Amantombazane amaningi asebenza kakhulu lapho efunda ukuthi kuzodingeka bachithe isikhathi emphakathini wesifazane. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukuqoqwa kwabesifazane kubonakala sengathi kubhekwa nje ukuhleba, intukuthelo nesifiso 'sokuhlala'. Yiqiniso, kulula ukusebenza kuqembu elixubekile. Kodwa uma kufanele uhlanganyele kuphela nabesifazane, ke-ke ungaphumelela kanjani emsebenzini eqenjini labesifazane?
Lalela futhi ukhumbule
Ukuze unqume ukuthi uphumelele kanjani emsebenzini eqenjini labesifazane, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi uzomelwe nobambisane nobani. Yingakho uma uvela embuthanweni omusha, khuluma kancane futhi ulalele kabanzi. Kuzo zonke izinto eziqinile, ngisho nalapho okuhlanganyelwe akuyona insikazi ngokuphelele, ngokuqinisekile kuzoba yizinhlebo ezizofuna ukutshela lokho okusha mayelana nalokho okwenzekayo. Lalela, uhlunga ulwazi lemifanekiso bese unquma amaqhinga akho wokuziphatha. Yiqiniso, ungakholelwa wonke amazwi, kodwa ngenhla ungathola okusanhlamvu kweqiniso mayelana neqembu bese udweba esithombeni sakho isithombe esiseduze.
Futhi, kulelo qembu elisha labesifazane kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacile ubukhosi, ukuze kungabi ngcono kunabasebenzi. Futhi akukhona ngomsebenzi nhlobo. Esikhathini sethimba labesifazane, ummeli ngamunye wezocansi ezifanele ufuna ukuphumelela futhi njengowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, uma abasebenzi bakumemele emcimbini, kungcono ukungabonisi ukuthi ungcono kunabesifazane abaphethe isikhundla sokuphatha. Uma kungenjalo kungenzeka ukuthi isimo sengqondo ngokuqondene nawe siyoba nomphumela omubi futhi emsebenzini uzophulwa ngenxa yephutha kanye nokubhekwa okuncane.
Ungavuli umphefumulo wakho kuwo wonke umuntu
Ukuze uphumelele, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukubeka ngokucacile uhlaka phakathi komsebenzi nokuphila komuntu siqu. Khumbula ukuthi kunzima ukusebenza endaweni enzima, ukhathazeka ngokuthi amanye amakhosikazi akhuluma kanjani ngemfihlo yakho nezinkinga zakho. Ngakho-ke, uma okokuqala iqoqo lithinta kahle kakhulu, londla amaqebelengwane futhi libonisa ukuzimisela ukulalela nokusiza, akudingeki ukholwe ngokungahambisani nokuthembeka kwabo. Mhlawumbe laba besifazane bafuna ukuzithembela, bese ukuvimbela impumelelo. Lokhu kungenzeka kakhulu esimweni lapho uqonda ngempela ukuthi unedatha engokwenyama kanye namakhono engqondo. Ngakho-ke, uma uqaphela ukuthi ukufeza indawo yeqembu ngandlela-thile kulula kakhulu, qaphela futhi ungakapheli isikhathi esingaphansi.
Ungazizwa ngoqhinga
Ukuze baphumelele, abesifazane abaningi banamathele emaqenjini athile eqenjini, okwamanje liphumelela kakhulu futhi izwi labo linesisindo esikhulu kakhulu. Noma kunjalo, izenzo ezinjalo azisebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akekho oqinisekisa ukuthi kusasa "amandla" ngeke ashintshe futhi elinye iqembu osuvele ulibeke ngokumelene nawe ngeke libe likhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona ukuthi kukhona impi eqondile ekuhlanganyeleni, kungcono ukuyibeka eceleni.
Khumbula ukuthi emsebenzini, okokuqala, kudingeka usebenze, kodwa ungafaki izikhala eceleni. Ngakho-ke, gxila ekugcwalisekeni kwezabelo zakho futhi ungazami ukubonakala kangcono kunabanye noma uzuze. Yenza nje umsebenzi wakho ngendlela enhle futhi enokwethenjelwa.
Amathiphu omsebenzi wesifazane
Omunye amathiphu ambalwa kwabesifazane abaya eqenjini labesifazane ngezinkhundla zobuholi. Kulokhu, ungazami ukukhombisa ukuthi wazi konke okungcono kunezinye. Lalela umbono weqoqo futhi uthathe iseluleko uma zilungile futhi zengqondo.
Ukuze isikhundla sephini kuyadingeka ukuqoka owesifazane onamandla kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo akacabangi ukuthi ungasithatha kanjani isihlalo sakho. Akufanele ube nokulwa, ngisho nephini.
Njengoba uhlala eqenjini labesifazane futhi usuphumelele kakade, khumbula ukuthi uzoba nomhawu futhi uxoxe ngemuva kwakho. Unganaki lokhu. Ekuphileni, unabantu abakwaziyo futhi abakuthandayo ngeqiniso, futhi emsebenzini kufanele nje wenze imisebenzi yakho ngendlela efanele. Uma ungumchwepheshe oqeqeshiwe ngempela, akukho ukuhleba nokuhlehlisa okuzokuvimbela ukuba uphumelele.