Kufanele uqonde ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi intombazane ingashintsha indlela yakhe yokuzijabulisa, ukuzithokozisa okusha kuzovela. Ushintsho lwakhe lwesilulumagama.
Awukwazi ukuxazulula ngokushesha izinkinga zobusha. Yiba nesineke futhi uqhubeke usebenza nengane, khuluma naye, ukhulume ngothando lwakho kuye. Phela, ngamunye wabazali wayesebeneminyaka yobudala.
Qonda ukuthi intsha kule minyaka igcwele amandla nokuphefumulelwa. Abantu abadala ngokuvamile abaqondi ukubekezela kwentsha. Baqala ukucindezela ukuphila kwabo, kunokubasiza bathole umsebenzi ofanele. Intsha ayikho embi kakhulu futhi ayikho okubi, ingabantu abavamile abazama ukufunda ukuphila komuntu omdala.
Ingane inamandla amaningi nabantu abadala, iqala ukumangaza futhi ivalo. Abazali baqala ukuzungezisa ingane esemusha ngenqabela, futhi lokhu ngeke kwenzeke. Kudingeka zizungezwe uthando nokuqonda.
Ukuze bathole inhlonipho evela entsheni, abazali kufanele bahlale begcina izithembiso zabo. Ukunika ingane yakho isithembiso, kumele uqiniseke ngokuphelele ukuthi uyakwazi ukuwagcwalisa. Uma uphula lesi sithembiso, ingane izosuka kuwe futhi ikholwe ukuthi ngeke usasakwazi. Ekugcineni, ulahlekelwa.
Abazali kufanele baqonde ukuthi intsha eneminyaka engu-13 ingazizwa njengomuntu oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala ovuthiwe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nonyaka oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Kule minyaka yobudala, izingane zifuna ukunakekelwa nokusiza abadala ukuba bahlele ukuphila okuqhubekayo. Ungazungeza ingane yakho ngemingcele kanye nokuvinjelwa, kepha yenza ubudlelwane obethembayo.
Lapho intombazane ingabonisa ukuzimela kwayo, funda indlela yokwenza into efanele, cabanga ukuthi isikhathi sesisakhula siphume ngempumelelo.
Vumela izingane zakho ezisencane zibe abantu abagcwele.