Gqoka. Empeleni, lokhu kuyisisusa esiyinhloko, okusikhuthaza ukuba siye ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Kodwa kufanele kukhethwe! Futhi kuningi kakhulu kubo. Futhi konke kuhle kakhulu. Futhi konke kuyabiza kakhulu. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Okokuqala, udinga ukuzola futhi ... uphume. Bese ucabanga: ufunani uhlobo lomshado? Cabanga ngemininingwane encane kakhulu. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukukhumbula isisindo sakho sangempela nobukhulu bakho. Kuyiqiniso kuphela, akushiwo. Ngendlela, kuzintshisekelo zakho. Okulandelayo, udinga ukucacisa ngokucacile ukushayela kwakho kwezezimali, nakho konke okungawudluli ... Oh, yeka injabulo ... Kodwa savuma ukungaboni! Futhi manje ungaqala ukubuka. Ugcina isikhathi esiningi futhi, okubaluleke nakakhulu, amandla angokomoya.
Imfihlo yomshado omuhle futhi ophumelelayo nayo ifihliwe enhlanganweni yomkhosi. Manje yini enganikiwe - nezinombolo zezimoto (Masha + Vanya), namavidiyo, neziqhumane, namajuba amhlophe emafwini. Izindleko zomshado zivame ukungena ezingeni eliphansi. Kodwa uma kungazelelwe (kahle, ngokuzumayo?) Imibuzo yezezimali yakho ayibalulekile kakhulu, ke izindleko ezingokwengqondo nezingokwenyama zenhlangano ziphelile kakhulu kangangokuthi ukucabanga okuphela kokulindela komshado kungukuthi: "Nkosi, kuhle, masinyane kuphele!" Ukugwema lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba Ukukhetha: ungenzi namajuba (emva kwakho konke lokhu kungukudlova phezu kwezinyoni); ukulahla yonke imibuzo yenhlangano emahlombe ezinesibindi somuntu (ake sithi umyeni wesikhathi esizayo uzobonisa ukuthi ufanelwe).
Izivakashi. Ngomshado, ngesizathu esithile, abamemezeli labo ofuna. Futhi labo abacasuliwe, uma bengabamenywanga. Lezi zinsuku ziqashwe ngabantu abangamakhulu amabili. Awubakhumbuli ngisho nasebusweni bakho, kodwa umama wakho uthi: "Awu, akunakwenzeka, akukhathazeki." Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuqina.
Leli liholide lakho. Futhi uma umuntu efuna ukuzijabulisa emshadweni - ngakho masihambe futhi ashade. Kulesi senzakalo, kunezimfihlo eziningana zomshado omuhle futhi ophumelelayo, isibonelo, izinketho ezamukelekayo kakhulu: ukuhlala kuphela nabazali amahora ambalwa, bese ubalekela eqenjini elingenandaba nabantu abangcono kakhulu; uma i-finance ivumela, khona-ke akeke bafike bonke. UNkulunkulu abe nabo. Esikhathini sesithandwa sogogo nomalume, ngandlela-thile, balahlekelwa, futhi uzobukeka emehlweni ajabulisayo okhethiweyo wakho, futhi uzobuka ezakho. Futhi bavumela bahambe. Umama, futhi, kuhle. Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka ukubona konke okusemcimbini womshado. Ngokuqinisekile into eyokwenzeka - i-limousine izophuka, futhi uzoba sekwephuzile ngenxa yobhalisi, izitokisini zizokwephula, ufakazi uzothela iwayini elibomvu ngengubo emhlophe, isithende sizophuka, futhi umkhwezala nomkhwezala bayoba abalandeli bekamu lezombangazwe ezahlukene. Futhi-ke umshado wakho uzosindisa into eyodwa kuphela - iqiniso lokuthi uyathandana. Lokhu, empeleni, kuyimpumelelo enkulu yomshado wakho kanye nokuphila kwakho. Eqinisweni, iqiniso lokuthi umphathi wezinsizakalo emgqonyeni noma othile wayengathandi into - ngakho-ke leli yizwi elifanele, izinhlanzi ezinjalo.
Isimo sengqondo somuntu emshadweni. Amadoda ayengavamile ukushada ekubalweni. Njengomthetho, lokhu kungaba umshado wothando noma ukuphoqeleka. Kwenzeke ukuthi amadoda ashade noma asheshe (ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-22), noma esikhundleni sekwephuzile (emva kuka-30). Futhi njengoba isipho sokushada senziwa cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngamadoda, ngoba kuye kusho kuqala kokumemezela umthwalo wemindeni yomndeni wesikhathi esizayo. Amadoda angena emishadweni enokuzenzekelayo (engacabangeli) okungenani kancane kunabesifazane. Ngokuvamile, ikakhulukazi esemncane, badibanisa uthando ngothando.