Kubazali, usuku lokuzalwa lokuqala lwemvuthuluka lubangela imizwelo eminingi nokuhlangenwe nakho. Kufanele ube nesikhathi sokulungiselela kanjani? Ubani ongamema? Yini ukupheka? Lokhu akuyona yonke uhlu lwezindaba ezikhathazayo abazali bomfana wokuzalwa. Namuhla sizokhuluma ngendaba ebalulekile njengemenyu yokuzalwa komntwana oneminyaka eyodwa.
Ngakho, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza imenyu inqume wena ozopheka zonke izinto ezihamba phambili. Uma yonke idili edilini ofuna ukuyithatha ehlombe labazali bakho, izitsha kufanele zibe ezihlwabusayo futhi zilungiselelwe ngokushesha futhi kalula. Qaphela, ngeke ube nesikhathi esiningi sezitsha eziyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba ingane encane iyaqhubeka ifuna ukunakwa okuningi.
Isitsha esiyinhloko setafula lesikhathi selokhu siphelile futhi sihlala ikhekhe . Ukuklama kwekhekhe lokuzalwa kokuqala kuyinto yenkulumo enkulu kakhulu. Zingaki izinhlobo ezahlukene zekhekhe zezingane ezinikezwa ukunakekelwa ngabalwazi abanokuhlangenwe nakho kwezobuchwepheshe! Ukuze unqume ukukhethwa kwekhekhe, udinga ukuhlinzeka ngezinto ezimbili: ukuza nomklamo futhi uthole umpheki wezinkwa ongawenza umsebenzi wezinto zokugqoka okwanele. E-intanethi, ungathola izinketho eziningi ezihlukene ngamakhekhe ngosuku lokuzalwa komntwana oneminyaka eyodwa. Amabhuzu, izingubo zokugqoka, amabhinki, izilwane ezincane nezimbongolo zihlotshiswe ngamaqebelengwane amnandi omntwana! Kodwa uma umama ekwazi ukubhaka ubuciko obuhle, khona-ke ikhekhe elibhakawa nguye liyoba yindlela engcono kakhulu yekhwalithi esemqoka yetafula lokugubha. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthengela ikhandlela kusengaphambili ngekhekhe lezingane. Ngonyaka wokuqala wathengisa amakhandlela afaka imibala ngendlela eyodwa, ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona amakhandlela avamile okudayiswa "amakhandlela" ngendlela yezinqola zesitimela, izimoto, njll.
Imenyu yomsunguli womkhosi
Kubalulekile ukungakhohlwa ngokudla komfana wokuzalwa. Ngicabanga ukuthi lolu suku lokuzalwa aluyona isizathu sokuhlola kwimenyu yengane yakho. Ngakho-ke, ungalungiseleli okuthile okusha noma ukondle ukudla komntwana kusuka etafuleni elivamile. Vele ulungiselele isidlo sezintambo esiphundu kunazo zonke, okuthandayo - kuzoba yilokho okudingekayo ingane yakho.
Awekho amazambane noma kuphi!
Mhlawumbe kunzima ukucabanga idili ngaphandle kwamazambane elihlwaya! Ngusiphi isimo ukupheka? Lokhu sekuvele ukuthi ukucabanga kwakho kuzokuvumela kanjani: ukugcoba, amazambane aphuziziwe noma amazambane emaqhoshini - uzokwanelisa, ngicabanga, zonke izihambeli zezivakashi.
Izitsha zokudla kufanele zibe khona etafuleni lokugubha. Lezi zingaba yizicucu, ama-chops, ama-meatball, ama-klabishi, ama-pepper aqoshiwe, i-chicken ethosiwe noma i-chicken cake, inkukhu ethosiwe noma ingulube ebhakawa ngamakhowe. Lokhu akulona lonke uhlu lwalezi zitsha ongazipheka. Khetha okuthandayo kakhulu, into efinyeleleka kakhulu kuwe.
Imvelo yama saladi incike esikhathini. Entwasahlobo nasehlobo, ama-salads amakhukhamba, utamatisi kanye neklabishi, izaladi zezithelo zilungile. I-appetite ibukeka iklabishi edotiwe, ama-saladi amakhowe, kanye nama-saladi anezilimo zommbila, izinkuni nezinkukhu.
Indlela yokucabanga itafula lokugubha ngaphandle kwezinhlanzi ! I-mackerel ephumiwe, ama-bass asezinyosi aqoshiwe, i-hake esetshontshiwe - ngeke ishiye noma ubani engekho!
Umhlobiso wethebula
Kubalulekile ukungakhohlwa mayelana nomhlobiso wetafula lokugubha. Itafula lezingane lihlale lihlotshiswe ngendwangu yetafula ehlakaniphile, ama-napkins aneklamo yezingane kanye nezitsha ezimibalabala ngezithombe zezintandokazi zezinganekwane.
Noma ngabe yini ongayisho, ukwenza imenyu yokuzalwa komntwana oneminyaka elilodwa kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile sokulungiselela iholidi lezingane. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ilungiselelwe kusengaphambili, ukuhlela ukuthenga okudingekayo kwemikhiqizo, kusengaphambili uhlele ikhekhe. Kubalulekile ukubala isikhathi esifanele sokupheka. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlele futhi ulungise konke kusengaphambili, uzokwenzela izimo ezihle zeholide elingabalibaleki lezingane. Iholidi elijabulisayo kuwe nomntanakho!