Manje, abesifazane abakwazi ukuhamba nje bezosebenza njengamadoda, bangakwazi ukuphatha izikhundla eziyinhloko, ukuphatha zonke izimboni noma amabhizinisi. Yebo, futhi akekho omangala umongameli wesifazane kulelizwe.
Ubuhlobo bobuhlobo phakathi kobulili buletha abantu bobabili injabulo enkulu nobubi obukhulu. Namuhla sizocubungula izinketho zokwakha ubudlelwane bobudlelwane obuncipha kakhulu emphefumulweni womuntu kanye nokuxhumana nomhlaba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, njenganoma yiliphi ibhizinisi, ukulingana kobulili kuhle, uma kutholakala ngokuhlakanipha, ngokucabangisisa nangokucophelela, hhayi ngokukhuthazela nokubekezela kwabalandeli abanamandla.
Ukulingana emsebenzini
Ubudlelwano phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane bungathuthuka ngezindlela ezahlukene emndenini nasemisebenzini yabasebenzi. Futhi izimiso zokuziphatha eziholela empumelelweni zihlukile. Uma ukwenza okwesikhashana, ngakho-ke ukuze uzuze ukulingana emsebenzini, kubalulekile ukuba nobuqili, usebenzise futhi ubonise ukuqina. Ukulingana emndenini kufinyelelwa ngezinye izindlela - lapha omunye kumele akwazi ukwehlisa futhi ahlanganyele umthwalo womyeni nomfazi.
Ukufunda izici zomsebenzi ophumelelayo, izazi zengqondo zafika eziphethweni ezimangalisayo lapho zizama ukuthola impendulo yombuzo, ubuphi ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane ebhizinisini. Kwabe sekuthi amadoda ahlukunyezwa yimpumelelo yabesifazane ebhizinisini, futhi alungele ukuhamba okungahlonishwa kakhulu nokungaqondakali, ukuze nje ungavumeli owesifazane ahambe ukuze athromoshwe. Baba imibono futhi bazinikezele bona, bayaphazamisa kakhulu abesifazane ekukhulumisaneni, bayanciphisa indima yowesifazane omuhle, bamtshele izincomo ezihloniphekile ebhodini labaqondisi. Ngokuvamile, uhlu lwamasu alinciphisa umfanekiso wesifazane endimeni yezinsizakalo zehhovisi, ngoba amadoda aphelele. Ubunzima obuningi ukuthi amadoda ngokuvamile akaqapheli lokhu. Bangakwazi ukusho ukuthi bayajabula ukusekela umqondo wokulingana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, kodwa lawa magama onke. Uma nje sehlela icala, ukungafani kwabantu nokuthuthuka endaweni ethile kuyanyamalala, futhi baqala ukungena ngokulinganayo abesifazane.
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka labesifazane ukuba bafunde ukubamba. Awuvumelani ukugqoka ikhofi kubaxoxisana, hhayi ukuxoxa ngomphakathi imibono yamadoda ngokuphelele, ukufunda ukusebenzisana nokuphikisana okunonya nokuzama ukubulala. Ngokuvamile, owesifazane kudingeka afunde ukuziphatha okuncane kwesilisa ukuze uphumelele ebhizinisini futhi uzizwe lapho nendoda ngokulingana okulinganayo.
Ukulingana ekhaya
Uma uye wazi kahle kahle amakhono okuziphatha ebhizinisini, okuvumela ukuba uzuze izikhundla ezilinganayo ngezenzo, hhayi ngamazwi, kuhle. Vele ukhohlwe ngabo kanye nhlobo. Ukuze sikwenze lokhu, ake sicabangele ukuthi ubuhlobo bendoda phakathi kowesilisa nowesifazane buphakathi komndeni.
I-intonation enamandla, ikhono lokuthola umuntu ukuba azenze ikhofi emndenini akufanelekile. Ubuhlobo bomphakathi lapha ikhono lokuvumelanisa ukuthi ubani ongosiphi isihloko kanye nekhono lokushintsha izindima okwesikhashana ebuholi ensimini yabo. Ake sithi umyeni uholela ezindabeni zokuhola, futhi umkakhe uyamdlula ezindabeni zokusabalalisa imali. Indoda yenza izinqumo eziyisisekelo ekuthengweni kwezinto ezintsha zobuchwepheshe: izimoto, amakhompyutha, izinto ezisendlini. Umfazi uhola indlela yokukhetha ukudla nokugqoka. Indoda ibusa ezindabeni zokulungisa nokushintsha okuthile okuphukile, futhi umfazi ungumphathi wezindaba zokuvuna. Uma kungazelelwe omunye wabangane bomshado kudingeka abike ngokuphuthumayo noma aphume ohambweni lwebhizinisi, okwesibili okwenzela umsebenzi wendlu. Uma kunenkathazo futhi indoda ilahlekelwe ithuba lokuthola imali, umfazi uthatha isinyathelo futhi okwesikhashana, ngenkathi efuna umsebenzi omusha, uqukethe umndeni. Indoda ingamthathela indawo ekhaya uma enenkinga noma uhambo lwebhizinisi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akekho omunye oyala noma ozama ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile komunye.
Ukulingana kwabashadile akusho ukuthi owesifazane kufanele athathe isando kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo esenzeka, nomyeni wakhe - ukuma amahora esitofu ngomzamo wokupheka ukudla kwasekuseni. Kusho ukwamukela ngokuzithandela kweminye yemithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo, hhayi nje "ngokuyisigqilakazi" noma "ngokuyisigqila nje kuphela", kodwa nemisebenzi yelinye isondo. Lokhu ukwamukela imisebenzi kufanele kukhulunywe ngokucacile emndenini ukuze kungabi khona ubuhlungu ebuhlotsheni.
Imiphumela yokuxhumana okulinganayo phakathi kwamadoda nabesifazane
Imiphumela yokulingana phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane ihlukile. Emazweni lapho abesifazane bazuze khona amathuba amakhulu okubambisana, izinga lokuzalwa liye lahla futhi inani lehlukaniso liye landa, inani labantu abahlala bodwa liye landa, futhi sekuye kwaba nokuhlukana phakathi kwamalungu obulili obufanayo. Mhlawumbe, okuyingxenye lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukulingana emsebenzini kudinga ushintsho kumodeli womndeni wendlu. Futhi lezi zinguquko zenzeka kancane. Esinye isizathu kungenzeka ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo bomphakathi emkhayeni nasebhizinisi.
Kukhona nemiphumela emihle yokuthola owesifazane isimo esisha emphakathini. Okokuqala, kwafakazelwa ukuthi amabhizinisi, abaqondisi babo abakhona besifazane, kulula ukubhekana nezikhathi ezinzima. Kuphezu kwabafazi-abaholi kanye nekhono labo lokuhlanganisa leli qembu ngesikhathi esibucayi empilweni yenkampani ukuthi ibhizinisi lihlala ezinkampanini kanye nezikhathi zokuncipha kwezomnotho. Okwesibili, engxenyeni yezwe yaseYurophu naseMelika kukhona ukuthuthukiswa kobudlelwano bomndeni wabantu. Izazi zengqondo zomndeni zingabonisa ukuthi umndeni olinganayo, noma umndeni lapho ukulingana phakathi kwabashadile kukhula, okwesibili kuzinzile ngemva komndeni wezinzalamizi. Umndeni kuphela owesifazane olawulayo usemngciphekweni futhi unethuba elikhudlwana lokuhlukanisa. Ukunyuka okujwayelekile esimweni sobuhle, esukela eminyakeni eyishumi kuya kweyishumi, kusiza kokubili amadoda nabesifazane ukuthi baqonde kangcono ukuthi bangakha kanjani ubudlelwane emndenini. Futhi uma owesifazane emva kokuphumelela emsebenzini ejabule nje ukuba abe ithoyizi ezandleni zomyeni wakhe, khona-ke lokhu kuyithuba elihle ngempela lokuba azuze ukuvumelana ekuphileni kwakhe komuntu siqu nokuphila komphakathi.