Uthando lungumzwelo omuhle, futhi kungokwemvelo ukuba wonke umuntu azizwe, futhi akukho lutho olungenamahloni ngawo. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kimi ukuthi siza emhlabeni nje ukuthanda, kepha abanye, mhlawumbe ngisho nabaningi, bayakhubeka endleleni efanele, uNkulunkulu asiyala ngayo. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuvuma kumuntu esimthandayo othandweni. Kungani sesaba ukukhuluma noma ukuzwa inkulumo ethi "Ngiyakuthanda"? Kukuphi? Sifihla imizwa yethu efudumele emva kokungabi namuntu okubandayo, kodwa ebusuku sizisola ngokulahlekelwa ithuba lokuqashelwa noma siphupha ukuthi ngelinye ilanga sizobe sithi, sivuma kulo muntu othandekayo, sithi "Ngiyakuthanda". Hisquequequequequequequequequeque hisque followingque hisque hisque his hisqueque followingqueque followingqueque his hisque hisqueque followingque followingqueque following followingque his followingque followingqueque followingqueque Ngakho kungani kunzima ukusho - ngiyakuthanda? ? His his followingquequequeque his his his his his his his his his his his hisque hisque hisque following
Ngicabanga ukuthi wonke owesifazane uzongilalela kanye nenkambo yemicabango yami, futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi amadoda nawo acabanga kanjalo. Le nkulumo ilingana nokulahlwa kwenkululeko yethu. Ngemva kokusho la mazwi, kunezibopho abantu abaningi abesabisayo nje. Izibopho - yilokho esesaba ngakho, sesaba ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo, bese siphutha. Noma yimuphi umuntu wesaba izinguquko empilweni yakhe, ngoba akazi ukuthi iyiphi indlela nokuthi lezi zinguquko ziyobathinta kanjani impilo yakhe.
Ngaphambi kokukhuluma le nkulumo umuntu uhamba ngezindiza zamahhala, njengezinyoni, futhi ngemva kwala mazwi, uzibeka enqabeni bese eba mkhuba njenge-parrot Kesha. Ungasho ngisho nokuthi amazwi lawa magama ahambisana neqiniso lokuthi uzibeka emgodini, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ulahlekelwa inkululeko yakho. Umuntu, ovela ku-kroti uKeshi, uhlukile kulowo muntu owaziyo ngesihluku somuntu, kodwa akakwazi i-parrot. Uyesaba ukuthi ukuhlala emgodini ngaye kuyoba yinkinga enkulu. Kulula kakhulu ukuthi sizame ukwethemba umuntu, futhi sithembele, sesaba ukulutha. Sesaba ukuthi uma sidlala ngokwanele nathi, bazosiphonsa njengodonsa ongadingekile, bephule izinhliziyo zethu futhi badonse amaphiko ethu, bese singeke sikwazi ukuhamba, futhi nakakhulu ngeke sisakwazi ukwethemba omunye.
Inkulumo ethi "Ngiyakuthanda" ibopha izandla zethu ngamaketanga asithinte ekuhambeni ngokukhululekile ngokusebenzisa impilo. Kusenza sibe nomuzwa wokuzethemba. Futhi sesaba ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukubamba ingilazi yothando esithintekile ezandleni zethu ezigobile bese siyiphonsa bese siyishaya izicucu ngenhliziyo yothandekayo. Yini engaba yimbi ngaphezu kokudumala komuntu othandekayo kuwe?
Noma mhlawumbe awuvumeli umuzi wokuziqhenya ukuvuma, futhi mhlawumbe uhlushwa ngokungabaza, kodwa ingabe lowo muntu, futhi ngimthanda ngempela? Sesaba ukulahlekelwa okuhle, futhi uma silahlekelwa lokho esinakho, siyaqonda ukuthi lokhu kwakungcono kakhulu.
"Kungcono ukwenze futhi uguquke kunokuba ungenzi futhi uphenduke," kusho uBoccaccio ohlakaniphile, omkhulu. Yiqiniso, wayeqinisile, ngoba wenze noma wathi, uzothola okukukhathazayo ebusuku, futhi kuphela ngale ndlela uzothola impendulo yombuzo wakho ngemva kokufunda lonke iqiniso. Hisquequeque his hisqueque hisqueque followingqueque hisque hisque hisqueque followingque produits hisque hisquequeque following produits his following hisque following following following following following his his his following following produits his followingque hisque Phela, kulula kakhulu ukufunda nokuzola kunokuba uzwela engaziwa.
Futhi ngifuna ukucabangela ngakolunye uhlangothi, owesaba ukuzwa amagama athandekayo. Khumbula, ebusheni bethu, sanqaba ngisho nokumanga, kuze kube yilapho umfana evuma uthando. Ngobusuku obumnyama ngemva kokuthola, ngemva kokukuyisa emnyango wendlu yakho, kumele athi amagama afuna ukukwenzela. Futhi, kuyiqiniso noma akunjalo, ngokujwayelekile, futhi kwakungenandaba nathi ke, kwakubalulekile ukuzwa lawa mazwi. Kodwa-ke, thina ngokuqinisekile sasikholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso, futhi wavumela abafana ukuba bazange, baze bavume, kepha manje? Manje sivumela, futhi sikhuleke futhi sisitshele, futhi silale nabo nje ukuze singalizwa la mazwi. Ngezinye izikhathi sikulungele noma yini, kodwa hhayi emazwini azosiphazamisa.
Lawa mazwi amnandi ukuzwa lawo maantombazane asesemncane futhi ephupha inkosana enhle ngehhashi elimhlophe, kodwa hhayi labo besifazane abajwayele ukuzimela. Lo wesifazane, owabeka izingane ezinyaweni ngokuzimela, wabanikeza ukuba bafunde ezindaweni ezihloniphekile, kumfazi owathengayo imoto epholile futhi eyithuthukisa emsebenzini wakhe omuhle kakhulu, kudingeka yini ukuzwa la mazwi kumuntu? Ngempela, kubo kuyisinyathelo, bazophuma endleleni, futhi kungani bashintsha okuthile ekuphileni, uma kakade kuhle kakhulu.
Owesifazane webhizinisi othembekile, awunedwa, okuzungezile ugcwele amadoda asekulungele ukunakekelwa kwakho ukukuvumela ukuba usebenzise wena. Ikhululekile njengomoya, ohamba ngesivinini ngokuzumayo futhi aphephe. Akukho ukuzibophezela kumuntu, akukho amahlazo, ukuphikisana, umhawu, izinyembezi, intukuthelo, akukho okubi nokubi, okwenza kube nokubonakala kombimbi. Futhi owesifazane onjalo ubheka kancane kunomfazi oshadile. Bashadile, ngingathi, uhlobo oluthile lwesaba futhi lungalingani, ngaso sonke isikhathi niphikisana futhi niphikisana. Yebo, abesifazane abakhululekile bahlale bezolile ngokomzwelo, futhi bazizwa bekhululekile kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Akukwanele yini ukuthi uhamba nawe, ukuthi uya kuma-movie nakwezokudlela, utshela amagama amahle, futhi isigamu sakho sesibili sombhede asinalutho. Akukhona lokho okwanele? Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubo bonke, uzizwa ungenazo izibopho, singasho ukuthi phakathi kobulili obuhambayo, futhi akukho lutho. Ngokufanayo naye ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile namanye amadoda, futhi yena nabanye besifazane, ngoba akukho sibopho, akukho uthando, futhi akukho nkulumo ethi "Ngiyakuthanda".
Kodwa uma ekutshela ukuthi "Ngiyakuthanda", ke awukwazi ukusho ukuthi kukhona ubulili obunqunu phakathi kwakho, ngoba uma okungenani uhlangothi olulodwa luzwa imizwa yothando, khona-ke kukhona esinye isixhumanisi. Futhi-ke, khona-ke kukhona izibopho, kodwa, yiqiniso, unelungelo lokumnika "ukuphenduka okuvela esangweni," noma uthathe yena nothando lwakhe futhi uhambise ezingeni elihlukile lobuhlobo, kuya phezulu, lapho ungahlanganisi khona kuphela ukuxhumeka ngokomzimba, kodwa futhi ngokomoya. His hisque hisque hisque his hisque his followingque his hisquequequequequequequequequeque:
Ukuvuma ngothando akukhona nje amazwi, akufanele abe yize, kumele bafihle inani elikhulu lothando, isisa, uthando, ukunakekelwa nokunakwa. Yiqiniso, lokhu akuwona uhlu lonke umuntu onothando okufanele akhulume kubathandekayo bakhe, njengoba u-Archimedes athi, "Uthando luyinto okumelwe ibonakaliswe nsuku zonke!", Ngakho-ke, faka uthando lwakho, hhayi nje ngamazwi nokuvuma, kodwa ngezenzo.
Kodwa ngikholelwa futhi ngithemba ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu uzothola isigamu sakhe sesibili. Isikhathi sokuyithola, usazokwazi ukutshela ngemizwa yakho bese uyigcina, ngakho ungesabi imizwa yakho, futhi ungesabi ukuwabonisa. Ngempela, wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuthokoza nokuthanda, kodwa akubona bonke abasebenzisa leli lungelo!