Ukuvulwa kwengqondo kwengqondo yaseCanada uLiz Burbo kwaholela ekumangaliseni kososayensi abaningi abadumile nabacwaningi. Ngokusho kwengqondo yakhe, ngokusho kwalesi sibalo, ungakwazi ukunquma uhlobo lomuntu, ukwesaba kwakhe kanye nezifiso, izifiso nezimo zengqondo ngezwe elizungezile. Kusukela eBourbaugh, wakhipha izinhlobo ezingu-5 zezibalo futhi, ngokufanele, izinhlobo zobuntu ezinhlanu, ezinezinkinga zobuntwana (zibonakala emzimbeni wethu). Abantu abangenakho ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo akukwenzeki, kunalokho (ukulimala) kungaba okungakanani. Lapho kubonakala ukuhlukumezeka kwengane emzimbeni womuntu, lapho ethintwa kakhulu yi-psychology ekuziphatheni kwakhe kwamanje.
Yiqiniso, isitatimende esinjalo sombuzo ngeke sibe mnandi kwabaningi, kodwa kubalulekile ukuyiqonda ngokujulile, njengoba kubonakala ukuthi ingasetshenziselwa izinhloso zabo siqu, ukwenza lula impilo yabo nokuba khona, ukuqala ukubhekana nezenzakalo futhi bafunde ukuxhumana nabantu kanye nezwe elikuzungezile.
Thayipha owodwa.
Umzimba omzimba omuhle kakhulu, amathambo angamaqabunga, amehlo esabekayo ngamaso amancane, ngezinye izikhathi abantu abanjalo banjenge-anorexic. Lolu hlobo lwabantu aluthandi ukuheha, esixukwini balahlekelwa ngokushesha futhi bangabonakali.
I-Psychology.
Izingane zilimale uma zisesibelethweni. Mhlawumbe, bebengewona ingane ekulinde isikhathi eside futhi ehleliwe, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngengozi. Futhi, lapho abazali bengakakulungeli isinyathelo esinzima kangaka, ngokusobala kubonakala sengathi ingane ayidingi. Kodwa, ngenxa yothando noma ezinye izimo, ukukhulelwa kwakungaphazanyiswa, futhi ingane yazalwa.
Abantu abanjalo abaqiniseki ukuthi banelungelo lokuba khona nhlobo, abanesithakazelo ezintweni ezibonakalayo, bahlakaniphile ngokwanele futhi bahlakaniphile, kodwa kaningi bazizwa bengadingekile futhi benqatshelwe izwe lonke. Akekho owaziyo noma owamamukelayo-bona ngokwabo bacabanga kanjalo. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile ukhetha indlela yesizungu. Ukwesaba okukhulu kunazo zonke kukhona ukwesaba.
Uhlobo Lwesibili.
Umzimba omncane owehlukanisiwe, umgogodla owephukile, amahlombe we-slouching kanye ne-unsteady gait yizici zohlobo lwesibili lwabantu. Isibalo somuntu onjalo sincane, kodwa singenayo i-tonus namandla. Amehlo ayadabukisa, ebheka wonke umuntu onognetic glance.
I-Psychology.
Ukulimala kwamukelwa ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-3. Njengomthetho, ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo kubangelwa umzali wobulili obuhlukile. Lokhu kungase kungabikho kokubamba iqhaza ngokomzwelo, isibonelo, omunye wabazali angahamba ebhizinisini, kanti ingane yayiyingozi, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi kwakubalulekile ukuba abe nomzali.
Lolu hlobo lwabantu luhlale luheha abanye ngabanoma iyiphi indlela ekhona. Kubalulekile ukusekela, ukubamba iqhaza empilweni yabo, bathande ucansi, balwela ukuzimela, bavame ukuba ngabantu abadumile, ngesifiso sokwanelisa isidingo sabo sokuba yisikhungo sokunakwa.
Uhlobo lwesithathu.
Umuntu ofana ne-kolobok, ehlukaniswe ngomzimba ogcwele, unezihlathi ezithwele ezinwabuzelayo, ubuso obuvulekile nokubukeka okuhle kumuntu kubheke uhlobo lwesithathu.
I-Psychology.
Impendulo ebukhali neyengqondo etholakele ingane engaphansi kweminyaka engu-5 ingabangela ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo. Abantu abanjalo banamahloni ngokwabo, kuwo wonke umuntu nento yonke. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi bazi kahle izidingo zabo nezifiso zabo, bayazinaki, bathathe izinkinga zabanye abantu, bazame ukuzixazulula. Abantu abanjalo bazwela, besaba inkululeko.
Thayipha Okwesine.
Isibalo esiphendukile, isikhumba esikhulu, isifuba esincane, ubheka obujulile ukuhlukanisa abantu bohlobo lwesine.
I-Psychology.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kuyatholakala uma uneminyaka engaba ngu-5 ngenxa yomzali wobulili obuhlukile, lapho lowo muntu adumele khona. Abantu abanjalo balawula wonke umuntu nento yonke, zama ukuxhaphaza, zama ukuthakazelisa noma yikuphi izindleko. Bayizinkolelo, bengenasidingo, benze ngokushesha futhi banqume. Kunamakhemikhali amaningi okwakhiwa, okuyinto, njengomthetho, ayitholakali.
Thayipha uFifth.
Umzimba ohamba kahle futhi omuhle, ukukhula okuphezulu, ukuma okuhle kakhulu kuyisici sesihlobo sesihlanu. Abantu abanjalo banomkhuba wokucindezela umhlathi wabo, ukunyakaza kuboshwe.
I-Psychology.
Lapho eneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, omunye wabazali wengane akazange abonge izenzo nezenzo zomntwana, ngaphezu kwalokho, isijeziso salandelwa. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuba abaphelele kukho konke, ngezinye izikhathi banakekele, ngezinye izikhathi bakhuphule ngokubandayo. Bathanda ukuziqhathanisa nabanye, uma kuqhathaniswa nabo kuyisiko sangempela. Besaba ukulahlwa, abahlukaniswe nokubandayo nokungaqondi kahle.