Ubeka umgomo wokwakha ubuhlobo nomuntu? Khona-ke udinga ukunquma ukuthi kuzoba yini, ngoba kuxhomeke kulo - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzokulandela yini noma cha. Ngiphakamisa ukuthi ujwayele ucwaningo lwe-psychoanalytic lwezinyunyana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuzothuthukisa imibono yakho nolwazi mayelana nobuhlobo ... Indlela ehlongozwayo yokunquma inyunyana yakho ilula, ayidingi isifundo esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi yenzelwe ukubonwa okujwayelekile kwezingqinamba zobuhlobo.
Ukubambisana kwama-paranoid
Ubuhlobo be-paranoid bubonakala ngendawo yokulawulwa ngokweqile nokuqapha, okwenza ukungathembeki nokwesaba amathuba okushushiswa.
Amandla, kaningi, agxila ekubambeni okubambisene kwe-union, ngaphezu kwalokho, akudingeki ukuba abe ngumuntu. Bobabili umlingani nabo bonke abantu abaseduze nabo basebenzisa kuphela ukuqoqa nokulungiselela ulwazi mayelana nezingozi zangaphakathi nangaphandle. Kulezi zinyunyana, i-conservatism ilawula, imvelo isaba ukuthi ibonakale imangalisa futhi ingabonakali. Life credo: "Masiphume ngandlela-thile!".
Ukunciphisa ingozi ekhona kulezo zinyunyana kusiza ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwazo zonke izinyathelo nezinqubo ezikhona. Umkhathi ubanda kakhulu, unengqondo futhi awunamfudumalo womzwelo.
Izivumelwano ze-Epileptoid
Isifiso sobuhle kwezobuhlobo obunjalo asuke singazibopheli. Amaphutha kanye nokungaqiniseki kufanele kugwenywe yiwo wonke amaqiniso nama-fouls. Lapha kukhona inkolo yokuhlela nokulawulwa, ngoba kukhona ukwesaba ukuthi izimbangela ezingalindelekile zonakalisa umsebenzi obalulekile wenyunyana. Lapha kukho konke kunezimiso, izimo zengqondo neziqondiso eziqoqwe eminyakeni eminingi. Ayikho into eyenzeka ngengozi, ayikho into encane. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buhle kakhulu, abukwazi ukusabela masinyane ekushintsheni okwenzeka endaweni yangaphandle. Abalingani banamathele kakhulu ekuhlolweni kwesikhathi, futhi nakakhulu, izizukulwane zezimo zengqondo, amaqiniso namasu okuthuthukiswa.
Isisusa esiyinhloko senyunyana yesifo sokuhlukumezeka sinqika ukuthembela kumuntu noma kunoma yini. Abalingani bafuna ukuchaza konke ekuphileni kwabo ngokwabo. Izinqumo zithathwa kanzima kakhulu futhi, uma umbuzo ungafundiwe kahle, ungahle uhlehliswe kuze kufike isikhathi esihle kakhulu.
Inkinga evamile yezinyunyana ezinjalo ukuthi abalingani abakuboni ngemuva kwezihlahla izinkuni ezihlala izilwane ezimbi.
Ama-hysteroidal alliances
Ukusebenzisana okuvamile kumanyunyana we-hysteroid kuphenduka ukusebenza okuphawulekayo nokufaniswa. Inqubo ibaluleke kakhulu kunomphumela. Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, kukhona ukungahloniphi, ibhizinisi, ukuphoqeleka nokukhululeka. Ingozi, isibindi nokuzimela ekuthatheni izinqumo kuyisisekelo sokuziphatha komholi. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, udinga umlingani ukuqinisa amandla akhe okuzibonga. Kuye, noma yikuphi isikhala (kungaba indawo yokuhlala noma indawo engcono yomphakathi) yindawo lapho ungabonisa khona futhi ubonise izixazululo zakho "zesibindi" nezokuqala.
Akukho ndawo yokukhulumisana okujwayelekile kulezi zinyunyana. Konke ngokuzenzekelayo. Awekho isu. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza izinhlelo, ngisho nesikhathi esifushane. Izindlela zokuqukatha nokulawula azisebenzi.
Ifilosofi yombonisi: "Ngifuna ukuba nenjongo, ngifuna ukwenza umqondo."
Izivumelwano ezidabukisayo
Ukubambisana okunjalo akusizi. Abalingani abaqiniseki neze ngamakhono abo, ababoni incazelo nenhloso yobambiswano babo. Impilo yabo igcwele umkhuba wokugubha imihelo nezinqubo, akukho nesifiso sokushintsha noma yini empilweni yabo. Ubuhlobo obunjalo abukho, kodwa bukhona.
Ekhanda - i-vacuum. Ukwesaba ukwenza amaphutha kakhulu kangangokuthi abalingani bazama ukuhlala kulo mpilo kuphela ngosizo lwamakhono nezindleko zangezolo. Ukungaqiniseki nokucindezeleka komholi kuboniswe ngezikhalazo nasekusesheni izizathu zangaphandle zokuhluleka kwabo.
Konke kugcwele ukukhathazeka. Konke kubhidlizwa futhi kukhunjulwa. Isiqubulo sabo sithi: "Uhamba ngokuthula - uzoqhubeka" noma "Indlu yami kusukela enqenqemeni".
Izinyunyana ze-Schizoid
Izizungezile zibona izinyunyana ezinjalo zibandayo, zixotshiwe, zihoxisiwe futhi ngezinye izikhathi ziyingozi.
Umholi ebuhlotsheni uvame ukungeniswa, angenasici ezindabeni zobuciko, anqatshelwe othintana nabo abanobungane nabangakahleleki, akazami ngisho nokuveza ngokucacile isikhundla sakhe nokubukwa. Ubunye bezinqubo zomuntu siqu nebhizinisi buphulwa, okuholela ekunciphiseni emsebenzini wokubumbana.
Ngokujwayelekile umbhangqwana onjalo ungaphansi kokungena kwemininingwane. Intshisekelo enkulu yomholi, njengomthetho, kokunye ukukhathazeka, okuxhumene nenjabulo noma ikhono lomunye umuntu obaziyo. Ukusungula ibanga langaphakathi nangaphandle luhlobo lokuvikelwa kokuzithemba kakade.
Izinyunyana engizichazile ziyizifo ezincane. Kodwa uma ubheka eduze kwakho nezinye izinyunyana oziwaziyo, uzokwazi ukubona ezinye izitayela ezizosiza ekuboneni izinkinga ezikhulayo noma ezivele zizalwa.
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