I-ABC yethu yokuphila enempilo kubantwana izokutshela ngalokhu.
Indlela enempilo yokuphila kwengane ihlanganisa lezi zinto ezilandelayo:
- Ukudla okulungile nokuphezulu
- Ukuqeqeshwa ngokomzimba, ezemidlalo
- Inhlanganisela engafani yomsebenzi wengqondo nomzimba
- Imithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo ehambisana nesikhathi esanele.
Kubonakala sengathi akukho lutho olungavamile noma okungavamile kulolu hlu, kodwa ezweni lethu cishe ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu zama-first-grader angeke abizwe ngokuthi uphilile, futhi ekupheleni kwesikole samabanga aphansi inani labantwana abagulayo lenyuke laba ngu-70%. Izingane ezikoleni zanamuhla azizona izinkinga ezingavamile ngesisu, amehlo, izixhobo zokusebenza.
Izingane eziphilile - kufaneleke abazali kuqala. Ukudla kwabantwana nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kufanele kube njengokwehlukahluka ngangokunokwenzeka. Ungakhohlwa ngesilinganiso esifanele samaprotheni aqukethwe inyama, inhlanzi. Khokha ngokukhethekile imifino, izithelo namaju, ikakhulukazi ngenkathi ebandayo.
Ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphila enempilo yizemidlalo, indlela yokuphila esebenzayo. Kulungile, uma ingane yakho ishukuthela ngokwemvelo, ungammangaleli ngokungahlali kahle. Humusha lo mkhakha womlingisi ube esiteshini esihle - bhala phansi ingane emidlalweni noma esigabeni sezemidlalo. Noma kunjalo, izingane eziningi zanamuhla zihlupheka ngenxa yokuntuleka komzimba - imisebenzi yansuku zonke esikoleni, futhi ekhaya i-TV noma ikhompyutha. Imiphumela yalokhu kuziphatha izothola ingane kakade ekukhulile - ukukhuluphala ngokweqile, ukucindezeleka komzimba, isifo sokuqina kwegazi. Uhlu lungadluliselwa isikhathi eside, futhi imvelaphi yaso ilala ngokuqondile ebuntwaneni.
Abazali kufanele banakekele ukuxazulula le nkinga. Ema-megacities anamuhla, inkundla, imidlalo yezemidlalo, kanye nendawo nje yemidlalo yangaphandle ayitholakali ngaso sonke isikhathi ingane. Izingane azikho izimo zemidlalo. Kodwa ukujwayele ukucindezeleka ngokomzimba okuvela ekubelethweni - kungenzeka kunoma yimuphi umzali, ngisho noma uqala nje ngokuzivocavoca kwansuku zonke. Futhi uma ingane iya enkulisa noma esikoleni, lo msebenzi uzowela othisha nabafundisi ngokufanayo.
Futhi unake izinqubo ezinzima. Akudingekile ukuba ucindezele ingane ukuba ihambe noma ithulule amanzi e-ice. Okokuqala, hamba nomntwana emgwaqweni kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Gqoka, hhayi ukuvimbela ukunyakaza kwakhe (ikakhulu ebusika), ukuze akwazi ukugijima ngokukhululekile.
Abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo wokuhleleka okunengqondo emva kwamahora esikoleni. Ukucindezela ngokweqile kwengane lapha akulungile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungamvumeli achithe, alahle izifundo noma imisebenzi yasendlini. Kungcono kakhulu ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole ngemuva kokudla kwasemini futhi uhambe (mhlawumbe okungenani amahora amahora nesigamu ubude). Qala umsebenzi wesikole ngemisebenzi elula. Yiba nesithakazelo kumntwana lapho eqala ukusebenza, ucindezele lo msebenzi. Ingxenye yokuphila enempilo iyahamba ngaphambi kokulala. Ingane izolala kangcono futhi ithole icala lamandla amakhulu.
Qaphela isimo somzwelo wengane yakho. I-psyche yengane ayinakulinganiswa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi iphonsa "amaqhinga" kamuva aphenduka izinkinga nge-neurology kanye nesimo somzimba wonke. Khumbula ukuthi akukho lutho olwesabekayo kwengane uma abazali bexabana futhi behlambalaza. Uma ungakwazi ukugwema ukuthola ubuhlobo, okungenani, thumela ingane ukuhamba egcekeni noma ukuvakashela. Noma kunjalo, ungadlulisi ukucindezeleka nokucindezela kwakho kuye. Isimo sengqondo esimnandi sengqondo nokuxhumana okufudumele emndenini kuwumnikelo omkhulu empilweni yengane yakho.
Emphakathini wanamuhla, ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo kuhle ngisho nangomuntu omdala. Yini esingayisho ngomntwana omncane? Inani lemininingwane elitholwa yizingane esikoleni ku-TV landa njalo. Izifundo eziningi zemfundo ziwela phezu kwezingane. Kodwa abazali bafuna ingane ukuba ihlabe, idansa, ibhukuda noma ikwazi isiNgisi ngokuphelele. Konke lokhu kudinga isikhathi esengeziwe, umzamo. Ungalindeli okungenakwenzeka kwengane, ayeke kumakagu owodwa noma amabili bese umvumela ukuba akhethe izifundo ekuphileni kwakhe esikhathini esizayo. Umsebenzi wakho ukwenza ingane ijabule. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, mfundise ukuba abe nempilo.
Khokha kakhulu ingane yakho, ukhulume ngawe, impilo yakho, wabeka isibonelo esihle. Sithemba ukuthi i-alfabeti yethu yokuphila enempilo ezinganeni ongayisebenzisa ngenzuzo yengane yakho. Ungahlukanisi indlela yokuphila enempilo yengane ngendlela yokuphila enempilo yomuntu omdala, ngoba umndeni onempilo kuphela okhuliswa ngumuntu onempilo.