Ezama ukuqonda ukuhambisana nomlingani ongase abe khona, abantu bavame ukubuyela ezinkanyezini. Yilo isayensi ehlinzeka ngolwazi olunzulu mayelana nethemba kanye nezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezingase zivele ngokubambisana. Kodwa kunezindlela eziningi ezilula zokuthola ulwazi oludingekayo. Enye yezindlela ezitholakalayo zinikezwa ngamanani. Ukubala ukuhambisana, akudingeki ube nolwazi olukhethekile futhi ungene ngaphakathi kulo mfundiso. Ukukhathalela kuphela, udinga iphepha kanye nepeni.
Ukubalwa kokuhambisana ngosuku lokuzalwa
Amanani wokunquma: inombolo yenqubo 1
Amanani wokunquma: inombolo yenqubo 2
- 1 - Ukuhambisana okuhle, ngokusekelwe emigomeni kanye nezithakazelo ezivamile. Bobabili abalingani balungele ukwenza imizamo ngenxa yezizathu ezivamile. Bazokusekela kuzo zonke izinyathelo. Umzabalazo ongakwenzeka wobuholi ebuhlotsheni. Ukuze inyunyana ibe namandla, omunye wabalingani uzofanele anikeze.
- 2 - Ukuhambisana, njengomthetho, kusekelwe ekuzuzeni kokubili. Kulo mbhangqwana kunemizwa, kodwa ayikho imizwelo nobudlova. Imishado elula ivame ukuqina futhi isinde kunokuba ubuhlobo bothando, ngakho-ke abalobi bezinombolo babikezela ikusasa elihle kangaka le nhlangano.
- 3 - Esigabeni sokuqala sobudlelwane, kungase kubonakale sengathi abalingani bahambisana ngokugcwele. Kukhona imizwa phakathi kwabo, bachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, baqaphela. Kodwa isikhathi se-sweet-bouquet sithatha ubunzima ngesimo sokuhlambalazana, izimangalo kanye nezidingo. Ekugcineni, lo mbhangqwana ulindele ikhefu elibuhlungu.
- 4 - Ukuvumelana okuhle kwabasebenzi ababili abafuna ukuzinza nokududuza. Ngomunye umuntu, ubudlelwane obunjalo bungabonakala bubuhlungu, kodwa bobabili abalingani bazozizwa benesizotha futhi bezolile kulobu buhlobo.
- 5 - Ukuhambisana okuhle ngokomoya nangokwecansi. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buvame ukuphela emishadweni, ngoba kusekelwe othandweni, inhlonipho nokuqonda okufanayo.
- 6 - Ukuhambisana okuhle, uma kungumbuzo wobambiswano noma ubungani bebhizinisi. Kodwa inyunyana yothando iyakuhluleka ukuhluleka. Ukuphila okuhlangene kuzoba yindawo yokubambisana, futhi isifiso sokuthuthukisa ubudlelwane siyophuphuma ngokushesha.
- 7 - Ukuhambisana okuphelele. Inyunyana enjalo ingabizwa ngokuthi iyinhlangano evamile, ngoba igcwele ukuvumelana. Kulo mbhangqwana, izingxabano zivame ukuvela, njengoba bobabili abalingani banesithakazelo ekuthuthukiseni nasekuqiniseni ubuhlobo.
- 8 - Ukuthandana kobuhlobo kuthatha ukuncika okuqinile komlingani oyedwa kolunye. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubize inyunyana enjalo ehambelana kahle kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kuvame ukuthi igebe iqalwe ngumlondolozi.
- 9 - Ukuhambisana kahle ngokomoya. Abalingani balwela ukuvumelana nokuqonda okufanayo. Uma ubudlelwane bungacindezeli izinkinga zansuku zonke nezinkinga zezezimali, inyunyana iyoba namandla futhi ihlale njalo.