Qala ukufundisa ingane embizeni okudingeka uqale ezinyangeni ezingu-12 kuya kwezi-18, kulesi sikhathi lapho umntwana eqala ukuqonda ngokugcwele izenzo zakhe. Okokuqala, mfundise ukuba ahlale ebhodweni sokwethulwa. Kule minyaka, isibonelo sezinye izingane ezincane noma abazali basebenza kahle.
Vumela ingane ibone indlela abadala nabangane abaya ngayo endlini yangasese, futhi mhlawumbe ufuna ukulingisa abanye. Khombisa ingane yakhe i-diaper engcolile, uchaze ukuthi uma i-croak noma i-pisses, imbongolo yakhe ihlambulukile futhi iphunga kabi.
Nazi amathiphu ambalwa okuzokusiza ufundise ingane yakho embizeni:
- vumela ibhodlela lingaboni ingane - ekamelweni lakhe noma egumbini lokulala, makabe edlala naye;
- Uma umntwana ehamba ebhodweni, qiniseka ukuthi uyomdumisa, uhlasele ikhanda, khona-ke ingane izoba nemizwa emihle ehlotshaniswa nokusetshenziswa kwembiza. Hlonipha ngokuphumelela impumelelo yakhe, khona-ke uzofuna ukukujabulisa futhi.
- uma ngabe ingane ihlala eya kuma-diapers, kuzodingeka isuswe. Ingane kufanele itadishe umzimba wayo, ubone ukuthi iphika futhi ikhwehlela.
- Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ingene endlini yangasese hhayi kuphela ekhaya, kodwa nakwezinye izindawo ezihlukahlukene: emgwaqweni, angabhala ngaphansi kwesihlahla, nalapho evakashela indlu yangasese.
- ukuthi ingane ayibhaliwe ebusuku, ungamniki ukuthi aphuze amanzi amaningi ebusuku. Mfundise ukuvakashela indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokulala futhi ngokushesha emva kokuvusa.
Uma unika ingane encane ebhodweni, akufanele neze umthukuthele ngokwenza imfucuza engenzi lutho. Mkhumbuze imbiza, kepha ungamcindezeli ukuba ahlale kuye. Uma uhlale umhlekisa futhi umgxeka ingane, ngenxa yamaphutha akhe, uzoyesaba ukuhamba ebhodweni, ukuze angabhubhisi ukungajabuli kwakho, futhi kuyoba nzima ukujwayela embizeni. Uma ingane ingafuni ukuhlala ebhodweni, ungamcindezeli ukuba akwenze. Zama ukuzama futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, bese uzama ukuthola ukuthi angakuthandi ibhodlela: mhlawumbe akukhathazeki noma kubanda kakhulu.
Kunoma yikuphi, ungalindeli umphumela osheshayo. Yiba nokuthula, ugweme ukucasuka nokuphelelwa ithemba. Khumbula ukuthi uma ukukhushulwa akusizi, isijeziso sizobe sibi kakhulu. Qhubeka ubukela ingane. Ngemuva kwesikhashana konke kuzokwenzeka!