Ukushintshwa kwengane esikoleni: imithetho emihlanu yabazali

Okokuqala kukaSeptemba ngomqambi wokuqala ukuqala kwesigaba sokuphila esisha: isimo esingajwayele, ukuhlanganyela okungajwayelekile, imisebenzi eminingi. Ungalungiselela kanjani ingane esikoleni ngaphandle kokwenqaba ukulahlwa kanye ne-neurosis? Izazi zengqondo zincoma abazali ukuba bafunde imithetho emihlanu elula eyokusiza ukwenza lula ukuzivumelanisa. I-axiom yokuqala yiklamo yendawo yangaphakathi "yesikole" ekamelweni: lokhu kuzothuthukisa ukugcwaliseka kweshintsho nokunciphisa umthwalo engqondweni yengane yengane. Isikhala sihlukaniswe ngezigaba eziningana - emsebenzini, ukudlala nokuzilibazisa - okuvumela ingane ukuba ilandele umyalo eyedwa.

Umthetho wesibili ukubekezela nokuvusa. Iziqu zegumbi le-enkulisa zisalokhu zilukhuni ukubhekana nokuvela ngokungazelelwe kwemithwalo yemfanelo. Ungamsoli ngaso sonke isikhathi ngakho.

Isimiso sesithathu ukulawula okusemandleni okubusa kwansuku zonke. Esikhathini esimisweni kufanele kube nesikhathi sokufunda kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuhamba, ukuxhumana nabangani bakho kanye namakilasi ahambayo.

Isimiso sesine yisiphumo esinengqondo sesithathu. Izinto zokuzilibazisa eziwusizo ziyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komuntu ohamba phambili: ibhizinisi eliyintandokazi lifaka futhi lihlanganisa amakhono, likufundise ukubeka imigomo nokufeza ukugcwaliseka kwazo.

I-axiom yesihlanu ukudala isikhala somuntu siqu. Ingane iqala ukukhula futhi umsebenzi wabazali ukuyixhasa ngale ndlela yokuzethemba ngale ndlela enzima.