Ngeke sihlale sisondela kumntwana ekushayweni kwakhe kokuqala. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Impendulo icacile - udinga ukujwayela ukuzimela, hhayi kuphela emidlalweni yodwa, kodwa nasezintweni zokuzibophezela nasemisebenzini yasendlini.
KUCLAUSE YOKUQALA
Iqiniso lokuthi izingane akuthandi ukuba yedwa kungokwemvelo. Ngokuzalwa kwendodana ezweni lakithi, njenganoma yimuphi umndeni onokubonakala kwengane yokuqala, injabulo nokukhathazeka kwanezelwa. Ngesikhathi umyeni wami esebenza, kwakudingeka ngigeze futhi ngigeze izingubo, ngipheke ukudla, futhi ngangifuna ukuphumula, kodwa indodana yami yayifuna ukuba nakekele yonke iminithi.
Ngikhipha ingane ebhodini phakathi kwekamelo, ngavula yonke iminyango futhi ngenza imisebenzi yasendlini, ngezinye izikhathi ngikhamuluka endlini yokugezela futhi ngiphuma ekhishini incazelo yalokho engikwenzayo manje nokuthi ngizobuya nini. Ngenca yalokho indodana yaqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini amagama, kodwa yabheka ukuhamba kwami nxazonke, wazwa izwi lami elilile futhi wavuma ukulinda isikhathi eside.
Ngesikhathi ingane ingahambi ngokuzimela, umuntu angazama ukuyithatha ngedoyi elikhanyayo. Kodwa nokho, ekucekeni kokuqala kwengane ukuthi ubuyele ekamelweni, khona-ke ukungabikho kwakho ngeke kusahambisane nokuduma - umntwana uzokwazi ukuthi: Umama uzofika ngokushesha nje lapho ebiza. Lapho indodakazi yethu yedwa, indodana yayithokozile nje, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi udadewethu wayezama ukuphumelela ukufaka ipiramidi, ukugodla izimbiza, futhi lena yinye, namanje, imidlalo. Kodwa-ke, izingane ezineminyaka emibili ubudala nezinyanga eziyisithupha zazinzima ukuxoxisana, futhi usizo lwabazali lwaludingeka. Isixazululo satholwa: Ngabatshala ekhishini eduze kwekhabethe, lapho ngaqala khona ukukhipha izinto ezihlabayo kanye nensimbi esindayo. Wonke umuntu wayejabule: ibhodlela lemidlalo enomsindo lalikhulu kakhulu, futhi ngangingakwazi ukulawula lesi simo ngezikhathi ezithile.
Lapho umntwana eqala ukukhasa, sekuyisikhathi sokuba umama ahambe ngokukhululekile. Egumbini lokuphumula, umama angavumela ingane ukuba ilahle imicushi evela esitokisini, iya kumamagazini abumnyama, ekhishini - ukudlala, isibonelo, ngezinto zokupheka zokhuni. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kuhle ukuhlakulela amakhono amakhono okuhamba kahle, futhi yonke indawo umama uzothatha ingane yakhe, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ukupheka kwesidlo noma ukugeza phansi.
ABASIZA BETHU
Eminyakeni yonke, izingane ziqala ngenjabulo enkulu yokwenza izabelo zikamama ezilula - zithwala igumbi, zilethe i-spoon etafuleni, njll Ngifuna ukukhumbula lapho ngibheka kuqala ibhanali, kodwa empeleni iqiniso elibalulekile: umsebenzi owenziwe kumuntu wesilisa. Ngakho - izingane ezijwayele ukusebenzela! Lokhu kunathi, abantu abadala futhi ngezinye izikhathi abakhathele kakhulu, umsebenzi wesikole awujabuli kakhulu, kepha ingane isuke intsha, ngakho-ke ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokumjabulisa ngebhizinisi elisha futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze uzuze lo mbhangqwana. Okokuqala, izingane ziyakwazi ukugeza, ukuxubha amazinyo, nokusula ubuso bazo ngamathawula abo, futhi okwesibili, zingakhonza etafuleni: ulethe izinkomishi ezihlanzekile, izitsha, izinkezo, futhi okwesithathu - siza umama ukupheka ukudla: wenze amakhukhi avele enhlama, sebenzisa ibhotela, izimbiza kasawoti, ushukela, okusanhlamvu, okwesine - ukumboza isikhala sakho (emva kokuqeqesha okuncane konke kuzovela!) bese uqoqa imithwalo, ngenkathi umama edonsa ingubo egumbini lelineni. Futhi izingane ziyajabula ukujabulisa izivakashi-izingane ngesikhathi umama esiphuza itiye ekhishini nabazali bakhe. Yiqiniso, ngamunye wethu angalungisa lolu hlu ngokuqonda kwethu. Ngokwemvelo, kulula ukuzondla ingane ngokwayo noma ukuyihlwanyela emanzini kunokunikeza othandekayo wayo ukuzimela kancane, bese uyigeza emanzini okugcoba emzimbeni noma embi kakhulu. Kodwa ngikholelwa, ingane izothola masinyane lamakhono ayisisekelo, njengoba izizukulwane eziningi zokhokho bakhe zathola.
Ukufunda nokudlala
I-injini yokuzimela kwengane yiqiniso ukuthi ingane ifunda amakhono ahlukene nezindlela zokuxhumana nezinto ezizungezile. Njengoba ufunde lawa makghono nezindlela, ingane izokwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngokufanayo noma ngezimo ezincane eziguquliwe - ngakho-ke uthi izingane ze-psychologists nabothisha. Futhi sifundisa izingane ukuba zikhwanye, zihambe futhi zigijime, kodwa zifanele zifunde futhi zizenzele kuphela-zisebenzise ibhodlela, zishaye phansi ngomshanelo, uma uzama, thola ishidi bese usula impumulo yakho, njll Zonke lezi zifundo ingane ifunda kangcono futhi isheshe uma ukuzethula ngendlela edlalayo. Isibonelo, ufundisa ingane ukuba idle eyedwa - uthole i-spoon emlonyeni wakho. Hlala eceleni kwedoli okulula ukuyihlanza, futhi vumela izinyane lizame futhi "lidle". Ngokushesha uzothola ukuthi manje ingane yakho oyintandokazi izama ukuzidla ngezinkezo ezizungezile: ubaba, izihlobo, abangane kanye nezintshe ze-teddy. "Ukudla okunjalo" akugcini nje ukulungisa ikhono lomntwana olutholakali, kodwa futhi kwenza imisebenzi yakhe yokudlala ihluke kakhulu.
Ukuvimbela ingane ukuba ingadluli futhi ifinyeleleke, umama kudingeka abe nesikhathi sokushintsha umsebenzi wakhe kuye. Futhi lapha ubuciko buzosiza - enye yezingxenye ezibaluleke kakhulu zomsebenzi wengane. Ungadonsa umunwe ofulawa ohlakazekile etafuleni, noma ungapenda ephepheni. Ungaphakamisa amapensela anemibala elula, akufundise indlela yokusebenzisa i-eraser. Ungathola ibhokisi leplastiki futhi ulungise indawo yokusebenzela abasha abadwebayo. Ngamabomu ngingakhulumi ngezikhali kanye neglue lapha, ngoba sikhuluma ngamakilasi nemidlalo ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela komama. Amakilasi athakazelisayo ayinqwaba, eqinisweni, kabili ayithakazelisayo kanye nomama wami, kepha uma engasekho okwesikhashana, le minithi ngeke idlule ize.
Emndenini wethu, into eyintandokazi kakhulu idonsela eshidi elikhulu lika-Whatman. Ngilula amapensela, ngibeka i-whatman phansi, bese sikhetha isihloko sokudweba, isibonelo, i-Afrika, futhi ngithola ibalazwe jikelele le-Afrika. Izingane ezinomdlandla omkhulu zidweba imininingwane (amapiramidi, imifula, amahlane). Ukuze udlale ezilwaneni zase-Afrika noma kuDkt. Aybolit ekhadini elizenzela, la madoda athakazelisa kakhulu kunalowo owathengiwe, ikakhulukazi ngoba omunye angakwazi ukudweba izinto ezingekho. Uma unikeza ingane lokhu noma lowo msebenzi, ungakhohlwa ukucabangela izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwayo, ikakhulukazi ukulungele umsebenzi wokuzimela: uma ingane isanda kuqala ukuhamba, cishe sonke isikhathi sayo sithathwe ngaleli khono elisha, eminye imidlalo nemisebenzi ingahamba ngemuva. Ingane endala idinga ukukhunjuzwa ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi nemisebenzi elindelwe emini, ukuze afunde ukuhlela isikhathi sakhe samahhala - okuyigugu nokulindelwe isikhathi eside kuyoba yisikhathi semidlalo ezizimele. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ingane kufanele iqonde ukuthi uma yenza okuthile ngokwakhe, isiza kakade abazali futhi kubaluleke kakhulu kubo. Uma engazange enze yonke ibhizinisi yakhe ngokuthula usuku lonke futhi engaphazamanga nonina, kodwa wawa phansi, wahlanza izitsha, wakhuphuka nomdlalo omusha udade osemncane, ngakho-ke ungumuntu omuhle nje!