Umlobi wazama ukudalula zonke izimfihlo zamandla owesifazane phezu komuntu. Noma yiliphi owesifazane, eqinisweni, ufuna ukufunda izindlela zokuheha nokugcina okungcono nokufanelekayo kumuntu wakhe. Futhi, ngifuna ngempela ukufaka lo muntu ngothando olukhulu. Ngicabanga ukuthi kukhona indlela ethile yokuphatha umqondo womuntu. Izazi zengqondo zithi kunezindlela ezinjalo, kanti owesifazane ngamunye angayisebenzisa.
Ekuphileni kunabesifazane abahlukene nabesifazane abazithobayo, futhi "abazingeli" bangempela. Akekho owesifazane emhlabeni okufanele asebenzise ubusuku obunesizungu futhi ahlabelele ukuthi kungani esedwa. "Umzingeli" wangempela ngeke ashiye umyeni wakhe noma uzohlale ehaqwe abalandeli. Ungakwazi ukulawula amadoda angcono kakhulu, kodwa lokhu udinga ukuguqula ukucabanga kwakho, khona-ke ungase uzizwe ukuthi kulula kakhulu futhi kunjalo. Ebudlelwaneni nomuntu, udinga ukumnika lokho angenakukuthola kwabanye. Ukubusa phezu kwababameli abakhulu bezocansi ezinamandla uma kungenzeka owesifazane angenele ekuyeni komuntu. Kulokhu, akunandaba ngisho nokuthi indoda izophatha kanjani owesifazane. On wave yayo ingashintshwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane angakwazi ukuphindaphinda ngokushesha futhi azame ukuzitholela noma yiziphi izindima ezivela kumama onomusa kumuntu ohloniphekile.
Amandla kuyinto enhle futhi ekhohlisa. Lapho esitholile, owesifazane ngokushesha uyaqonda ukuthi akayena onodoli ongenalutho noma ongenalutho, kodwa onqobayo izinhliziyo zabantu. Ingabe owesifazane angafunda ukuyala amadoda angcono kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, okokuqala, owesifazane kufanele abe ongenakuvinjelwa futhi omncane. Abantu abaningi banombono wokuthi abesifazane bangathola lezi zimfanelo kuphela ngemvelo. Izibonelo eziningi zifakazela ukuthi ungafunda lokhu. Indoda ingalalela kuphela labo besifazane abafuna ukujabulela injabulo yokuphila. Ukuze wenze lokhu, owesifazane kufanele aqonde kahle ulimi lomzimba, usethe kabusha zonke izinkimbinkimbi futhi akhule ngokuzethemba okuphelele. Kodwa okokuqala udinga ukukhulula ngokwakho owesifazane weqiniso nenyama. Lezi zindaba zikhathazeka kubo bonke abesifazane. Isifiso sokunqoba amadoda, kangangokuthi bagxilile ezinyaweni, kungokwemvelo kuwo wonke owesifazane wesintu. Amandla phezu komuntu angasiza ekufezeni uthando hhayi kuphela, kodwa injabulo yomuntu siqu.
Ngokusobala, "isikhali" esikhulu samantombazane, esizoqinisekisa ukunqoba, ubuhle besifazane kanye nekhono lokukhohlisa. Okokuqala udinga ukufunda ukuthi ubanikazi, ubuhle futhi bungenakuvinjelwa. Okokuqala udinga ukukhetha ikhabethe elifanele, bese usebenza ngezinwele futhi ulungise, uhlaziye ukuziphatha kwakho, futhi ekugcineni, ufunde ulimi lokuthinta nokuthinta, futhi usebenze ngemikhuba. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqala "kokuhlaselwa" owesifazane kufanele athole ukukholelwa okuqinile ukuthi konke lokhu kufezeka futhi uyindlovukazi yeqiniso kokubili amaphupho futhi empeleni. Okokuqala - owesifazane kufanele abe mnandi kubantu. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuchaza "amakhodi wakho endondo".
"I-Trumps" yiyona mingcele yemidwebo, ukubukeka nemikhuba, ongayithokozisa ngayo futhi uyibonise le ndoda. Lezi "trumps" kufanele "ukuphoqa" amadoda, ebona owesifazane, ememeza: "Owesifazane omuhle! "Lezi zinsalela kuzodinga ukuthi zikhishwe ngobuhlakani futhi zingabonakali muntu ukuthi ubuthakathaka bakhe. Lokhu kulula, nakuba imithetho eminingi izodinga ukulandelwa:
1. Kudingekile ukuba uqaphele ukuthi zonke "izintambo" zokuheha abesifazane zinikezwa ngokuphumelelayo;
2. Ukuhluleka kudingeka kufihlwe futhi ungabonakali ubuthakathaka bomuntu siqu;
3. Kubalulekile ukuvuselela umcabango wesilisa njalo;
4. Impahla eyinhloko yowesifazane yisicelo sakhe sobulili sakhe. Wonke owesifazane kufanele afunde ukuthi angazikhohlisa kanjani futhi angenakuphikiswa. Ngamafuphi, ukuba abe indlovukazi yeqiniso yezinhliziyo.
Indoda enqobile futhi enqobile ingenza izenzo ezingalindelekile nezezingalindelekile. Ukuze umbusise, kufanele uqale 'ukubamba' ingqondo yakhe. Kunezinyathelo ezilula futhi ezingavamile zokukhohlisa, kodwa hhayi ukukhohlisa njalo ukubonakaliswa komzimba ongenalutho. Ngendlela, abashicileli bathi akukho zembatho ezinjalo lapho umuntu engakwazi ukukwenza. Isibonelo, indlela elula kakhulu yokusebenza yembatho ingubo. Kubonakala sengathi lokhu kuyisiqephu sengubo esetshenzisiwe ngenkathi ebandayo, kodwa owesifazane ohlakaniphile angathatha isembatho esinjalo esizogcizelela ngokucacile isibalo sakhe esincane futhi abonise imilenze ende, eyilinye lamakhadi amacilongo omfazi wesifazane. Isigqoko se "umzingeli" kufanele siphumelele, futhi ngokusebenzisa ukucabangela okujulile lo muntu angabona imilenze yakhe enhle futhi emincane. Uhlelo lwe "ukukhohlisa" yisigaba sokuqala sokunqotshwa komuntu, ngakho kubhekwa njengokubaluleke kakhulu. Uma owesifazane efuna ukunqoba indoda, kumele abe nesibindi futhi angesabi izenzo ezishukumisayo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kwesimo sensikazi kubonisa ukutholakala kowesifazane owesifazane omncane, kanye nomoya wokucasula. Ngokuqondene nomuntu okwazi ukuzithoba, impumelelo izoxhomeka.
Yiqiniso, isifuba esihle nesigqoko esincane akuzona kuphela izici ezisiza abesifazane ukuba banqobe indoda. Nokho, noma yikuphi ubuhle kungcono ngengqondo! Kunezibonelo ezimbalwa lapho abesifazane abangenakuqhathaniswa nabangenangqondo "benza izintambo" ngaphandle kwamadoda. Abesifazane abanjalo basebenzisa ezinye "amacilongo" abo - ingqondo, ukuhlakanipha nokuhlangenwe nakho. Kuyinto engavamile, kuphela amadoda angamangalelwa ekuqaleni kwempi. Isibhamu seMakarov noma isibhamu se-Kalashnikov siyisici samadoda kuphela. Kodwa empilweni yangempela, umdlalo onolaka kakhulu uholwa abesifazane abangazi lutho olubi mayelana nodaba lwezempi noma isikhali sempi. Nakuba kune-trophy, onqobayo uthola umuntu ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni.