Amaphutha ekuziphatheni komkakho.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi abashadile bahlazeke ukutshela abangane noma ozakwabo ukuthi usebenza kuphi ingxenye yabo yesibili. Uma indoda isesikhundleni esiphambili, kwakungenakuvinjelwa ukuba abe nomthengisi womthengi. Kancane kancane, indoda iqala ukuhlakulela umklomelo wakhe futhi uyathukuthele - "olahlekile". Futhi abesifazane bahlupheka. Yeka isihawu ukuthi ezweni lethu kuze kube manje abafazi abaningi kakhulu bazibeka "ngemuva", beka indima yokuqala kumyeni wakhe. Yeka isihawu ukuthi abesifazane baseRussia abazange bafunde ukuzithanda. Futhi bayakubekezelela lokhu kuziphatha kwabantu.
Uma isimo esinjalo sesivela emndenini wakho, akusikho into eyenza "ukukhipha" ngaphansi komyeni wakhe nakakhulu. Lokho ngeke kusize! Esikhundleni salokho, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyomhawukela indoda ezosheshe ishintshwe ngokucasuka nakakhulu.
Ngalokhu kuziphatha, umyeni ubonisa ukuthi isimo samanje asihambisani naye. Nguye kuphela ongeke aqonde ukuthi unamahloni ngomsebenzi womkakhe noma ukuthi akayona "i-blonde neyesihlanu sesifuba," njengo-Ivan Ivanovich ovela enkampanini engaphansi. "
Ngiphinde ngifuna ukugcizelela ukuthi uma uqala ngisho nangaphezulu "sicela uthandekayo wakho," yileyo lena indlela eqondile yokuhlukanisa. Ake sibone ukuthi kungani.
Okokuqala, kufanele uqonde ukuthi uma umuntu eshintshe isimo sakhe, imvelo ishintshiwe. Manje kufanele ahambisane nemithetho emisha yenkampani. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuguqula futhi "ulungise" kuleso simo, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi umyeni wakho uzothola "umfazi ngesimo." Futhi kuzokwenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu. "Abazingeli bezwe" esikhathini sethu kakhulu.
Ukuziphatha kwakho "kokuguqa" kuzosheshisa inqubo yokuthola umfazi omusha. Empeleni, kakade uyakubona njengenceku. Uma uzizwa ukuthi ukhuphukele kulezi zihlahla, sekuyisikhathi sokuphuma kuzo. Awusuye inceku, kodwa umfazi!
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokufanele.
Okokuqala, kufanele uqonde futhi uqaphele ukuthi manje umyeni wakho ungumuntu obalulekile futhi onzima. Futhi wena, njengomfazi, kufanele uhambisane nalo. Ngakho-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokushintsha futhi ube "isimo sesimame" esifanayo kumyeni wakho ngakho akudingeki ukuba afune, angafuni ukubheka entsha.
Khumbula ukuthi awuyena inceku, ilungu elilinganayo lomndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wena uyindlovukazi yenkosi yakho. Ungahambisani ne-tiptoe futhi ungasho ukuthi "yebo, othandekayo, omuhle, othandekayo." Vumela indoda ikuphathe njengasendulo. Ngempela, nguwe owayenaye ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu.
Zibuke ngokwakho esibukweni, bheka ikhaya lakho elihle, ezinganeni ezithandekayo. Umfazi omubi angalungisa kanjani lokhu konke? Wena uyigugu kakhulu kumyeni wakho! Uthande ngokwakho!
Okuhle ekukhuliseni ukuzethemba kuyindlela yokuthenga, ukuxoxa nezintombi, ukudlala imidlalo nezingane nakho konke okukulethela injabulo. Sebenzisa usuku lonke uqobo, wenze izinto ezimnandi kuphela.
Shintsha ukubukeka kwakho, shintsha ikhabethe. Njengoba manje ungumfazi womuntu ophumelelayo, kufanele ubheke sengathi ufanelekile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, yini engase ibe mnandi kakhulu kunosuku lonke esichitha salon beauty, lapho amakhosi amaningana ehlupha? Noma uthengisa ezitolo eziningi kakhulu? Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi umyeni wami uyojabula ukunikeza imali enkulu "yokuphindukuzalwa" kwakho.
Ungakwazi ukuhlanganyela emsebenzini omkhulu. Ngokungangabazeki, umsebenzi osebenzayo wowesifazane, uzovusa ukuzethemba kwakhe futhi enze umyeni wakhe ahloniphe umsebenzi wakhe. Ingabe izingane ezizoshiywa ekunakekelwa kwamannies zihlupheke kulokhu?
Ungavumeli umyeni wakho akucasule! Ungamcasuli wena ngokwakho. Ungaphikisani futhi ungatholi ubuhlobo, ngokushisa kwentukuthelo ungatshela izinto eziningi ezingenakuqhathaniswa.
Ukukhuthazwa komyeni wakho kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kuzomele usebenze kanzima ngokwakho nangaphezu kobudlelwane bakho uma ufuna ukusindisa umndeni uphile impilo yakho yonke