Ukuthuthukisa inkulumo yengane kubalulekile ukuqala kakade ngeminyaka emibili yenyanga. Yingaleso sikhathi ukuthi imisindo yokuqala yomntwana iqala ukuza emhlabeni wethu. Ngakho-ke, khuluma naye kaningi, hamba ukuhamba nayo, bhaka, manje sekufanele manje. Yilolu hlobo lokuxhumana olwenza ukuba abonise imizwelo futhi afisa ukuphinda akuphinda. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ibona kahle izindebe zakho phakathi nale nqubo yokufunda, lokhu yisibonelo sakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu kule minyaka ukuhlanganisa amakhono okukhuluma nenjini yeminwe. Abazali bethu bazi ngalokhu, yingakho sivame ukuzitholela "Soroka-blondokoy" efanayo. Uyakhumbula umdlalo ngomunwe wakho? Uphi yena? Futhi kule minyaka yobudala ne-pugovichki, izinhlamvu zemali zamukelwa. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ivumelane konke ngomdlalo futhi iqinisekisa ukuthi ingane ingasebenzi ngokweqile.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba ikhulume, idinga amathiphu kusuka kumthandi wezinkulumo? Bhala phansi! Kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ingane iqala ukuxhuma izenzo nabantu, izenzo nezinto. Wenza lokhu ngokungazi, i.s. lapho ibhola ligijima kuye, uyalibamba, kodwa uma ingane itshelwa ukuthi ilethe ibhola egumbini, akunakwenzeka ukuyenza. Futhi hhayi ngoba engazi ukuthi ibhola liyini, akakwazi nje ukuxhuma inkulumo ngeqiniso lokuthi unezinto okumelwe azenze. Izingane zifunda okuningi nsuku zonke futhi ngehora, ngakho-ke kusukela kule minyaka, zama ukumtshela kaningi lokho okwenzayo, ukuze ingane ifunde ukuhlanganisa izenzo namazwi, chaza ukuthi kwenzekani nxazonke. Isibonelo, ikati lihlanziwe, siza, ubaba wayesebuya ekhaya evela emsebenzini, ugogo wamletha ubisi. Phinda lokhu ngokuphindaphindiwe futhi ngokufanelekile kancane kancane, ubheka amehlo, ngezwi elizolile, elingenakukhathazeka.
Kusukela ngonyaka uqala inqubo yokufundisa, futhi iyahlanganyela. Ingane izoshintshela olimini lwezandla, iyoba lula kakhulu. Lapha, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungavumeli izinto zihambe ngokwazo. Uma umntwana ephonsa umunwe wakhe esitokisini bese ekudonsa kuso, qala ngokuthi uthi uma unikeza ithoyizi, ithi: "Yithi" Nikeza. " Esikhathini esizayo, zama kancane kancane ukuthi ungaboni izicelo ezinokuthula, kuze kube yilapho ingane iqala ukukhuluma nawe. Ekusetshenzisweni kokubiza amagama-inhlanganisela engeza amagama emisho. "Iyiphi ithoyizi?" "Sicela" "Siyabonga." Ngakho uqala ukungena ezinkulumweni ezinengqondo nengane yakho. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, silulumagama wengane sinamagama angama-30-60, kuye ngokuthi ukuthuthukiswa. Emantombazaneni, le nkathi ihamba ngokushesha futhi kulula, futhi ayixhomeki ekuhlakanipheni. Izingane ziqala ukuba nesithakazelo ezintweni zezinto kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwabo.
Kusukela eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, ingane kumele ihileleke engxoxweni, ibuze, ibuke, ibukele, ukuze iqondise kahle amagama. Kule minyaka, ingane iqala ukudlulisa imizwelo yakhe ngamazwi. Funda umbono wakhe kulokhu noma lowo mbuzo. Kule mphotho ukuthi inkulumo efanele yengane kufanele ihlolwe.
Kusukela eneminyaka emine umntwana ujabulela ukulalela inganekwane ngesakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi, esinezintandokazi zakhe zamaqhawe, angaziveza ngemisho ende. Lesi yisigaba sokugcina ekubunjweni kwenkulumo, ngakho-ke kuqhubeka ukuhlanganisa umphumela futhi usize ukwenza inkulumo iqondiswe kahle, ibushelelezi, imilayezo. Funda amabhuku amaningi, yiya emidlalo yaseshashalazini, ukuze wenze okuningi. Lokhu kuzobeka isisekelo esikhulu esikhathini esizayo.
Kukhona amacala uma ingane engaphansi kweminyaka engu-3 ubudala idinga isazi sokukhuluma.
1. Yilapho ingane ikhonjwa khona;
2. Uma umntwana enesizukulwane esinjalo, isibonelo, omunye wabazali wakhuluma ngesikhathi sekwephuzile;
3. Uma uRebecca enenkinga ngombono noma ngokuzwa;
4. Uma ingane ihamba ngemuva ekuthuthukisweni. Futhi izizathu azibonakalwanga;
5. Futhi uma ingane ingathintana nabantu abadala;
6. Futhi futhi, uma kunconywa ukuba udobe umklamo.
Kuzo zonke lezi zimo kunconywa kakhulu ukuba uthintane nodokotela wezinkulumo.
Uma ungabaza ukuthi ingane yakho ithuthuka kahle, thintana nodokotela wezinkulumo. Uzokutshela indlela yokubeka kahle ulimi ngesikhathi sokubiza amagama athile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, angatshela futhi akhombise ukuthi kufanele enze kanjani ukugcoba ebusweni nokuzivocavoca, okuhambisana nokuzivocavoca kwekhaya ukwakha inkulumo efanele ingane.
Kunoma yikuphi, xhumana nomntanakho, umfundise, usize futhi uzame ukuzungezwe nezingane ezindala, ozokudonsa kuzo futhi ziphuthume ekuthuthukisweni. Lokhu kuhle kakhulu ekukhulumeni komntanakho.