Okumangalisa ukuthi, kodwa, ngokusho kwemiphumela yezimvo, ngokoqobo bonke abantu bathi "ingqondo" yilokho amadoda ayakwazisa kakhulu owesifazane.
Kodwa-ke, bangakanani abantu abayiqiniso ezindabeni zabo. Ngokusho kwesinye uchungechunge oludumile lwe-TV, umlingisi oyinhloko uyintombazane eyayingenayo idatha yangaphandle evelele, kodwa yayinamandla kakhulu. Yeka indlela emangalisa ngayo, ngisho nokubonga engqondweni yakhe, akazange ahlangane nomthando wakhe, futhi izixuku zabalandeli azizange zihlangane nezicathulo phambi kwakhe. Kodwa, lapho nje ukubonakala kwakhe kukhonjiswe - nansi kunjalo, injabulo yowesifazane - ukunakwa kwamadoda.Ngabe intombazane ehlakaniphile isho ukuthini amadoda? Mhlawumbe angayilalela futhi ayiqonde ngokuthula? Smart - ke ukuthethelela, uma kunesidingo? Ngokuvamile ungase uzwe ukuthi amadoda athi intombazane ingacatshangwa kanjani uma ivumela umuntu ukuba azizwe ehlakaniphile.
Kulandela ukuthi amadoda ayakwazisa kakhulu owesifazane ikhono lokuzizwa ehlakaniphile kunaye.
Kuthiwani ngokubukeka. Eqinisweni, amadoda awanjalo njengento esicabanga ngayo. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane amahle ashiywe yedwa, futhi konke ngoba ubuhle bawo bubukisa abantu. Buza ukuthi kungani? Owesifazane omuhle udinga ukunakwa okuhle. Ngeshwa, akuwona wonke umuntu oqiniseka kakhulu ngamakhono akhe.
Amadoda kakhulu ayazisa ukuzethemba komfazi. Emehlweni akhe, ungafunda: "Ngimhle, ngiphelele futhi ngizethemba." Kulowo wesifazane onjalo, amadoda adonselwa njengemagnet.
Ngikholelwa, amantombazane, ngokuqinisekile amadoda akhokhela kancane isibalo. Embuzweni wesibalo, kubo into eyinhloko ukuba nokulinganisa. Ngokusho, isibalo sakho kufanele okungenani sifane ne-hourglass.
Futhi wonke ama-hype azungeze iqiniso lokuthi kudingekile ukuba ahlale ezidlolweni ezinonya ukuze azuze ukubukeka komodeli futhi aqale ukuthanda amadoda kuyisisindo esihle sembonini yobuhle.
Amadoda amancane kunabo bonke abathokozisa owesifazane izimfanelo ezifana nobuhle, ukunakekela nokubonisa ububele. Amadoda athetha i-bitch. Nakuba, indoda endala iba, ihlukumeza kakhulu iqala ukubheka abangane abanobubele, abanakekelayo nabanobuqotho empilweni yabo.
Kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuthi kufanele ukhathalele ngakho.
Futhi, iningi labo bonke abantu bayakwazisa owesifazane ozwa amahlaya. Yini engcono kakhulu kumuntu kunobungane nomfazi ojabule onethemba lokuphila futhi kunoma yikuphi isimo sokuphila kuzophuma ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakhe.
Futhi-ke, kubalulekile kumuntu ukuthi uhleka amahlaya akhe.
Amadoda adinga ukwethembeka. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, balinde izimpendulo ezithembekile ezimpendulo eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, njengoba zithole izimpendulo zazo, zingase zithukuthele futhi zidumale kulokhu.
Ngakho-ke, amantombazane abathandekayo, ungabeki zonke izimfihlo zakho, ngisho noma indoda yakho ikubuza yona ngezinyembezi emehlweni akhe.
Kubantu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane ulungiswe kahle. Kodwa abathandani ngempela la maantombazane angenalo umuzwa wokulinganisela ekwenzeni.
Amadoda ayakwazisa amantombazane aphila ngendlela enempilo: ungabhemi, ungaphuzi, ungafungi amagama. Noma kunjalo, bona ngokwabo bangenza futhi benze iphutha. Kodwa, lokhu kuphela umbono wabantu.
Kunzima ukuphendula ngokucacile umbuzo amadoda abakwazisa kakhulu owesifazane, ngoba indoda ngayinye umfanekiso wesifazane ongcono uhlukile. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane bangelulekwa ukuba bazithanda, bakholelwe ekungabikho kwabo, ukukhanga namandla.
Ngokushesha lapho wena ngokwakho ukholelwa ukuthi ungowesifazane owadalwa ukuze ahlonishwe. Ngeke ube nesikhathi sokubukela emuva, njengoba uzoba indlovukazi yezinhliziyo zabantu.