Ukuziphatha kuyindlela yokubonisa inhlonipho ngomuntu, ukufeza isihawu sakhe. Futhi ukuziphatha kwentombazane ngokuphathelene nomfana kuyindlela yokuhlala enhliziyweni yakhe impilo.
Sizofunda imithetho yokuziphatha, noma kunalokho, ukuthi kungaba kanjani i-bitch yamasiko. Ngokuqondile, i-bitch, laba bangabesifazane abaheha amadoda (kulokhu bona ngokwabo bavuma).
I-Bitch ingowesifazane onesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe komuntu siqu, hhayi nje umdwebo we-diaper nomyeni wakhe othandekayo. Uhlale ehlanzeka kahle, enhle, enokwethenjelwa. Uma uhlela into, isibonelo, ukuhlangana nabangani, ke-ke akukho muntu oyedwa ongeke amvimbele ukuba angenzi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, indoda yakhe ayizizwa ihlazekile futhi icasuliwe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uyaziqhenya ngakhethiweyo wakhe futhi usekulungele ukuphawula, uma nje ehlala naye njalo.
Ungamthandi umuntu njalo kusihlwa. Uyanquma ukuthi wena ufike phezulu futhi awukwazi ukuthola kuphi kuwo. Awunaso isikhathi sokubukela emuva, njengoba ukunciphisa kwakho phansi kuzofika ekhaya konke kamuva nangemva kwesikhathi. Futhi ukusebenza ukubalekela ukukhanya, noma ukusa. Kungani? Awunandaba naye. Awusasona isithelo esivinjelwe.
Indoda ingumzingeli ngokwemvelo. Owesifazane ongenakufinyeleleka uyisilwane esihle kakhulu. Ukufinyeleleka kalula kowesifazane kuyabangela intukuthelo kumuntu, kanye nokubambisana okugcwele nombono wakhe engxenyeni yowesifazane.
Uma kungazelelwe umuntu wakho uxwayise ukuthi uhlala ebhajini nabangani, ke ungambheki. Ukusesha kuyisiphetho salowo muntu. Unezinto eziningi ezibalulekile ukugijima uzungeze idolobha ngokufuna insizwa yakho.
Ungesabi ukubeka lo muntu endaweni. Ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile kubo. Uma kungenjalo, uzozicabangela ngokuphelele ukuthi akajeziswa, futhi wena, ngokwakho, uyokhulula izandla zakhe.
Veza umbono wakho, isizathu, ukufakazela ukufaneleka kwakho. Indoda inesithakazelo ekuboneni umngane ofanelekayo eduze kwakhe.
Hlanganisa i-lexicon yakho imishwana ethi: "Kungani ungibize?", "Uyangithanda?". Ukhohliwe? Ungowesifazane othembekile, obomvu bakhe obukhanyayo futhi obujabulisayo ukuthi uma umuntu engakushiyi, ngeke uqaphele. Ukukhathazeka nokuvusa isifiso sakhe, ngoba ukungalindeleki kwakho kuyisihluthulelo sokuqala ubudlelwane obunzima.
Lapho uzama ukuba yi-bitch yangempela, ungakhohlwa ukuthi usengumfana onothando. Futhi umlingani wakho ufanelwe ukubonakaliswa kwesisa nokuthandana kwakho. Kunoma yikuphi ukuzikhandla, akufanele ukwedlule induku.
Hlonipha indoda. Ungalingani olinganayo ebuhlotsheni bakho. Ngamunye wenu unelungelo lesikhala somuntu siqu, ukuthanda kwakho nokuzilibazisa.
Ungamtholi indoda futhi ungamthandi ngekhala lakho, njengenja yokugqoka. Ngakho-ke, unciphisa ukuzethemba kwakho noma ukuphulukisa ikhefu.
Ungavumeli ukungathinti ukutshela amalungu omndeni wakhe. Ebizayo nakakhulu kunabazali bakhe, usenalo muntu. Futhi unayo, mhlawumbe, isimo esinemibandela empilweni yakhe.
Ingabe uvame ukuphupha ngokuthi umuntu okhethiweyo kufanele akuphathe kanjani? Futhi awuzange ucabange ukuthi indoda yakho, futhi, amaphupho wezinto ezifanayo? Kungani kungenjalo, naye ungumuntu wenyama negazi, ekujuleni kwesifuba sakhe ukushaya inhliziyo, ukulambile uthando nokuthandana nokubhekana nanoma yibuphi ubuhlungu.
Uthando futhi ujonge indoda yakho. Mnike ukuqiniseka ukuthi nguye kuphela futhi ohamba phambili empilweni yakho. Masiqiniseke ukuthi uyamthanda. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungamvumeli aphumule. Indoda ngezwi lakhe - okungaba kuhle kakhulu.