Uthandane nomuntu: imithetho yegolide
Bheka ngokumangalisayo
Amadoda athande amehlo, ukuze athole ukunakwa kwalabafana - kufanele ubheke 100%. Futhi akukhona mayelana noshintsho lwezikhadikhadi zesithombe, amaqabunga aqhakazile noma ukuqongqa ngesisu esivulekile - lokhu kubonakala kunamathuba okuphindaphinda kunokuheha. Gqoka izingubo ezinhle, ezikhululekile nezesitayela, ozizwa uqiniseka ngazo. Yiba nehle: i-rouge emahlathini, izinwele ezimhlophe, isitimela esimnandi semininingwane - imininingwane ezokwenza ube nezikhathi eziningana ngokwengeziwe, ngakho-ke, uyathandekayo. Yenzani ukuze uhlonishwe. Kulokhu, indoda yakho izoziqhenya ukuthi eduze kwayo, ubuhle obunjalo futhi nje uzizwa njengomnqobi.
Smile futhi ubonise isimo sengqondo esihle
Yiqiniso, ikhono lomuntu ukuxazulula izinkinga zabesifazane, ngoba uyisivikelo sakho kanye nokwesekwa kwakho. Kodwa ungayithatha kuphela emahlombe akhe uma ubuhlobo obude. Okwamanje, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuzethemba nokukhathazeka! Ngokulandela abantu abathokozile kulula futhi ukhululekile ukuba. Uma unenkinga - umphathe ngamahlaya, le mfanelo izokusiza esikhathini esizayo.
Into eyinhloko akuyona ukuyiqeda! Amantombazane ahlale ehleka, abangela abantu ukucasuka, ngoba nabo cishe akunakwenzeka ukukhuluma ngokujulile. Thola ibhalansi: bonisa umuntu osemphakathini wakhe ongajabuli nje ukuba nguye, ungowokukhanya okukhanya okubangela ukumomotheka ebusweni bakho! Uhleka phambi kwakho - qiniseka ukumomotheka, ngisho noma i-anecdote ingekho funny noma usuvele umzwile izikhathi ezingu-12.
Bonisa ukuhlonipha
Owesifazane kufanele abukele ulimi lwakhe futhi asebenzise indlela yokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Iqiniso lokuthi awukhohlisi kumuntu osizayo noma ngokuzidla utshele iphini lakhe ukuthi ungumbono wezepolitiki angeke wengeze amaphuzu emehlweni omuntu othandekayo. Izimfanelo ezinjengobugovu, ukuzidla nokuziqhenya, ungayi nkosikazi. Lokhu kuziphatha, ngaphezu kwalokho, kungashukumisela umuntu emcabangweni wokuthi isimo sengqondo esinjalo esikhathini esizayo simlindele, futhi, futhi konke ukunethezeka kwakho kwamanje kuyindlela yokwakha. Akuyona umbono omuhle kakhulu, akunjalo? Ngakho-ke, intombazane kufanele ilawule imizwelo yayo futhi igcine intukuthelo nokucasuka kuye. Ngemuva kosuku olukhuni lokusebenza, phuma ku-treadmill, ubuke uchungechunge lwakho oluthandayo lwe-TV noma uphume nabangani emiphumeleni ye-cafe - engafanele iyohamba, uzobona!
Yiba nesithakazelo kumuntu oyithandayo
Izingxoxo ezinobungane kalula nganoma yikuphi - ziyiqiniso, zilungile, kodwa ukuthi umfana waqala ukwethemba wena - khuluma naye ngezihloko ezijulile. Cha, hhayi mayelana nemakethe yamasheya nokuthengiselana; buza mayelana nokuzilibazisa kwakhe, uthande isithakazelo emibonweni yezindaba ezithile, ngegama, ubonise ukuthi iphuzu lakhe lokubheka lisho okuthile kuwe. Amadoda athandiswa ikakhulukazi nalabo besifazane abakholelwa kubo. Akudingekile ukuba owesifazane anikeze iseluleko - sonke siyazi ukuthi ngamadoda ngezinye izikhathi ubaphatha kanjani - vele ulalele, ujabule, umtshele ukuthi konke kuzomsebenzela. Uma wenza kahle, lo muntu uzokuhlanganyela ngokushesha nawe.
Bonisa ukuzwelana kwakho
Naphezu kwezinkolelo eziningi, abafana abakhohlisi kakhulu uthando lwabesifazane futhi bahlale bebona izimpawu ezibhekiswe kubo. Kungenye indaba noma ngabe bafuna ukusabela kubo. Kodwa uma wena nendoda uye wafeza ngempumelelo imithetho emine eyedlule, akakukhathaleli. Isikhathi sokubonisa ukuthi ungumuntu okhethekile kuwe. Abesifazane basebenzisa, njengombuso, izinkulumo zobuso nezindlela zokukhuluma. Ukumamatheka, ukuncoma, ukumemeza (ukuhlukanisa kuphela izingxenye!) Uzosikisela kumuntu ngalokho okusobala ukusho okwamanje. Yithinte, unciphise ibanga, into esemqoka, yenze kancane kancane!
Wamangala umfana
Iqiniso elikhohlisayo okumele kube khona imfihlakalo entombazaneni ukuthi usebenza namadoda ngempela. Ungabi incwadi evulekile, shiya isikhala semfihlo nezimangazane. Ukwenza i-karate? Awu, ungamemeza ngalo mhlangano wokuqala, kungcono ukuphula izandla zakhe ngemuva (ukuphela kuphela ngaphandle kokulimala!) Ngenye ingxabano. Uqinisekile ukuthi uyomangala ngokushesha okunjalo futhi abuze: ufundephi lokhu? Noma mhlawumbe ubophe amathoyizi athambile abantwana? Lapha, isipho esihle kakhulu kunkulunkulukazi womuntu wakho noma ingane yomngane wakhe omkhulu!
Ungatholakali
Futhi awudingi ukugubha amehlo akho emva kokuba ufunde inkulumo engenhla: ukushaya intamo akuyona inketho. Amantombazane anjalo asheshe adabuke. Ungakhohlwa mayelana nesimiso sokuzingela, esithuthukiswe kakhulu emadodeni. Ngakho, yiba yisisulu sekhulu! Mkhuthaze, kodwa ungayeki konke. Khumbula ukuthi ucele isikhathi eside kangakanani, manje siphenduke!
Kodwa-ke, akuwona wonke amaqhinga omama ukuthi ungathandana kanjani nendoda. Abafundi abathandekayo, babelane ngamazwana akho emazwana :)