Albert Camus.
Namuhla emhlabeni kukhona abantu abaningi ababhekene nesizungu futhi bezibuza njalo - kungani kunzima ukuthola uthando lwakho?
Esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko zokuhluleka kokuthola uthando lwakho ngumqondo wabantu abafuna umlingani wabo womphefumulo, ukuthi bayothanda kuphela uma bezithanda ngokwabo futhi bathole abantu abathandana nabo. Abakwa-Singles babheka uthando lwabo, kodwa bayabuhlungu kulo mzwelo. Uthando ludluliselwa kusasa futhi, njenge-Alberta, e-Alberta, ayiqondi ukuthi kusasa ngeke kufike. Kungani? Lapho umuntu ethanda ngokwengeziwe, uqinisa isihawu nesithakazelo kwabanye, futhi ngokuphambene - ukungabi naluthando kuyohlukanisa abanye.
Amadoda nabesifazane abaye baqala le ndlela, ngokwemvelo, abaqapheli isimo sengqondo sengqondo, kodwa sitholakala njalo. Emcimbini, iholide, emidlalo yaseshashalazini, i-movie enomphumela okhanyekayo, isimo esisodwa nesinye siyaqhubeka: noma ngabe yikuphi, owesifazane ofuna uthando, esexoxe neqembu lamadoda futhi engatholi isikhulu ehhashi elimhlophe, amaqabunga noma ekhuluma kuphela nabangane bakhe, nabo bonke abanye abantu bamane bayeke ukuba khona.
Hlela ukuthi ngabe ususa uthando lwakho, okungukuthi impilo, ngomuso, ungazama ngalezi zenzo ezilandelayo: uma ubambezela ukuthengwa kwezinto ezinhle, ukudla, ukuhamba okuthakazelisayo nezitolo zokukhanya nokunye okufanayo kulolo suku "oluhle" esikhathini esizayo, uma wena ukuhlangabezana nothando, khona-ke uhlala kusasa futhi uthole uthando lwakho luyoba nzima kakhulu. Ukuze ungachithi isikhathi bese uthola ingxenye yakho eyodwa nesigamu udinge ukuthi ufunde lezo zimfanelo ezithakazelisa impilo yesikhathi esizayo, funda ukunikeza nokuthola uthando. Konke lokhu kuzokwenyuka ngqo kulabo bantu abanezimfanelo ozidingayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho okuye kwacatshangelwa, kungase kube nezinye izimbangela zesozungu, ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo zesikhashana, ezingokwengqondo, okungenzeka zezezimali nezinye izindleko ezidingekayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu lapha akufanele ilahlekelwe ithemba ngezikhathi ezingcono.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunzima kangakanani ukuthola uthando lwakho, ngokwezinga elithile, kunjalo, udinga ukucubungula amaphuzu amaningi athakazelisayo. Kudingekile ukubheka nxazonke emsebenzini - ngokuzumayo osebenza naye ehlezi etafuleni eliseduzane uyingxenye yakho? Ungazama ukuxhumana nabanye osebenza nabo, futhi mhlawumbe ubuhlobo buyokhula bube yinto enenjongo, hhayi uthando, kodwa isibonelo, ubungane obuqotho futhi obuqinile, obaluleke kakhulu.
Ungakwazi, uma uhlezi induduzo yendlu yakho, yenza umngane nge-inthanethi, okuthi, uma ushesha, kungenzeka ukuthi wenze okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu. Umgwaqo uphinde unikeze amathuba amnandi okuthandana - ngezinye izikhathi nje amagama ambalwa esitolo, ibhasi noma emgwaqeni epaki engayithola umuntu ofuna isikhathi eside.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuba ujwayelane namaqembu, amashayetha, ama-cinematography, izindawo zokudlela nezinye izindawo zomphakathi, nasezindaweni zokuvakasha noma ezihambweni ezihlukahlukene zokuvakasha. Kulezi zimo kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuziphatha komuntu, ukubukeka kwayo kunganquma ukuhlonishwa kwayo, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ezimweni zokukhwabanisa nokukhwabanisa okuvamile. Inanveli olwandle, kunalokho kunomkhawulo wobulili kuphela, ozoletha injabulo, kodwa uzophela uma nje uhlanganyela ezinhlangothini ezahlukene nezisindo. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuzijwayeza futhi uthole umlingani womphefumulo wakho, lapha into eyinhloko akusiyo ukuhlala unomama futhi ulinde lapho ifika, futhi uthathe isinyathelo futhi akudingeki ucabange ukuthi kungani futhi kunzima kangakanani ukuthola uthando lwakho.