Kule minyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ubudala, lapho izinto eziningi ezijwayele ukuhlala ziphela, futhi zashintshwa amacala ayingqayizivele ahilela kuphela imfashini, i-psychology, i-aesthetics, kodwa futhi nomhlaba wangaphakathi womuntu, imishado engalingani yaqala ukungena emfashini, kanye nobuholi obuthatha «I-Businessman Vumen». Isikhathi sasikhethekile, futhi ngubani owakwazi "ukugoqa" naye emlenzeni, futhi wahlala noma "wahlala" esihlalweni. Futhi ukuthi kwakunjani ukufakela amakhasimende ngaphansi kwe "vodka" nabangani, bexoxa ngabathandi abasha abasha.
Kuze kube manje, umshado ongalingani, owesifazane osekhulile cishe ibhizinisi elijwayele ukwedlula "imfashini yemfashini." Amantombazane yanamuhla azalwa enenhloko ekhanda: ukuqeda isikole esiphakeme, ukuthola imfundo yangempela, internship efanele, umsebenzi okhokhelwa kakhulu. Ukuzimela nokuzimela - i-credo, i-motto, nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Pho, kuphi ukushada lapha? Vumela okungenani ezinye, ngisho nokungalingani?
Emncintiswaneni wokuphumelela, isikhathi asikwazi ukukhetha umlingani ofanelekayo: ohlakaniphile nonomusa, onempilo futhi onamandla, ofanele wena nangeminyaka yobudala, futhi ngokubukwa ngekusasa lakho elihlangene, konke omama bethu abaphuphayo ebusheni babo.
Amantombazane yanamuhla achitha isikhathi esiningi ekuziqapheleni, futhi uma isikhathi selahlekile ujika, konke lokhu okusha nokuphumelela, ubona obani? Abafana abancane nabahle kakhulu, njengalokhu bengenakuzivikela njengoba wena ngokwakho eminyakeni engu-20 eyedlule, futhi ufuna ukuwafihla, ubathuthukise, ubafundise imithetho yokuphila. Futhi uma uqala ukuqonda ukuthi ujwayele ukujwayela, uhlela lo mshado ongalingani. Emshadweni, uma owesifazane ekhulile kunomuntu, kaningi kunokuba ubuhlobo bufana nomama, akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukubonakala njengoDemi Moore. Futhi kaningi, ubuhlobo bwakhiwa ngokuzuzisa ngokubili: ungumbuso wami nokuxhumana, futhi ngikunika ubusha bami.
Ubusheni bakhe yilokho owakuphuthele, ukuzuza, ukwakha nokwephula. Sekuyisikhathi eside kuboniswe ngabathinteli bezocansi ukuthi owesifazane othandweni usemncane. Owesifazane othandana nomshado ongalingani kabili: Ukuhambisana nomlingani wakhe osemusha kudinga kokubili ukuzikhandla ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama, futhi uma lokhu okuzuzisa umzimba (ukufaneleka, imoga, izinqubo zokuvuselela), okokuqala akuyona njalo. Emindenini eminingi engalingani, ngezinye izikhathi omama "abavuselelekile" baziphatha ngokuhlekisa futhi ngokungangabazeki ukukopisha abaqashi babo, kodwa uma indlela yokuphila enjalo ihambisana nabo bobabili, khona-ke sizojabula kuphela ngabo. Kodwa umzuzu lapho "abesifazane" abanjalo bephonswa ngaphandle "kokungabi nalutho", lapho bethola kubo okufisa, banikezwa ukuba bangaphili bonke abantu. Phila ngokwesaba njalo ukuthi uzophonswa, uzizwe njenge "sub-prime" kanye nomxhasi - hhayi ukukhetha okuhle kwesitayela sakho nokuphila okufushane.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi unelisekile futhi uyathandwa! Umzimba omncane futhi omuhle olele, hhayi omubi kakhulu, ngoba ngaso sonke isikhathi ekuphileni kukhona into okufanele ulwele! Futhi uma uphuthuma ngokuzumayo, khona-ke wena ngokwakho wakwenza, yenza amaphutha akho, wenze umsebenzi, uzakhele uphumelele, udale imishado engalingani futhi uxoxe nge-sauna nabangani abangaphansi kwe-vodka: abahlinzayo abahlinzeka ngamapulasitiki aseJalimane, ihhotela elisha e-Bali nokuthi uhlobo lomshini owanikeze ngalo ngosuku lokuzalwa kuka-25 lomyeni wakhe osemusha. Into eyinhloko owajabula ngayo!