Indlela yokulungisa ukuma

Iqiniso lokuthi yiyona nto eyenza owesifazane abe ngowesifazane - sekushiwo kakade futhi kubhaliwe okuningi, akufanelekile ukuphinda konke lokhu. Wena ngokwakho uyaqaphela ukuthi ukuzwa komuntu wesifazane nokuhamba kwakhe kuhambelana: uma ugibela emgwaqeni futhi amadoda ephenduka, isimo sakho sithuthuka ngokushesha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umthwalo wezinkinga unzima ukuma, ukuguqa phansi, futhi umthwalo uyanzima futhi uvimbelwe.

U-Virgil Maron, ephikisana ngokuthi unkulunkulukazi wangempela ubonakala ngephutha, empeleni, wayecabanga ukuthi ukuma nokuphakama ngesikhathi sokunyakaza kunikezwa owesifazane lapho ezalwa. Noma kunjalo, ngokulandela izincomo ezimbalwa ezilula, ungathola unkulunkulukazi futhi ungenasisekelo esivela kuNkulunkulu.


Okokuqala kufanele uzithande: ukuzihlonipha wena nokuzibonga njengakho, uqondise amahlombe akho, uvumelanise umhlane wakho futhi uphathe phezulu ngenhlabathi ikhanda lakho liphakeme. Uma ekubukeni kwakho noma empilweni yakho kunento engakuvumeli ukuba usakaze amahlombe akho-amaphiko futhi udale isakhiwo esikhulu nesindayo, ngakho-ke kufanele usilahle, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyothandana futhi uyamukele. Vumela indaba yothando yeNkosi Louis XIV noLouise de Lavalier ikugqugquzele emisebenzini - kwakuyizimpumputhe zakhe ezithinta inkosi, kwakungumngane wakhe omncane lapho ehamba ethinta uLouis kangangokuthi wenza uLouise amthandayo iminyaka eminingi.

Khumbula ukuthi i-gait iyaba nzima, ngokushesha nje lapho isisu sakho sigcwele ngokweqile. Kodwa isisu esihlotshisiwe kanye nokukhethwa okukhethiwe kuzokusiza ukuba uthole kalula ama-swallows nokuvumelanisa kwe-dae deer. Uma isisindo sakho singaphezu kwesimiso, ungasheshi ukulahla ubunzima nobukhulu bezinyathelo zakho ukuze uphelele. Akuphelelanga kwenza ukhululeke kakhulu, futhi awukwazi ukulungisa kahle imilenze yakho. Yiba nomusa ngisho nemithanjeni yakho ezinyaweni zakho, ngoba lokho kubonakala kubonakala kuzo.

Uma umhlane wakho uzohlala uphethile sonke isikhathi, bese ucabangela ukuthi leyo ngxabano isivele yenziwe. Okufanayo kusebenza emahlombe athuthukisiwe: labo abonakala befuna ukufihla into emiphefumulweni yabo bendela emuva futhi baphendule amahlombe abo phambili. Awunazo ukufihla kubantu abangabazi, uyajabula futhi uvulekile kubantu. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uzama ukukhombisa imigqa yakho ehamba phambili futhi ekhaliphile, ngoba ungunkulunkulukazi, konke kuphelele kuwe.

Bent emadolweni ngenkathi ehamba, kubonakala sengathi unamalungu ahlabayo noma awukwazi ukuhamba ngezintethe zakho. Dweba iziphetho - bese ulungisa imilenze yakho. Ungadluli, ngoba imilenze eqondile kakhulu yenza umqondo wokungajwayelekile.

Futhi into yokugcina: amadoda, eqinisweni, ayajabula ngokunyuka kancane kwezinyathelo zabo ngenkathi behamba. Kodwa lokhu kufanele kube ukugwedla lula, okubangelwa ukuthi izinyawo zenyawo zesifazane zifakwa emgqeni uma zihamba. Kodwa akufanelekile ukugxilisa izinkalo zakho ngokukhethekile: kungcolile futhi kubi.

Futhi akukubi ukugcina izandla zakho emaphaketheni akho uma uhamba. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungawabeka kuphi, bese ubamba isikhwama sakho ngesandla esisodwa, bese uvumela omunye ngokukhululekile, kodwa hhayi ngokuzulazula, egijimela kwisigqi sezinyathelo zakho.

Njengoba ungabona, unkulunkulukazi akuwona lokho kunzima. Udinga nje ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala.



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