Imikhuba emibi nhlobo - ezinganeni nakubantu abadala. Futhi akekho ozophika ukuthi imikhuba yabantu abadala, ngokungafani nezingane, akusizi ngalutho. Ngakho-ke, musa ukwahlulela ngokuqinile uma ubona ukuthi ingane ishaya umunwe, futhi ungasheshi ukummangaza, mhlawumbe nawe awuphelele.
Isimo - kusho indlela ehlelekile yokuziphatha, eyothola uhlamvu lwesidingo. Umkhuba uvela emakhono kanye namakhono. Okokuqala, umuntu kufanele afunde isenzo esithile, bese athola ikhono, futhi kuphela kungaba umkhuba. Umkhuba ubhekwa njengokulimaza uma kungalimaza impilo, intuthuko kanye nokujwayeleka komphakathi komuntu.
Futhi manje sizozama ukuhlukanisa izinhlobo eziyinhloko zemikhuba emibi yengane, izimbangela nezindlela zokuziqeda.
Umkhuba uyinduduzo. Imikhuba enjalo ihlanganisa ukuncelisa isithupha, izinto ezincelisayo, izipikili ezihlabayo (nibbling), ukushaya indlwabu, ukudonsa izinwele, nokuguqula ikhanda noma isiqu sakho. Enhliziyweni yokuvela kwemikhuba enjalo yisidingo esingenakulinganiswa. Ngokuvamile lokhu kungabikho ukunakekelwa kwabazali, ukuzivumelanisa okunzima enkulisa, ukuhamba, ukuhlukanisa abazali, noma esinye isimo esicindezelayo. Umkhuba omubi wengane uba yindlela yokuthokoza. Futhi uma ukuphuza umunwe nokubamba izinzipho kukhuluma, kunalokho, ngokungazinaki, khona-ke ukushaya indlwabu kufakazela inkinga enkulu kakhulu - kuba uhlobo lokufaka uthando lomzali nothando lwababelethi.
Ngingathanda ukuhlala ngomkhuba wokunwa ngomunwe. Ezinganeni kuze kube unyaka lokhu kuyisikhathi esivamile, ungakhathazeki ngakho, ukuphuza umunwe ukubonakaliswa kwe-reflex esondayo, eduze nonyaka lapho ingane ithola imisebenzi emnandi kakhulu, lo mkhuba uyanyamalala ngokwawo. Kodwa uma ingane iqala ukuncelisa umunwe osondelene neminyaka emithathu, lokhu kubonisa ukunganeliseki kwakhe ngokomzwelo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
- Zama ukuqonda ukuthi yini eyabangela umkhuba omubi;
- Ukuphazamisa ingane ngemisebenzi ethandekayo futhi ecacile, kanye nokuxhumana nabangane;
- Ukubeka umntwana ukuba alale, uhlale naye aze alale, utshele indaba noma uhlabelele i-lullaby, ubambe ngobumnene izandla zakhe;
- Sebenzisa isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka nengane. Ukunakwa kwabazali kungenye yezidingo zezingane ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Yini engekwenziwe?
- Ukugcizelela ukunakekelwa kwengane ngomkhuba omubi. Izingane ngokuvamile zenza izenzo ezijwayelekile ngaphandle kokuqonda, kuleli zinga, lo mkhuba kungenzeka udlule ngokwawo. Uma ingane ikhunjuzwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokuthi ingabe yenzani kabi, ifaka umunwe wayo noma ihlamba izipikili zayo, lo mkhuba ungakuthola ingqondo engqondweni yakhe, bese uyiqeda kuyoba nzima kakhulu;
- Scold, uhlazo futhi ujezise ingane;
- Zama ukuqeda umkhuba we "ugogo" izindlela - ukusakaza iminwe nge pepper, ukubopha, njll. Umkhuba kungumphumela, futhi udinga ukuqeda imbangela, ngaphandle kwalokho ukushayela inkinga ngaphakathi, ukuqeda umkhuba owodwa, usengozini yokuthola enye;
- Shiya ingane ukuba ilale yodwa.
Umkhuba ungumphumela wemfundo. Imikhuba enjalo ijwayele abancanekazi abaneminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala. Futhi usola yonke imikhuba emibi. Yebo, okungukuthi, imikhuba emibi. Uma ingane yakho isetshenziselwa ukuxhuma ngamandla, ukukhetha esidlangalaleni ekhaleni, ukukhuluma ngomlomo ogcwele, ukuthatha i-cutlet, njll, mhlawumbe ukhohlwe okuthile uma utshala imikhuba emihle. Futhi unake kulabo abakuzungezayo, futhi-ke, ngokwakho, ngoba izingane zithatha isibonelo kubadala.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
- Khuphula "imikhuba efanele" emntwaneni, ufundise imikhuba emihle, - ungakhulumi ngenkathi udla, uhlanza impumulo yakho egumbini lokugeza, uhlaziye ngokuthula ukudla kwakho, ungagxili emikhuba yakhe emibi;
- Uma umntwana eziphatha engaphilile, mtshele ngakho ngefomu elithambile futhi ungazitholi kwabanye.
Yini engekwenziwe?
- Hlonipha ingane nabanye abantu. Lokhu ngeke kumlondoloze kumkhuba, kepha usengozini yokulahlekelwa yithemba lomntanakho;
- Ukuhlukumeza ingane, sebenzisa amagama "ingulube" noma into enjalo. Ukudumisa kunciphisa amandla okubazali, zama ukuthola izindlela eziningi zamasiko.
Khumbula ukuthi ingane, njengowe, inombono wayo, izifiso nezidingo zayo. Ufuna ukubona ingane yakho ijabule futhi ingenayo imikhuba emibi, phatha umuntu omncane ngenhlonipho, ukunakekelwa nothando.