Kuvame ukuthi abantu bavele ngemva kokushada kuhlukile. Abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okuthola amaphuzu amasha okusekela, ukuze baqaphele izifiso zabo emkhakheni wobudlelwane bomndeni nabomuntu siqu. Phela, imindeni ivame ukuwa ngoba owesifazane uchitha okuningi empilweni yomuntu. Futhi uthando lwakhe lube luhlungu entanyeni, okwenza umuntu ngokwemvelo afune ukuqeda.
Amadoda emva kokuhlukanisa cishe angathola ezitolo noma emisebenzini entsha. Ngemuva kokuba umfazi ongathandeki enezimfuno zakhe kanye nezinto ezibonakalayo ezisele esikhathini esidlule, indoda ingazama ukuphumelela ezindaweni ezihlukene kakhulu zomsebenzi. Phela, manje akekho ozomhlambalaza ngenxa yokungatholi ngokwanele, futhi angabangela ingozi, isibonelo, ukudala ibhizinisi lakhe, ukutshala izimali zakhe zokugcina nokuzigweba ezinyangeni eziningana zokuphila kwesigamu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, thola ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa kungokwamadoda nabesifazane. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi isehlukaniso sibuhlungu kwabaningi, futhi kuyisenzakalo esibuhlungu ngempela, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi isehlukaniso siyithuba lokuthola izitsha ezintsha zokusebenzisa imizamo. Lesi yisikhathi sokuzama isitayela esisha ebuhlotsheni. Lena ithuba lokuzilibazisa okuthandayo owawuthandayo. Lokhu, ekugcineni, kuyithuba elisha lokuthola umlingani ocansini ofanelekile, okubalulekile futhi.
Into esemqoka oyidingayo uma uvele uhlukanisile, noma nje ukuhlukanisa, yizona zindlela eziyinhloko zokuphuma ngokushesha ekucindezelekeni kokuthungatha, okwenzeka cishe kuwo wonke umuntu oboshwe. Futhi okungahle kubhekiswe kwisigaba sezinto ezivamile nezijwayelekile.
Okokuqala, ungalutholi omusha ngokulimala endala. Thatha isikhathi nethuba lokukhipha yonke imizwelo emibi. Ungakhala, ungahlanganyela ngokwezemidlalo, ukhulume ezingxoxweni nabangani nabangani. Ngandlela-thile, zama ukunciphisa isisindo okuhlangenwe nakho okungajabulisi kokuqala ngemva kwesahlukaniso.
Okwesibili, ukuphumelela emva kokuhlukanisa cishe akunakwenzeka, uma uzama ukubuyisela oshade naye noma ufuna ukugcina ubuhlobo naye. Mnike ukuba ahambe. Futhi uma uhlala eduze komunye nomunye futhi unebhizinisi elivamile noma izingane, zama okwesikhashana ukumisa bonke oxhumana nabo abangakhathaleli lezi zindaba ezivamile - ngeposi, yi-ICQ, ngocingo. Ukuzama ukuhlanganisa ubudlelwane obubhubhisayo obungenakuqhathaniswa, nje uqinisa isikhathi sokucindezeleka okujulile futhi uqinise imiphumela ebuhlungu yesahlukaniso.
Okwesithathu, isehlukaniso njenganoma iyiphi inkinga kuyisenzakalo sokuphinda uhlaziye impilo yakho. Indlela yokuphumelela ngemva kokuhlukanisa nokuzithola - lokhu akuyona yonke imibuzo engenalutho, okudingayo indlela yokucabanga. Ochwepheshe emkhakheni wokuphathwa kwabasebenzi sekuyisikhathi eside beqaphela ukuthi abantu abafinyelela ezindaweni eziphakeme zezemisebenzi bavame ukukwenza endaweni ehambisana nezifiso kanye namaphupho abo. Ake sithi uphoqelekile ukuba usebenze njengomuntu we-akhawunti ngaphambi kokuhlukanisa, njengoba lo msebenzi usiza ukuba ume ngokuqinile ngezinyawo zakho, ukondle umndeni wakho, inja, unikeze ithuba lokugudluza imoto uhambo oluya e-dacha bese uya eTurkey kanye ngonyaka ukuphumula. Futhi enhliziyweni yakho sekuyisikhathi eside uphupha ukuba ngumuntu ozobhala. Ukuhlukanisa kuyisenzakalo esihle kakhulu sokuzanyazanyiswa bese uzama ukwenza lokho okukude okukuphuphile. Kunezinhlobo ezimbalwa zama-stylists amahle kunama-akhawunti athile amahle. Mhlawumbe ngoba abantu abaningi abanjengawe, isikhathi eside, besaba ukuzama imisebenzi yokudala, bazizwe benamahloni ukusebenza njenge-freelancer. Kodwa uma ufuna ngempela, kuyinto engokoqobo ukuphumelela kunoma iyiphi insimu. Futhi inkundla esondelene nezintshisekelo zakho ngokuvamile iyisihluthulelo segolide ekuphumeleleni komsebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyisihluthulelo senjabulo. Thola imali yalokho okuthandayo ukukwenza-akulona yini iphupho cishe wonke umuntu ohlala emhlabeni? Maye, kodwa ngokuvamile abashadile bavimbela amaphupho omunye nomunye. Futhi emva nje kokuhlukanisa, ngamunye wabo uthola ithuba lokuzitholela uhlobo lomsebenzi osondelene namaphupho nezifiso zakhe.
Futhi, ekugcineni, okwesine. Ngemuva kokuthi ukwazi ukubeka ibanga elingokomzwelo nomuntu oshade naye, usuke uveza imizwelo emibi futhi uzithola uzithokozisa noma umsebenzi othakazelisayo, sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha impilo yakho. Ungagudluli isandla sakho ithuba lokuqala umndeni futhi. Ngokuvamile ngemva kokuhlukanisa, bobabili amadoda nabesifazane bazifunga bona ngeke bakhulume ngomshado. Futhi njengoba ngizinike isimo sengqondo sokuba nesizungu, sibheka izihlobo ezithandekayo nezethembisayo. Kodwa empeleni ukuze uphumelele futhi ungakwazi ukuphumelela empilweni yakho siqu - izinto ezingavumelani. Into eyinhloko ukuqonda ukuthi isehlukaniso sakho sikunike ithuba elihle. Wanikeza ithuba lokuzitholela emaceleni amasha, okwakungakafaneli umlingani womphefumulo noma amalungu omndeni wakhe. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, isehlukaniso yisikhathi sokuthola okufanelekile nakakhulu, nangomfanekiso womcabango, nasezindinganisweni ezibalulekile zomuntu othandekayo.