Uthando ngalokhu noma uhlobo lokuphumula luwumfanekiso ocacile wobuntu bomuntu, okuthandayo nokuthandayo. Okunye okubalulekile ukuthi iminyaka iyini, ucabange ukuthi ungenza impilo yakho yasehlobo kakhulu, inomthakazelisa kakhulu ingane.
Okokuqala, ake sizame ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela ingane engayithandi ezweni. Okokuqala, lokhu kungabikho kwabangane "be-dacha". Kuyinto ebuntwaneni bethu edolobheni cishe cishe akekho owakhishwa ehlobo: izingane zathunyelwa emakamu ezinyunyana, ogogo nomkhulu babehlala emizaneni, lapho sazama khona "ukukhululeka." Iphuzu lesibili: ukuzijabulisa kwethu edolobheni nasezindaweni zasemaphandleni akuzange kuhluke kakhulu - kokubili lapha futhi lapha sidlale ukufihla nokufuna, abaphangi be-Cossack kanye neminye imidlalo yangaphandle. Izingane zanamuhla zichitha isikhathi esiningi ikhompyutheni futhi phambi kwe-TV, okuyinto kuleli zwe linganqatshwa. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokunye okuvela ngokushesha kuvela: ingane ingaba nesithakazelo kanjani emhlabeni "ngaphandle kwesibuko"? Ngakho-ke, masihlole ukuzithokozisa kakhulu kwe-dacha ukuzijabulisa futhi sizame ukwakha impilo yezwe ukuze izingane zingakhathazeki.
Iminyaka engu-6-8
Kule minyaka yobudala, izingane eziningi zidinga ukuxhumana noontanga, kodwa azi ukuthi ungazijwayela kanjani, ngoba ezimweni zanamuhla azizwa zidingekile. Ukwehluleka kwesikhathi samahhala kuthinta: manje iningi lezingane ezingaphansi kwalesi sikhathi libandakanya izifundo kanye nemisebenzi engaphezulu kwezemfundo - abantu abajwayele ukuhlala endaweni yabo baqhutshwa kulezi zikhungo, hhayi "endizeni yamahhala". Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi wakho ukuthola inkampani yabantwana. Ngokujwayelekile indawo yokuphila ehlobo yidamu noma umfula. Xoxa nabaholi bamaholide ogwini ngeminye imindeni, bameme ukuba bavakashele. Noma yimuphi umzali uzokuhlangabeza, ngoba unezinkinga ezifanayo nengane yakhe.
Into enhle ukumema ku-dacha wakho umngane oneminyaka efanayo: umshana, umngane esikoleni noma engadini. Kule minyaka yobudala, nezingane ezimbili, kuzoba nezinkinga ezincane kunezinye, ngoba azizona izingane ezidinga ukuqhutshwa ngesibambo.
Mayelana nokuthi kuzokwenzani isizukulwane esincane kude ne-TV yakho ozithandayo nekhompyutheni, kungcono ukucabanga kusengaphambili endaweni yokuzilibazisa esebenzayo e-cottage. Zama ukuthinta umqondo wokwakha i-albhamu enemibala yokuphila kwezwe. Thenga ikhamera engabizi, uphrinte amafomu akhethiwe, usizo ukuhlobisa i-albhamu ngamahlamvu omisiwe nezimbali.
Umqondo omuhle i-dacha yaseshashalazini yezingane. Ngentambama, la madoda azofunda umbhalo, enze izingubo kanye nemvelo, futhi kusihlwa enze phambi kwabantu abadala. Futhi umuntu osevele usemukele ikhamera, ungamisa "umlobi". Iphephandaba lasekhaya elenziwe ngokwenziwe ekusebenzeni liyikumbulo elihle kakhulu lokushisa ehlobo okungavamile.
Uneminyaka engu-9-12 ubudala
Izingane zalesi sizukulwane, ukuzijwayeza okuphoqelekile onontanga kungacasula. Kodwa uma nje uba umngane nemindeni, khona-ke izingane zizodonselwa ekukhulumisaneni. Umkhandlu wokumema umngane ku-dacha lapha usasebenza. Uzokwenza ukuphila kube lula kuwe nakwabanye abazali.
Ukuza ukuzijabulisa ezinganeni "iminyaka engaphambi kwezingane", udinga ukukhumbula ngezici zabo. Lezi zingane zibonakala zikhulile kakhulu kokuthile, futhi into ethile encane. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, baxoxa ngezinkinga zabantu abadala nangomdlandla kanye nokungathí sina ngokuhlukana kwemali yamanani, ngakolunye uhlangothi - basakholelwa emlandweni wezinganekwane. Siza izingane zihlele okuthile okuzokwanelisa isidingo sabo ukuze sikhule futhi siphile ezweni eliyinkimbinkimbi ngesikhathi esifanayo. Okokuqala, yindlu yomuntu siqu. Bobabili amantombazane kanye nabafana kule minyaka bayokujabulela ukuhlala e-dacha uma benendawo yabo lapho, abangakwazi ukuyihlomisa ngokwabo. Ekulahleni kwezingane, ungakwazi ukunikeza i-shed noma i-shed and uvumele ukuba benze noma yini abayifunayo. Ukubanika amapende, izinto zokwakha, izindwangu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, hhayi ukufundisa impilo, kodwa ukuphendula imibuzo kuphela, uma ivela. Inkohlakalo yazo zonke izinto ezisetshenzisiwe ziqinisekisiwe, kodwa iphrojekthi enjalo ingadonsela abantwana isikhathi eside.
Ungakhathaleli ikhono lezingane ukuba zikhule ngokwabo. Yebo, bayakuzonda ukuncelisa imibhede kagogo, kodwa i-zucchini yabo noma imbali yesimangaliso iyathandeka. Ungahlela umncintiswano ugogo nomzukulu: ngubani ozoba nesitshalo esinamandla. Yiqiniso, ingane idinga ukubeka isakhiwo esihle engadini, ukuze impumelelo yakhe ibonakale kuye.
Futhi, ingane ingabonisa ubuhle bokuphila komgwaqo: ngokwesibonelo, emoyeni ovulekile ungadlala imidlalo evinjelwe edolobheni lomuzi - gxuma "kuma-rubber bands", uphonsa ama-darts.
Uma unenja, khona-ke ingane yalesi sizukulwane ingakwazi ukuchaza ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba semvelo. Ngenja, ingane ingakwazi ukuhamba ngendlela ayifunayo, futhi ihambe kalula ekufuneni izinto eziyingozi.
13-15 ubudala
Kule minyaka yobudala, ukuheha ingane, bonke abangane kanye nokuzijabulisa kwabo abahlala kulo muzi, endaweni yokuzilibazisa esebenzayo e-dacha, ngisho nangesikhathi eside, cishe akunakwenzeka. Ukukhulumisana noontanga kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebantwaneni, ngakho-ke uma ingane ingenayo "inkampani yasehlobo", wenqaba ukuphuma edolobheni. Ngenkampani noma kumngane oyedwa nje, uzoya e-dacha ngenjabulo, kodwa kuphela uma enganikwa inkululeko encane kunaleyo edolobheni.
Intsha idinga igumbi elihlukile. Uma igumbi, lapho lihlukanisiwe, futhi lingekho. Kule minyaka yobudala, isifiso sokuba nesithuba somuntu siqu sinzima kangangokuthi abaningi bayavuma ... baze bahlale etendeni. Cool futhi kukhona okumele ukubonise phambi kwabangani bomuzi! Vumela intsha ukuthi ibambe amabhasi ebusuku, yakha imoto yokushisa, ubusuku obufudumele nabangani ukuba bahlale ubusuku ebusweni be-hayloft. Ukukhathazeka akubethuki - okubaluleke nakakhulu yi-romance ebusuku kanye nenkululeko. Uma ungakha ukuzwa ukuthi intsha ishiywe yedwa, ungawagcina kalula e-dacha.
Intsha idinga ukunqoba amasimu amasha. Kubalulekile ukuwavumela ukuba baphume ezweni. Abantu abaningi bathanda ukugibela isitimela sikagesi, ngisho nokudla, ukuphuma emgwaqweni oya edolobhaneni noma emzaneni oseduze. Funda ukuzethemba!
Uma intombazane inomngane wakhe oneminyaka yobudala e-dacha, kodwa engafuni ukuya khona, thola ukuthi iyiphi inkinga. Ngokuvamile isizathu siwukungabikho kwezinto ezivamile. Ukucindezela ingane ukuthi ikhulume lonke ihlobo nabantu abangabazi emaqhinga angalungile - umoya. Khumbula - usemdala ngokwanele ukwenza izinqumo ezinjalo ngokwakhe.
Uma kunokwenzeka, nikeza ingane yakho ukuzijabulisa ngokujwayelekile: ikhompyutha kanye ne-console yegeyimu ingathathwa nayo, imishini yesimanje ingakunika wena ne-intanethi "ye-dacha". Kodwa okufanayo, ungakhohlwa: umqondo oyinhloko wokuphumula njengalokhu ukuguquka kwezimo zokujwayela. Indlu yeholidini yindaba ekhethekile, ephelele futhi ehlangene ngokuphelele emvelo, hhayi ezithelo zempucuko.
Sifunda kalula futhi ngenjabulo!
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi izingane eziningi zinikezwa isabelo sehlobo. Ngokuyinhloko, lokhu kuyisimo sokufunda ekhaya imisebenzi yemibhalo yasendulo. Ukubeka ingane ngencwadi ngesikhathi sokuvakasha "okusemthethweni" akulula kakhulu. Zama ukudlala lesi sifundo ngenye yezindlela ezilandelayo:
- yenza imibuzo ohlelweni isebenza ngemiklomelo;
- Buza ingane ukuthi iqhubeke nokuqhubeka kwezindaba bese ixoxa ngayo;
- Buza ingane ukuthi idlulisele izenzakalo zomsebenzi ekuphileni kwanamuhla (ikakhulukazi ezithakazelisayo izingane ezingu-12-15 ubudala);
- Buza ingane ukuthi ibuyele indaba ku-slang (ngaphandle kokuthi, ngempela, usukulungele ukuyizwa futhi ungalahli!). Uma ingane ingenwe ngemuva kwezinto ezithile, ungayibeka ezincwadini zokufunda. Zama ukuthola izincwadi ezithakazelisayo ngale ndaba, isibonelo iPerlman's "Physics Engenayo", iGasparov "iGranding Greece", njll, futhi usule lezi zincwadi lapho ingane ihlala esikoleni, okungukuthi; njengomthetho, hhayi ngaphambi kukaJulayi.
Futhi uma usebenza?
Ungayisebenzisi ingane yakho njengesisebenzi esinekhono eliphansi, onesakhono esiphansi uma engafuni ukukusiza, kungenjalo uzozwa ngokushesha ukuthi akafuni ukuya e-dacha ukuze "angavuli".
Mthembele ngomsebenzi onomthwalo wemfanelo, ubike ukuthi kunzima, isibonelo, ukukhetha ama-strawberries. Umsebenzi uzoba nesithakazelo kwengane uma ethola umphumela wakhe siqu, hhayi nje "okwenzela unina." Kusuka ku-strawberries, angenza i-mousse ngokwayo, ahlele "indawo yokukhosela yase-pirate" emanzini ahlotshiswe kahle ukuze alondoloze "ukuphanga" kwakhe, njll Khumbula ukuthi izingane eziningi zithanda ukuya ehlathini uma zihlanganisiwe ngokuphelele kulolu hlobo lokukhiqiza: kanye uzopheka ujamu noma usawoti amakhowe. Futhi kuyisifiso esihle, ukuthi ingane ikulungele, vumela eyodwa, kodwa imbiza yayo ngokuphelele. Ungenza isitaki esiyisikhumbuzo kuso.