusengaphambili ukushayela okuphephile kwamandla akho.
Kungcono ukubhalisa ekuziphatheni okuhlotshaniswa nobuciko bokulwa (isibonelo, taibo), noma ungakwazi nje ukubeka ipeyari ekhaya bese uyiphatha. Ukucindezeleka kuzokwehla, nakuba lesi akusona isisombululo sonke kule nkinga. Khona-ke udinga ukuhlola lesi simo ngekhanda "elihlile" futhi uqonde: imbangela yentukuthelo yakho yayiyizinkinga zangempela noma usanda ukhathala futhi kwakukhona ukuphazamiseka. Uma kunenkinga, kufanele ixazululwe. Ukukhulula nje umbhangqwana lapha ngeke kusize. Futhi ukukhuthazela akuyona inketho. Ngakho uzibophezele, uphenduke owesifazane omdala, uzizonde futhi ... kungcono ungaqhubeki.
Ungenzi induku yombani evela kumyeni wakho!
Ngokwezibalo, ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, inani elikhulu kakhulu lohlukaniso lwenzeka. Amadoda avame ukushiya umndeni, ashiye abafazi bawo kuphela nomntwana. Futhi kulokhu okuvamile owesifazane unecala. Ukhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi eduze kwakhe - indoda. Lokho afuna ukubona kumfazi wakhe othandekayo ubulili kanye nesifazane, ukuzwa ukunakekelwa kwakhe, hhayi nje ukusetshenziselwa into yokukhululwa kombhangqwana noma ifoni ukwenza imali. Owesifazane ukholelwa ukuthi umyeni unesibopho sokulalela nokubekezelela izinkolelo zakhe, azenze sengathi uyamthanda kuze kube phakade izinwele ezingahlanjululwa, izipikili ezinomunyu nokukhathala, ukuvuvukala ebusweni bokulala ebusuku. Futhi akudingeki ukuba, yena ungumuntu ofanayo nomunye umuntu, uthanda amehlo akhe, emva kwakho konke! Futhi, engatholi induduzo ngamehlo nangomphefumulo, uyashiya.
Okubi kakhulu ukuthi lapho kungekho maningi amantombazane, omama abancane ngokuvamile baphenduka isihogo sento. Bakhohlwa injongo yabo yokuqala - ukuba abe ngowesifazane. Ngokuzinikela kumntwana, bahlupha imiphefumulo yabo ngokuhlupheka, futhi imizimba yabo ingakhathazeki. Ngakho isiphetho esibalulekile: banakekele amadoda!
Akudingekile kuphela ukwenza imali nokusiza umndeni, kodwa futhi nokulondoloza ukuhlala komuntu siqu. Yiqiniso, abathande abaningi abasha bangasolwa ngezindlela eziningi: bachitha isikhathi esingaphansi nezingane zabo, abanaso isikhathi sokusiza ngemisebenzi yasendlini, futhi abaqondi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ikhefu lokubeletha aliyona iholide, kodwa iningi elisebenza. Kodwa lapha into eyinhloko ukusebenzisa izindlela zokuthula: wazi umyeni wakho kangcono, uyazi ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zokubamba okudingayo ozodonsa, ukuze yena ngokwakhe afune ukukuhlangabeza.
Ungakhohlwa ngobuhle
Hlala owesifazane omuhle futhi okhangayo, ngisho nangemva kokubeletha futhi kungadingeka. Owesifazane kumele ahlale ezwa ubulili bakhe. Ngakho-ke ungabi namahloni okuthanda umuntu wakho, nawe ngokwakho.
Ungesabi ukuvikela ilungelo lakho lokuya enhle salon noma ezitolo. Makwenzeke njalo - into esemqoka ukuthi lezi zinhloso zaziyizinto. Bheka kaningi esibukweni - ngoba manje awubheke kuphela kumyeni, kodwa futhi nomntwana wakho. Ungalindeli ukwehla ukwelula amahembe, izingubo ezimbi zokugqoka kanye nokuzivocavoca okugqamile.
Ubulili - "yebo"! !! !! !! !!
Ingane akuyona neze isithiyo ekuya ocansini. Ukungabikho okwesikhashana kwesifiso kuyinto evamile. Into enzima kakhulu ukuqala. Ngakho-ke qala - isifiso siza nokudla.
Ake uqale ungayizwa injabulo yangaphambili. Usukho okuncane okuthintwayo, kodwa kulungiswa. Khumbula: umama omncane udinga ucansi. Ukubona owesifazane onganelisekile, kungabi yindoda, kuyinto edabukisayo. Futhi ukukhathala ngaphezu kokunganeliseki ngokocansi kuyingozi ekukhuliseni kwakho.
Emgodini noma endle?
Wena-ke, ungahlala nomntwana ekhaya: usuku nosuku, inyanga emva kwenyanga, futhi uzijabulise ngethemba lokuthi konke kuzodlula. Futhi awukwazi ukuqala ukuhlupheka, kodwa ufunde ukuhlala kwenye entsha, kuphela ngomntwana. Qala ukuvakashela, kumbukiso, esitolo, zama ukudlula ngakwesokudla, uthole imfundo eyengeziwe.
Umama ngamunye, uma efisa, ucela izindlela zakhe ukuzizwa bephila. Unganaki izinto ezinjalo eziwusizo njenge-sling, i-backpack-kangaroo, umgibeli wokuhamba, othwala nezinye izinto zokwakha zesimanje ezilula. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ube nomakhalekhukhwini wakho ngaphezulu.
Ubulili obuningi!
Futhi akukhona mayelana nezingubo, u-manicure nezinwele. Umama osemncane futhi omuhle e-skirt kanye ne-pantyhose ye-lace enomntwana nomgibeli ohambahambayo ubheka okungenangqondo kunokuba ekhangayo. Ungakhohlwa ukugcina iso kulesi sibalo futhi ungagqoki kahle, kodwa ngokuhlelekile. Kungcono ukukhetha isitayela semidlalo - izinto ezinjalo zifashini, ngeke zilahlekelwe ngokobulili, kodwa zizogcizelela kuphela.
Gcina ukuma kwakho. Uzokutshela konke: "Ngingowesifazane ongajabule futhi ophelile, kunzima kangakanani abantwana abanikezwa", noma "Bhekani, ngingumama omuhle kangakanani, ngiyintombazane enhle enginayo! "
Noma kunjalo, ngezinye izikhathi akusona isono sokusebenzisa ukudlala ngothando. Lona umdlalo ongenakulimaza owenza ukuthembela kowesifazane. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungowesifazane ongakwazi ukunakwa, unike ukushisa nokuhle, uzijabulise. Uma ungahambi kakhulu, "ukuqeqeshwa" okunjalo kuyasiza kakhulu. Ekugcineni, ujabulele imiphumela yakho kuyoba yindoda oyithandayo.