Uthando ... yini engcono kakhulu? Ucabanga ukuthi unobungane obunamandla, ukuthi ungathí sina. Uhlelo lwekusasa elihlangene seluvele seluhlelwe. Futhi akukho okubikezela ukuthengiswa komuntu othandekayo. Ekuphileni kwakho, ukuvumelana okuphelele.
Njengoba sasijwayele ukucabanga - bonke abantu bafana futhi bonke, njengoba besho, izimbuzi. Akunakuphikisana nathi, ngokuvamile abaqaphelisanga, bengabikho emqondweni, ngezindlela eziningi abaziqondi ... konke lokhu kusenza sicabange: "Ingabe lo othandekayo uyasikhathaza? Kukhona okungalungile kuye. Ufihle okuthile kimi. "
Kodwa bangamadoda. Futhi umhawu wethu uvame ukuphenduka u-paranoia. Ngifuna ukukutshela ngalokhu. Abesifazane futhi abalaleli ngemuva kokuphinga. Lena indaba yangempela.
Bahlangana iminyaka emibili. Futhi bonke abangane, abangane babecabanga ukuthi le ndaba izophela ngomshado. Umbhangqwana omuhle awutholakali! Ngamehlo othando, uthando nokuthuthumela. Akekho owakwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi konke kuzophendukela kanje ... Abazali bakhe babehlala kwenye idolobha. Lapho esenqume ukuwavakashela ngempelasonto; wangena emotweni futhi wahamba. Wabiza ngelanga elilandelayo wathi uyashada ngoMgqibelo olandelayo ... Lesi saziso sasinjengomese enhliziyweni. Ngomzuzwana, lahlekelwa othandekayo wakho, thola ukuthi akakudingi. Bahlangana isikhathi eside kangaka, wayefuna ukuxhumana naye konke ukuphila kwakhe ... Wayedakiwe, kodwa ngokushesha waqala imoto futhi wagijimela kuye. Emthonjeni, wayesengozini. Wagijima futhi wahamba emgwaqweni. Imoto ehamba phambili isesibhedlela. Siyabonga uNkulunkulu konke okwenzekile.
Akazange abone kanjani eminyakeni emibili ukuthi wayekhohlisa kuye? Mhlawumbe, kwakuvele kuphuphuthekiswe uthando. Ukwehliswa komuntu othandekayo, yini engaba buhlungu kakhulu?
Lapha bese udweba isiphetho. Ake ubheke abathandekayo bakho. Khetha isigamu sakho ngokucophelela, ukuze ungakwazi ukubekezelela ukukhwabanisa. Njengoba besho kwenye yezaga: themba, kodwa hlola. Qaphela futhi unakekele omunye nomunye.
Uma usabhekene nokukhonjwa komuntu othandekayo, khona-ke uziphathe ngesithunzi. Ungenzi ama-scandals ne-hysteria - lo muntu akabuyanga, kepha umbono wakho omubi uqinisekisiwe. Vala umnyango phambi komuntu futhi uthathe umoya. Zithokozise futhi ungathukutheli, futhi umthengisi uzozisola ngalokho akwenzile futhi uzocelwa ukuba abuyisele.