Indlela yokunikeza intombazane intombazane?

Imfihlakalo yobuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, phakathi kwendoda nentombazane, phakathi komkhuba wakhe nomzwelo wakhe. Kunamagama amangaki okushiwo ngokubunzima kokukhetha isipho somthandi, kodwa abamele abesilisa abanamandla kakhulu bacabanga ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukwethula isipho esikhethiwe.

Kodwa ngisho into ephumelele kakhulu, enganikele ngokungafanele, ingahle ilahlekelwe yiyo yonke into ekugcineni ilahle ukuheha kwayo intombazane. Kuhle ukuthi leli phethini lisebenza futhi ngokuphambene nalokhu: uma ungakwazi ukuthola isipho esibizayo, khona-ke into engabalulekile ingaba isipho esiphuthumayo uma uhlela ngefomethini efanelekayo.

Amaqiniso Eyinhloko.

Naphezu kokuthi lezi zimiso zokupha isipho sezivele zigijima emhlabeni wonke izikhathi eziningana ezincwadini eziningi ezincwadini zokusebenza kwengqondo, zokuziphatha nezindlela zokuziphatha, futhi kumane omagazini abathandwayo, amadoda aphikelela isilwane esiyaziwayo aqhubeka enganaki le mibandela ecacile. Ngakho-ke, kanjani ukunikeza intombazane intombazane, ukuze ungamcasuli?

Okokuqala, umbuzo obuhlungu ngaso sonke isikhathi: ukuthi yini ongayinika. Awukwazi ukunikeza okuthile okwethulwe kumnikeli ngokwakhe. Unganikeli ngokujulile izinto ezingase zihlotshaniswe nentombazane eneziphambeko zayo. Ama-antioderpirants, amakhemikhali e-anti-cellulite, i-ayisikhumba yesikhumba, i-gel yokuhlanza isikhumba senkinga, amafutha okugcoba ngokumelene nama-acne, njll. Ngokuvamile, izimonyo zentombazane uma zinikezwa, ke-njengesipho sokufaniswa sokuqala ezihambisana nencazelo ehlekisayo yezizathu zokukhetha okungukuthi indaba ethile. Akungabazeki ukuthi intombazane izobona isipho, isithunzi esinganikezwa ngendima enjalo. Iziphuzo ezidakayo, izesekeli zokubhema, izinto ezincane zasendlini, njll. Lokhu konke - kuye ngokwakhe, akusho ukuqonda izimfanelo zakhe ezikhethekile, izifiso, izici zobuntu. Le ntombazane izocasula kunokuba ijabulise.

Okwesibili, lapho ukunikeza - umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu kunabanikeli ngokwabo abacabangayo. Isikhathi osidinga ukukhetha okulungile, esifanele, esilungele intombazane. Asikho isidingo sokuvusa umthandi ngehora lesi-7 ekuseni ukuze amnike ithikithi lombukiso wezemidlalo ebusuku. Uzojabula uma ekhona, ngakho kusihlwa - ukuhlala kulo mboniso, cishe kungenzeka, kakade ngaphandle kwe-chevalier efunwa ngaphambili, owamcasula ekuseni. Ukwethula isipho ngendlela efanele, udinga ukukhetha isikhathi lapho uzohlala khona yedwa, uzobe enhle futhi ngeke aphazamiseke esenzweni sokunikeza imicabango yakhe kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Umzuzu omuhle kungenzeka ngaphambi kokuba wonke umuntu aqale amnike izipho (uma kungukuzalwa kwakhe noma elinye iholidi ehloniphekile) noma emva kokuthola isipho sokugcina kubangane bakhe bonke, abajwayele, izihlobo.

Kanjani, empeleni, ukunikeza izipho intombazane?

Impendulo yalo mbuzo, eqinisweni, inqunyelwe izidingo ezintathu: ngesibindi, ngokuzethemba, ngokumomotheka. Kodwa iningi labafana alanele. Ukumomotheka kwabo kuveza ijika elincane, isibindi siphuthela endaweni ethile, lapho amehlo abanye ephenduka kuye, futhi amehlo akhe aqala ukwenza izenzo ezingalawulwayo, egijima kusukela ekhoneni elilodwa ekamelweni kuya kwesilandelayo.

Empeleni, kwanele ukuqonda iqiniso elilodwa elilula, ukuze ungesabi ukupha intombazane yakho ethandekayo isipho. Kungakhathaliseki ubuhlobo phakathi kwakhe nomthandi wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bebajwayele kangakanani, nokuthi kwenzekani phakathi kwabo izolo - zonke izintombi zilindele isipho esivela kuye. Kuye, akubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi yini ngempela isipho (uma kungesiyo indaba ehlaselayo kuye, yebo), njengoba kuyiqiniso lokuthi kuyatholakala. Wayesevele esamukele lesi sipho kusengaphambili, wayejabule naye futhi ekhuluma ngokumomotheka kokubonga kokuthola kwakhe. Futhi imizwa yakhe yangempela ngalesi sipho, okhethiweyo akasazi ukuphela kweholide. Ngakho-ke, futhi akukho lutho okumelwe ukwesabe. Okufanayo kuya kwezipho ezizelelwe, okuyinto zonke intombazane ezilindele ngasese esoka lakhe, kodwa ohlala emangalisa ngezimanga ezingenakwenzeka. Kunoma yikuphi, uzojabula ngalesi sinyathelo sokunakekelwa, futhi uma isipho esikhethiwe kuye kanye nemicabango yakhe, ngokuqinisekile uzozizwa futhi ngokuqinisekile uzophendula ngesimo sengqondo esifudumele ngesipho. Injabulo yakhe enkambweni yokunikeza indoda kuphela ibeka othandekayo wakhe esimweni esibucayi. Futhi uma ngaleso sikhathi esabonisa ukungaqiniseki, khona-ke wonke umuntu ozungezile uyacaca: akazange asebenzise isikhathi esanele sokukhetha isipho, manje uyangabaza impumelelo yakhe.

Awukwazi ukufihla amehlo akho, unike intombi yakho isipho. Ekugcineni, emva kwakho konke, wazinika isikhathi esiningi, amandla nokucabanga okukhethile. Ngakho-ke akufanele yini ukuqonda umphumela womzamo osetshenzisiwe - ukukhanya kwayo kwamehlo angama-crystal ama-glare? Ukuze ukhulume inkulumo ehambisanayo, ngaphambi kokunikeza izipho, kudingeka futhi ukuba avuleke futhi ahlanzeke, ukuze akwazi ukuzwa, bonke abakuzungezile nabangenazifiso. Phela, wayemlungiselela la mazwi. Wayecabanga ngemizwa yakhe ngaye lapho ebhala umbhalo, ephupha ngokumomotheka kwakhe, lapho ebhala ukuncoma, wamkhumbula lapho ebeka imicabango yakhe emacinini acacile, acacile.

Izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokunikeza isipho intombazane.

Zisebenzise izinombolo zamakhulu amadoda aphumelele ukunqoba izinkathazo zabo zangaphakathi nokungabaza, futhi ufunde indlela yokuphatha amantombazane ngokuqondile ngendlela esithandayo ngayo ubulili obubuthakathaka. Yiqiniso, phakathi kwalabo abamele iqhaza eliqinile lomuntu kukhona ama-smoothies kuphela. Kodwa yini evimbela ukusebenzisa isipiliyoni sabo esiwusizo - isibonelo, embuzweni wokuthi unganikeza isipho owesifazane - wena?

Ngakho-ke, amaqhawe ezinkulungwane ezinkundleni zothando abanikeza izipho kubalandeli babo abaningi? Okokuqala, akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi isizathu sokunikela angeke sibe kuphela ngamaholide e-classical - usuku lomhlaba wonke wesifazane, uNyaka omusha, usuku lokuzalwa, usuku lokuzalwa, njll. Lezi zinsuku intombazane ithola izipho eziningi ngisho nokulwa nezifiso zayo, isihloko, esethulwe kubathandekayo bakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi ilahleke emgqonyeni wezinye izinto ezitholakalayo. Yini ezoba yinto emangalisa kakhulu isipho esingalindelekile, esifikelelwe osukwini oluhlobene kuphela nobuhlobo babo. Into encane encane enhle ngokuhlonipha izinsuku ezingu-10 kusukela ngosuku lokuqala kokumanga, isikhumbuzo esihle, njengesikhumbuzo ngoMsombuluko wokuqala ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside. Noma yini engaba yisikhathi sokuqala sesikhathi sokuletha isipho. Futhi cishe akekho owesifazane ongamelana nokumangala okunjalo.

Okwesibili, ukunikeza izipho ngokungalindelekile: ukuvusa ukudla kwasekuseni okuthandayo embhede, ubuye esitolo iminyaka emi-20 kamuva kunokwethenjelwa, ngisho naphakathi kwegama lakhe mayelana nefilimu esanda kubuka. Noma yimuphi umzuzu lapho owesifazane engalindele khona isipho uyoba ekahle enkulumweni yakhe. Kodwa ngaphandle kokushisekela, yiqiniso: umkhathaze ngenxa ye-anyanisi obukhali, ubopha inaliti emehlweni, ukudonsa, njll, - ukuze uveze ijoka eliluhlaza, akufanelekile.