Ngokuyinhloko, imidlalo yekhompyutha yanamuhla. Abaningi bamageyimu bangamadoda. Ngokuvamile kunesimo lapho indoda ethandekayo ihileleke ngokuphelele kulo mdlalo, futhi ayikhombisi umlingani wayo.
Ngeshwa, lesi simo sijwayele abesifazane abaningi. Ekhaya, ikhompyutha yavela, futhi manje isikebhe somndeni saqhekeka. Indoda eyeka ukuthakazelisa emisebenzini yakhe yangaphambilini, ayikhulumi nabangani, futhi-ke, ayizinaki othandekayo wakhe. Ekuqaleni, owesifazane akakwazi ukukubaluleka kakhulu, enethemba lokuthi ukuzithokozisa kwetheyishi kuyodlula maduzane. Kodwa-ke, ukulutha umlutha kuyaqina futhi kuqiniswe futhi impilo yangempela yendoda iyanqabela. Futhi-ke lona wesifazane unemibuzo enengqondo, indlela yokunqoba umlutha wekhompyutha womuntu othandekayo?
Owesifazane uqala ukwesaba. Uzama ukukhuluma nomyeni wakhe ngokuthi uphazamisekile ithoyizi evela kuye nasemndenini wonke. Lo muntu uthembisa ukuthi uzoyeka ukudlala futhi ngempela "ngokwanele" amahora angu-2-3, kodwa emva kwesikhathi konke kuqala kabusha. Owesifazane uphinde uzame ukukholisa othandekayo, kodwa akasabela nganoma iyiphi indlela. Le ngxoxo iphela ngezinyembezi ezinkulu nezinkombazanekazi, kepha indoda ayikhathaleli ngempela, uqhubeka nokuhlala ekhompyutheni. Owesifazane uhlala noma ukuvala amehlo akhe ekuthembekeni komuntu wendoda, noma ukuletha isinqumo - isahlukaniso.
Nokho, ungaphelelwa ithemba. Ukuze unqobe ukuxhomeka kwe-betrothed yakho futhi ubuyisele i-idyll yomndeni omdala kungenzeka. Mane ube nesiguli esincane.
Okokuqala, kufanele uhlaziye isimo bese ucabanga ngalokho ongathanda ukukufeza ekuhlotsheni komndeni wakho nomyeni wakho. Ukuze ufeze umgomo, kufanele ulungiselelwe ngokucacile. Kodwa kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi umgomo kufanele ube yinto yangempela. Yiqiniso, ungathembi ukuthi umyeni wakhe uyoyeka ngokushesha ukudlala imidlalo yekhompyutha futhi aqale ukunaka. Noma kunjalo, angase aqale ukusebenzisa isikhathi esincane ngemuva kwakhe nangaphezulu nawe.
Izinyathelo zokufeza imigomo ebekiwe:
1. Hlanganisa ukuziphatha kwakho.
Okokuqala, khumbula ukuziphatha kwakho ngaphambi kokuba ikhompyutha ibonakale empilweni yakho kanye futhi uyiqhathanise nokuziphatha kwamanje. Cishe, waqala ukuziphatha ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ukuziphatha kufanelekile ukushintsha. Hlanganisa amandla akho okuthanda amandla bese uzama ukuziphatha kahle, njengokungathi le nkinga ixazululwa, futhi ufeze umgomo. Smile, uhlaya, udlala ngothando nomyeni wakho, ukhululeke futhi ukhululeke. Yenza okuthandayo!
2. Ukweqa umgqa wokukhahlela.
Indoda elesi simo ibonisa ukuvela kwikhompyutha. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukunikeza izinzwa eziningi ezicacile kusuka eqinisweni. Bamba iqhaza emidlalweni yokudlala indima, menzele ukusilisa umzimba. Yilokho, ukuletha okuthile okusha esimeni esivamile.
Ungathenga futhi amathikithi enkundleni yaseshashalazini, noma kumbukiso we-movie. Ngemuva kokuvakashela isikhungo samasiko ungavakashela indawo yokudlela. Ungamema abangani nabangani bomndeni ukuba bavakashele. Phela, ukukhulumisana okubonakalayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyithakazelisayo futhi kuyithakazelisa kangakanani, ngeke kuqhathaniswe nokuxhumana kwangempela komuntu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungathenga ukubhalisa endaweni yokuzivocavoca, echibini lokubhukuda, iqembu lokuzivocavoca.
Izinketho zingaqhubeka kuze kube nini nanini, okubaluleke kakhulu - ingqondo yakho. Noma kunjalo, phawula ukuthi konke kunemingcele nemingcele. Ungabi nhlobo, ngoba kuyoholela emthethweni ohlukile. Indoda izomane ihlubuke futhi ivule ngokujulile emhlabeni jikelele, bese iqeda ukuthembela kwayo kwikhompyutha kuyoba nzima nakakhulu.