Indlela yokuthola isipho
Kungenzeka ukuthi sinqume ngokunembile ukutholakala kwezipho ezinganeni kuphela ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kochwepheshe, kodwa kunezici ezivamile abazali abangacabanga ukuthi banezingane ezinesipho.
- Ingane ayilali kakhulu.
- Ngokushesha kakhulu ufunda ukufunda.
- Ubiza igama lokuqala eneminyaka engu-6.
- Ukhuluma umusho wokuqala eneminyaka eyi-12.
- Lapho uneminyaka eyi-18-24 izinyanga zingase zisekele inkhulumomphendvulwano, isebenzisa ocebile kakhulu ngesigama sakhe semagama.
- Eminyakeni eyi-2.5 ufundisa izinhlamvu zamagama futhi ubala eziyishumi.
- Ixazulula imisebenzi elula yokwengeza nokukhupha ngeminyaka engu-3.
- Kusukela eneminyaka engu-3, ubuza mayelana nencazelo yamazwi angajwayelekile.
- Kusukela esemncane ubuza imibuzo "kungani?".
- Kubonisa umcabango.
- Izwela kakhulu emhlabeni wangaphandle.
- Unenkinga ngemibuzo yobulungiswa nokuziphatha.
- Ingane inamandla futhi izethemba.
- Okuqaphele kakhulu, ukulungele izimo ezingajwayelekile.
- Uzigxeka yena nabanye.
- Ukulalelisisa, ukwazi ukugxila ngokugcwele.
- Ukhetha umphakathi wezingane ezindala.
- Unenhlonipho ephansi kanye ne-propensity yokucindezeleka.
- Kulezi zifundo, unesithukuthezi, ngoba ikharikhulamu ejwayelekile ayimangalisa kakhulu kuye. Othisha bathola kunzima ukuthola isisusa kuye.
- Ngangena ngaphakathi kimi, ngihlakazekile.
- Ukucabanga kuveza ukwedlula ukuzala: kudala imibono.
- Uzwa okungajwayelekile, ukholelwa ukuthi akaqondi
- Uzimele, unomlingiswa we-introvert.
Ungaba kanjani umzali?
Uma abazali beqaphele izimpawu zomntwana ezifanelekile, kufanele babonisane nothisha noma ochwepheshe futhi balandele izindlela ezithile. Uma ingane isipho ngempela, abazali akumele besabe: bazosizwa. Noma kunjalo, abazali bazoqhubeka nokunakekela ukuthuthukiswa kwengane.
- Khuluma nengane, udlale naye. Ukukhuluma ngezindaba zansuku zonke, cela ingane ukuthi iveze umbono wayo.
- Yenza isithakazelo somntwana wesayensi nobuciko, kumsize athuthukise amakhono akhe kulezi zindawo.
- Kanye nomntwana, vakashela lapho angakwazi ukufunda okuthile okusha - kumamyuziyamu, emitapo yolwazi, izikhungo zomphakathi, lapho izenzakalo ezihlukahlukene zihlelwe khona.
- Ungavumeli ingane ingabi nesithukuthezi, ishukumise umsebenzi wakhe, ichaze ukuthi impumelelo izoba usizo esikhathini esizayo.
- Yakha indawo enokuthula lapho ingane ingafunda khona futhi ifunde, imsize ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole.
- Khuthaza isithakazelo somntwana emisebenzini yangaphandle.
Ingabe izingane ezinesiphiwo kufanele zifunde ezikoleni ezikhethekile?
Izinhlelo zezemfundo namasu wezingane ezinezintandokazi zigxeka kakhulu ngenxa ye-elitism. Ukuhlukanisa izingane ezinjalo emphakathini akukhuthazwa, futhi, noma kunjalo, badinga ukunakwa okukhethekile. Abanye ochwepheshe batusa izingane ezinesipho ukutadisha ezikoleni ezijwayelekile, kodwa ukuzinikela isikhathi esiningi sokutadisha, ukufunda kuzo, uhlelo oluyinkimbinkimbi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, othisha nabazali kufanele baqaphelisise inqubekela phambili.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono omphakathi
Ezinye izingane ezinamakhono zinamahloni kakhulu, zithola kunzima ukuxhumana nezinye izingane nabantu abadala. Ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okuxhumana ngendlela yokukhomba ukufaneleka kwengane kungasizwa ekhaya ngezivivinyo ezilula.
- Fundisa ingane ukwenza imisebenzi elula uma kunezivakashi endlini (isibonelo, vula umnyango, sisize izivakashi ukuba ziqede, ziwanike ukudla, njll). Ezinye zalezi zenzo kufanele zibuyekezwe kusengaphambili.
- Khuluma nengane ngalokho okudingekayo ukuze ugcine ubuhlobo obuseduze, futhi uchaze ukuthi yiziphi izimo ubuhlobo obuseduze.
- Siza ingane ukuba ifunde ezingxoxweni zefoni, funda ukulalela umbono womunye umuntu, uziphathe njengezivakashi, njll. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane enesiphiwo ingasiza ngezindlela ezilandelayo.
- Khetha ukuzilibazisa. Imisebenzi eyithandayo ayiyona into ethakazelisayo kuphela - kuyithuba elihle lokuba nabangane abanezithakazelo ezivamile.
- Joyina iqembu emphakathini wendawo, ngokwesibonelo, ku-Boy Scout Club. Ingane izokwazi ukunikeza amandla nokuxhumana noontanga.
- Bamba iqhaza emisebenzini yesikhashana esikoleni, ukuze ube njalo embuthanweni wezingane ezinesithakazelo esifanayo.
- Thola umsebenzi noma uvolontiya emphakathini wendawo (ngemuva kwesikole nakumaviki). Kuzosiza ingane ukuba ijoyine umphakathi futhi ikhulise ukuzethemba kwayo. Manje siyazi ukuthi yiziphi izindlela ezikhona zokukhomba ukufaneleka kwengane.