Imidlalo yokulala komuntu othandekayo

Kuyizinsuku lapho ukuhlelwa okuyinhloko kokuzijabulisa ngokobulili kwakuyisimo sezithunywa zevangeli. Esikhathini sethu, imidlalo embhede yenziwa ngabantu abancane nabadala. Cishe wonke owesifazane uzama ukubaluleka embhedeni othandekayo. Futhi imidlalo yokudlala ngokobulili ilapha njengoba kungenakwenzeka ngendlela.

Noma kunjalo, ezinhlobonhlobo zezinjabulo zocansi, kunezinzuzo nezingozi. Uma ungayazi imithetho eyisisekelo yokuziphatha embhedeni, ukuhlolwa kocansi kungaba yisiqu sokuhamba okuyingozi endaweni yezemayini. Kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu. Okokuqala, ungangena ngengozi ngephutha elingenamthetho lomuntu wakho. Okwesibili, ngokuvuma into entsha, ungalimaza impilo yakho yengqondo nengokwenyama. Okwesithathu, kunezinhlobonhlobo zemidlalo yokuzibandakanya ngokobulili eziholela ekunciphiseni kobulili noma ukuzwela. Futhi esikhundleni sokuhlukahluka embhedeni, ungathola ukungabi nalutho okuphelele kwesifiso nokungakwazi ukuzwa i-orgasm.

Ukudlala embhedeni indoda ethandekayo akufanele ukuguqula impilo yakho esihogweni bese ubonisa impilo yakho eyigugu engozini. Yeka ukuthi ungangeni kanjani emgibeni wezinkinga ngokuzama ukulala embhedeni? Udinga ukwazi izimiso ezimbalwa eziyisisekelo.

Okokuqala, sidinga ukunquma lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukuvuma kokubili kokubili. Kuyinto engathandeki kakhulu ukuhamba ngaphesheya kwalo, nokho kungase kuzwakale kudabukisayo. Ngeshwa, akekho oye wakhansela izinkinga zokuhambisana ngokocansi, ngakho ngezinye izikhathi umuntu kufanele avume ngobuqotho ukuthi akusilo iqiniso ukuzama ngakho konke abakufunayo namanye amadoda. Njengoba nje kungekho ithuba lokuzama nabo ukuthi yini ophuphayo, ngoba kubo akumukeleki.

Uma wenza okuthile okuphikisana nomphefumulo, ungathola isifo esifana nesifo sezisulu zobudlova ngokocansi. Ngenxa yokuvela kwalesi sifo, ithuba lokuthola i-orgasm lingase linyamalale, futhi esimweni esibi kunazo zonke, kungase kube nezibonakaliso ze-vaginismus nezinye izifo ezenza ukuphila kocansi kungenzeki. Ngakho-ke akudingekile ukwenza okuthile kubathandekayo bakho embhedeni okubangela ukudeka nokuthuthumela.

Kule ndaba kubalulekile ukucabangela izifiso zamadoda. Uma engakwamukeli izinhlobo ezithile zobulili, ungagcizeleli. Lokhu kuzoholela ekwehleni kwesimo semvelo esibucayi sobudlelwane futhi kuzobangela izinkinga ezingadingekile zobulili.

Iphuzu lesibini elibalulekile kuyisidingo sokuthola ulwazi lwezokwelapha mayelana nokuvuma futhi ukungamukeleki kwezinhlobo ezithile zemidlalo. Isibonelo, uma unquma ukuthi bobabili bafuna ukulala ocansini, kufanele nifunde zonke izincwadi zokwelapha ezikhona kule ndaba. Kuzoba nezinhlamvu ezanele nezithandwayo eziphathelene nobulili ukuze ufunde ukuthi awukwazi ukuxubana ngobulili obulili nesiswini ngaphandle kokuqhuba izinqubo zokuhlanzeka ngemuva kokudala. Kanti futhi inqubo yaloluhlobo lobulili iveza ulwazi lwezisekelo zokuphepha, kubalulekile ukugwema ukulimala okungadingekile.

Iphuzu lesithathu elibalulekile ukwazi ulwazi lwezohlobo zemidlalo ezingabangela ukwephulwa okukhulu kwezempilo ngokocansi. Ukudlala embhedeni womuntu othandekayo akufanele ukuguqula ube yisisulu, ungakwazi ukufisa ucansi. Kuwo wonke owesifazane isethi yemidlalo ethwala ingozi yokwehluleka okukhulu kwengqondo ingumuntu ngamunye. Kodwa kunezimiso zendawo yonke. Isibonelo, abakwa-sexologists batusa ukugwema kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezocansi zeqembu, kusukela ekuguquleni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthonya kanjani umuntu ukuzama ukulala ngocansi noma abalingani bezokushintshanisa, akufanele ucabange ukuthi uyavumelana. Ukuthi emadodeni emva kokuqala komkhuba wokuziphatha ngokocansi, i-potency iyancipha ngokushesha. Futhi ukubuyisela lokhu kuphazamiseka kamuva kungaba nzima kakhulu futhi kuyabiza, noma kunjalo, abalingani bezocansi ezweni lethu ashibhile. Futhi abesifazane bangabe besaba nomuzwa ongenacala wecala, okungaholela ekusongweni kocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile amadoda avela umkakhe noma inkosikazi ezandleni zomunye umuntu, agcwalise ubuhlobo naye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini ayethembisile ngaphambili.

Yiqiniso, ukuze uqale ukuhlolwa ensimini yezocansi, isibalo esithile sesibindi siyadingeka. Akubona bonke abantu abakulungele ngezigaba zokuqala zobudlelwane ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngezifiso zabo bese ubuza ngabo owesifazane. Futhi-ke, lapho ubudlelwane besivele buba namandla kakhulu, ngokungazelelwe kuvela ukuthi izithakazelo namathuba ocansini awahambisani ngokuqinile.

Eqinisweni, ekusebenziseni imidlalo yokudlala ngokocansi, i-pluses ingaphezu kokunciphisa. Lesi yisici esibalulekile sobulili enempilo kubo bobabili besilisa nabesifazane. Imidlalo yezocansi ayikwazi nje ukugcina isifiso ebuhlotsheni. Bayakwazi ukusiza lo mbhangqwana ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwane nokuwaletha ezingeni elisha lokuphila. Njengomthetho, imidlalo eminingi embhedeni isiza owesifazane ukuba azi kangcono umzimba wakhe, aqonde futhi aqaphele izifiso zakhe. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, bangaba umthombo we-orgasm kulabo besifazane abahlangabezana nezinkinga ezithile nalokhu.