Umzimba wokugijima, onempilo, owenziwe kahle
Okokuqala, bahlangane ngezigqoko. Ingaphandle yinto ebalulekile yalokho thina sonke esikubona njengento ehlabayo noma ekhangayo. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi abantu abanobuhle banethuba elikhulu lokuphumelela, uma kuqhathaniswa nalabo abakhuthele kakhulu ngokwabo. Indoda ezivumela "eyedwa" futhi eyaziqhenya ngesisu sayo esikhulu sebiyo - esibuthakathaka, akayikushayela umngane wakhe omdala onemilenze ezindaweni zokudlela ezivela ngaphandle, kodwa ulele emabhantshi ahamba kahle. Uma umuntu enamandla, njalo uvakashela i-gym, uhlale eqapha yena kanye nempilo yakhe, uzolungisa lokho okunikezwe "ubulili obuqinile" kuye.
Izingubo zekhwalithi
Izembatho zamadoda njengomzimba wesibili, ihlale isoba emhlanganweni wokuqala, kuyimvelo, uma ungazijwayele echibini noma ebhishi. Njengomphumela we-muzhchinas ophumelelayo, umuntu angabona ngezembatho ezikhethwe kahle futhi ezikhethiwe kahle, ezifihla ngobuciko ukushiyeka kwalesi sibalo futhi kugcizelela isithunzi sawo. Angakwazi ukugqoka izinto eziphezulu, ngisho hhayi emakethe awaziwayo. Kodwa into eyinhloko ukuthi akusiyo izimpahla zabathengi, ezikhonjiswe engaphansi komakethe ngabafiki. Unesimo sakhe siqu, hhayi ukumemeza, hhayi ukubamba, kodwa ngokulandela ngokuphelele izitayela zamuva zemfashini. Esigqokeni sakhe kukhona indwangu enhle kakhulu, ngesimo sezulu esihlukene, kunezinhlangothi ezimbili zezingubo ezinhle nanoma yisiphi isenzakalo, ama-sweaters, amahhashi.
Ngokwemvelo, amadoda avame ukunikeza ukunambitheka okunamandla kumadoda, ngokuvamile bawela emasikweni amnandi kanye ne-couturier ezayo nge-orientation engapheli. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi wesifazane ukusiza amadoda ekukhetheni izingubo. Ubani, uma kungenjalo intombazane, angabona ukuthi i-nasam empeleni iya kumfana futhi imenze iqine ngangokunokwenzeka. Udinga ukuthatha izikhombe zakho ezimangalisayo, uholele othandekayo wakho ezitolo ezinhle, unobtrusively ukusikisela ukuthi ungathanda ukukubona kuphi. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukhetho lomuntu kufanele lwenze yena futhi, yebo, kumdumise njalo!
Izinkanyezi zesithombe
Esimweni sangaphambilini ukufaka izimbalwa ezimbalwa ezigunyazayo, ukukhipha umuntu nazo zonke izigiblets. Yisikhathi esithile, iwashi, amasokisi, izicathulo, isikhwama, isikhwama, ubucwebe, i-tie. Yithi, kuyinto engafanele ukugqoka izingubo zikaJacob Bond, noma nje izintambo, ngenkathi egqoke amasokisi amancane anamabala, amawashi angabizi aseShayina noma ukhenketho olukhulu olungenakuqhathaniswa nesiphambano esikhulu, kanye umshumayeli waseSwitzerland. Yonke le mininingwane kufanele ibuye iqondakale, ikhwalithi, ifaneleke kahle emfanekisweni.
Ukunemba nokuchithwa ngokubukeka
Iphuzu lesine sizoqhubeka sicabanga: kumuntu ophumelelayo konke kumele kube okuphelele, ngisho nento yonke into encane. Kuveziwe, ngesonto elidlule, ihembe, iphunga lokuthuthumela, i-otrosshie izipikili - konke lokhu kuyayiphilisa umphefumulo womuntu wesifazane oqaphileyo, njengesiphathimandla sezethameli eziqaphileyo, izinzwa ezingasebenzi kahle emadodeni (isikhathi esiningi aphunyuka kuzo amadoda angabanye abantu, angabazi futhi ikakhulukazi angathandi). Yebo, uma "u-betrothed" wakho enobucayi kakhulu ezindabeni zokugeza izicathulo noma ukufaka izinsimbi, lezi zinqubo kuzodingeka zifakwe emahlombe akho abuthakathaka. Kuzobe kulungile: uma sibona umuntu omuhle (hhayi ngisho nakancane), sicabanga ngalokho umkakhe akwenzayo, ubheka kuphi? Ukuzimela kwabesifazane ukugcina ukuhlanzeka ezintweni zabantu.
Okubalulekile futhi ukuthi umyalelo womuntu ophumelelayo ubusa yonke indawo: ku-suitcase yokuhamba, nedeski, nasemotweni.
Ukukhulumisana nokuqiniseka ngaso sonke isikhathi
Ngokubukeka, kubonakala sengathi sesihambe ngaphesheya, manje singakhuluma ngento ebalulekile njenge-charm yamadoda. Umuntu ophumelelayo ujabulise kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni, uyazi ngokuzenzekelayo ngemithetho yokuziphatha. Wahlukanisa izimfanelo ezinjengokuhlonipha, ukwethembeka, ukuhlonipha umuntu nokuthembeka nokuzethemba.
Ngifuna ukuqaphela ukuthi lokhu okulandelayo kuncike kithi. Uma ufuna indoda yakho ibe nenhlonipho, ihlakaniphile futhi incane, wena ngokwakho kudingeka ube yilokho nje.
Ngalunye uhlangothi lwempumelelo
Indoda ephumelelayo yiningi iningi lakhe lokuguqula, futhi noma yimuphi owesifazane ngokungazi ufuna ukumlalela, enze amaphutha, kodwa ahambe njalo ngemva kwakhe. Amasiko anjalo agcinwa emazweni asempumalanga: lapho umuntu akakwazi ukuphikisana nombono womuntu - uhlale eqinisile, futhi owesifazane unelungelo lokuzwela, intuition kanye nobuqili. Esimweni lanamuhla, ngeshwa, kunabantu abaningi abancane abasilisa abangagcini izwi labo, abakwazi ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo. Naphezu kokuchuma okuhle, impumelelo yangaphandle yezenhlalakahle, iningi lala madoda ngaphakathi ngaphakathi lincane. Njengoba sebefinyelele ezingeni elithile lempumelelo, bawela umugqa othize, futhi ndawonye "nezinkanyezi" zabo ezinenani elikhulu lokuhlukanisa nokuzibophezela okwesithathu, ababophezele izingane zabo. Ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane wesaba ukwesaba ngemuva kwendoda enjalo, iningi lalaba besifazane kulokhu liqala ukuzama ukuzikhandla.
Imali enkulu - izilingo ezinkulu
Izimfanelo ezingenakufa zamandla yizidumo, udumo, kanye nabesifazane abaningi lokhu kuyisignali esingaqondisi ukuthi "Ngizoba nezingane ezinhle futhi eziphumelelayo," "uma umuntu ezuze okuningi, khona-ke unamandla ngempela", "akakwazanga ukuthatha indawo yokugcina emphakathini , kusho ukuthi akesabi ukuhamba nokuphila. " Naphezu kwalokhu, amadoda acebile esikhathini sethu enza ukwesaba okukhulu. Abaningi besifazane bakhetha indoda ehola umlinganiso omncane ngaphezu komndeni kanye nobuhlobo obungathí sina. Abantu abanemali eningi baphila ngokugcwele ezimisweni ezahlukene, izwe elibukhali, abakwazi ukubekezelela imikhawulo eminingi kakhulu. Ngeke kube mnandi ngentombazane yezinga eliphansi nomuntu walesi sifundo - lo mbuzo omkhulu. Ngokuvamile, amadoda anjalo ayajabula lapho ethola umlingani we-soc yabo. ungqimba, olungamniki ithuba "lokusula izinyawo zakhe," ukubekezelela ukunyuka kwakhe ngenxa yemali. Ngokwemvelo, kukhona okungafani, lapho ubudlelwane obuvumelana khona emshadweni obuningi obuningi obuqhubekayo buqhubeka isikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abanjalo kumele benze umsebenzi wabo wengqondo, baqine futhi bangabi nomuzwa wokuvimbela.