Ngokusho kocansiologists, imiqondo enjalo njenge-female orgasm ne-simulation isiyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila ngokobulili kwenani elikhulu lemibhangqwana. Ukucwaninga kule ndawo kubonisa ukuthi phakathi kwabesifazane abaye baveza i-orgasm, abangama-75% baqala ukuwaqamba izikhathi ezingaba ngu-50 ekuphileni kwabo obuseduze. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, u-10% walabo abakhethiwe bafanisa i-orgasm ngaso sonke isikhathi. Okuphawulekayo, izizathu zezinyathelo ezinjalo zabesifazane ziye zaziwa isikhathi eside kubachwepheshe.
Isifiso sokuqeda maduzane
Isizathu esivame kakhulu sokufaniswa kwe-orgasm yabesifazane yisifiso sokuqeda ngokushesha isenzo socansi. Ukuziqhenya kulokhu kuyindlela yokusheshisa umlingani. Owesifazane wakhe usevele "enelisekile", sekuyisikhathi sokufinyelela i-orgasm kanye nami.
Ngokuvamile ukufaniswa kwe-orgasm kungabangelwa uma ukusondelana nomuntu wesifazane kungamukelekile. Mhlawumbe, isinqumo mayelana nokukhulumisana sithathwe ngaphansi kwengcindezi noma imicabango yakhe ihlala nezinkinga ezithile. Izinkinga emsebenzini, usuku olunzima, ukugula kwengane - konke lokhu kungabangela ukulingiswa kwe-orgasm, ukuze kuqedwe isenzo sokusondelana. Zonke lezi zikhathi ziphazamisa lo wesifazane, ungavumeli ukuba uphumule futhi ujabule. Ngakho-ke, ubuhlobo obuseduze bubonwa owesifazane njengokwenza imisebenzi ekhethekile kanye neminye imithwalo yemindeni nemindeni. Lokhu kubangela isifiso sakhe sokuqeda maduzane.
Into ebalulekile yizinkinga zabesifazane abanempilo. Uma ucansi lenza owesifazane azwele, ukulingiswa kwe-orgasm kumvumela ukuba ayeke futhi aphumule. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezimo lapho i-orgasm yesifazane ibangela ubuhlungu besifazane nokungahambi kahle. Abesifazane abanenkinga lokhu bavame ukuzitholela ukuzijabulisa. Ngakho-ke, ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi, ukuveza i-orgasm, bavame ukuqinisekisa ukuthi okungenani umlingani wabo uzizwa enhle.
I-Orgasm njengesibonakaliso sokubonga
Isizathu esilandelayo esilandelayo sokulingisa i-orgasm yisifiso sowesifazane sokuthile okubonga indoda yakhe. Isibonelo, lapho ebuyela ekhaya, owesifazane ulindele isidlo sothando esilungiselelwe umlingani wakhe noma isipho esithile esibalulekile. Ngisho noma owesifazane engenaso isimo sengqondo socansi, uyakwenza njengesibonakaliso sokubonga, ngenxa yalokho abonisa isimo se-orgasm.
Ukulandela ama-stereotypes
Ngezinye izikhathi izenzo ezenzelwe owesifazane zichazwa ukunganqikazi kwakhe ukubheka amafriji. Wonke amavidyo amakhulu azungeze nje akwenze lokho abakushoyo ngezinkinga zobunzima, okungabangela owesifazane ukuthi anikeze le nkinga kuye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umphakathi wanamuhla uthi ubulili boqobo besifazane kumele buboniswe ngesifiso sakhe sobulili. Ukuzama ukulandela lezi zinkolelo, lona wesifazane uhlabela ukulingisa i-orgasm.
Ingabe bayakubona ukufaniswa komuntu
Kunzima ukuphendula lo mbuzo ngokungaqondile. Konke kuncike ekugcineni komuntu kanye namakhono omdlali womlingani wakhe. Ukuziphatha nokuzwa komuntu ngamunye kuyedwa. Futhi yonke i-orgasm yomuntu ofanayo ingazibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kukhona amadoda axhala kakhulu ngendaba ye-orgasm yesifazane, ebenza bafune izimpendulo ezithile kumasayithi akhethekile noma ezincwadini. Emva kwalokho, bazama ukubona izimpawu zomlingani wabo we-orgasm yangempela. Futhi uma okungenani enye "amaphuzu" engekho, umuntu onjalo angamsola owesifazane ngokufanisa, ngisho noma kwakukhona i-orgasm yangempela. Kodwa ngenhlanhla la madoda angamaqiniso akwanele.
Ukulimaza umzimba wesifazane
Sekuyisikhathi eside odokotela befakazela ukuthi ukulingisa owesifazane onesifo se-orgasm kungabangela umzimba wakhe ube yingozi kakhulu. Ukuphuma komzimba okunjalo kuyadingeka futhi kuyasiza kumfazi. Futhi lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela emzimbeni, kodwa futhi nempilo yengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umlingani weminyaka eminingi ebuhlotsheni eveze owesifazane ngokuziqhenya, lokhu kungenza ikhefu elingathí sina ebuhlotsheni babo.