Akusiwo sonke esilungiselelwe ngokulinganayo isixazululo, hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi, empilweni yomuntu osizini - unesizungu. Uma singena kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuqonda umehluko phakathi komqondo wesizungu kanye nesizungu sangempela. Akuyona into efanayo njalo: kwenzeka lokhu - ukuhlala wodwa, umuntu azizwa enesizungu. Ngenkathi yedwa, kungaba nokuphelelwa amandla ngokuphelele, okuholela ekucindezelweni nasekunganakwa, futhi kwezinye izimo, ukuhlukunyezwa.
Futhi-ke, ushiywe yedwa, njengoba umhlaba wonke ufuna ukusola futhi ukhamulule: "Abantu, wena kufanele usolwe yinto yonke!" Kodwa, isizathu sokuba nesizungu sithathwe kuphela kumuntu ngamunye. Ukufunda ukuzwa isizungu, kufanele uqonde ngokunembile, ulalele, ukuthi yini ngempela esiyishoyo. Futhi uzama ukugcwalisa le mphahla. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi umuntu onesizungu ongenamsebenzi ukuncoma ukuya eklabhu futhi ukwazi umngane noma intombi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlolisisa kahle leyo niche engabhekwayo yenyama yomuntu eyinkimbinkimbi, ngaphandle kwalokho isinyathelo ngendlela engafanele singabangela umphumela ophikisana ngokuphelele. Uma umuntu efuna into engeyona into engekho, futhi aze azame ukufaka isicelo empilweni yakhe - khona-ke lokho okulindelekile ngeke kube khona. Futhi isizungu sakhudlwana nakakhulu. Futhi konke-kuyadingeka - ukulandela indlela efanele futhi uthole izindlela ezilungile kakhulu zokuxazulula isizungu sabo.
Konke kuhluke kangangokuthi umuntu onesizungu uyisimo sokududuza, kepha kumuntu kuyinto ebuhlungu kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, isizungu akusona inkinga, kodwa ukhetho lwemvelo kuwo wonke umuntu. Mhlawumbe othile omuhle wedwa - ithuba lokusebenza ngokukhiqiza kakhulu futhi uzizwe engcono. Umuntu onjalo akavunyelwe ukuxhumana, akufanele aphoqeleke ukuba azijwayele futhi anwebe umjikelezo wabangane bakhe. Ukusiza nokuxazulula isizungu njengenkinga kuyadingeka kuphela kulabo abangalingani nenkampani.
Umuntu uba nesizungu lapho engaqondi ukuthi ubuhlobo bakhe buwusizo kanjani nabanye. Cishe bonke abantu abaphila ngezikhathi ezahlukene zokuphila bazizwa benesizungu. Ukuhlupheka esizungu kungukuntula okuvamile kolwazi noma ukubonakala. Indlela yokusinda isizungu kuyinto eyinhloko ukuqonda ulwazi nokuvezwa, uhlobo luni lomlingiswa olungekho. I-hunger touch (touch, ukukhulumisana ngokomzimba) kulokhu kungcono ukuya kumbuthano womdanso noma irejista yenkambo yokusikhipha imisipha, akukho imibala eqinile enamandla, kuyadingeka ukuya emidlalo yaseshashalazini. I-TV kulokhu ayinqatshelwe - ngoba isizungu siwuqhathanisa nabanye. Njengoba sibona ubuhle obuvela ekuphileni okuhle, sivame ukulahlekelwa isithakazelo ezweni elisizungezile, sizibeke esimweni sesizungu. Ngenxa yalokho, kulandela ukuthi isisulu sesizungu singenakuqinisekiswa empilweni futhi kuwukuthi, okuholela ekugwemeni abanye abantu ukuze bangagxeki. Kulesi simo, akudingekile ukuxhumana, ukufunda, nokuphakamisa ngokushesha ukuzethemba kwangaphakathi. Futhi ngenxa yokuntuleka koxhumana nabo nokuzihlonipha, ngisho nokuwa okuningi. Ngokuvamile ngenkathi yedwa, kunemizwa evezwa ngenxa yokungabi nabalingiswa noma izici zomzimba, ukungathandeki komuntu siqu, futhi ngenxa yalokho - amahloni noma ukwesaba ukulahlwa uma uzama ukusungula ukuthintana. Ngakho-ke ubuhlakani obuphansi ekuxazululeni izimpikiswano ezixubile zokuxhumana kwabantu.
Ngakho-ke, umuzwa wedwa uyisimo sokuqala sokuthi ubuqotho bangaphakathi kwesistimu yethu buphukile. Isizungu singakunika ithuba lokufunda ukulungisa amaphutha akho ngokwakho, ukuqondisa impilo yakho ngendlela efanele.